Why do men always go for skinny girls?

[Anonymous]

Why do men always go for skinny girls instead of real woman with curves !

[cun7n1nja]

I'm nowhere near skinny and never have been, and I don't see that at all, lol. I get chased by all kinds of guys, sometimes a few at a time, even if just briefly or in a purely sexual way sometimes. Like there's usually no shortage of male attention. I got very little attention from guys until after high school, but I just chalk that up to the typical high school 'herd' mentality a lot of high school aged kids tend to follow. Most kids that age just openly like what they're 'supposed' to like, even if they actually also like things that are less accepted and not the norm in high school society, openly being attracted to bigger girls as well as small ones, for example. High school and the real world are very different places with very different mindsets and code of conduct, social 'rules', etc. But once high school was over and I hit 'adulthood', I notice tons of guys of all types who are into bigger girls, and who aren't ashamed about it. I see plenty of other bigger girls snag good quality men [take that as you will, they can be any body type].

I'm not thin at all. I'm 5'7" and weigh probably right now about 190 pounds, 38C, 40 inch hips, but my waist isn't like super defined or anything, not noticeably 'super curvaceous' at all, except maybe my legs which are fairly toned and shapely. I have a chubby belly, but not overly so, and I know how to dress to flatter what I have to work with, lol. I have a lot of muscle because I was really athletic up through adolescence [but always with plenty of chub no matter how active I was], so I guess I carry it well, but there's no mistaking me for a smaller girl, I'm just BUILT bigger, aside from the chub, I'm sturdy but soft. I've had guys of all different body types express interest at one time or another, from bone thin to much bigger.

What, in your words, makes you feel like men never go after girls who have meat on their bones? I just wonder, because even if I didn't ever get attention from guys, I still see it around me all the time. Big girls of the world aren't just all forever alone, lol.

[AnavelJay]

I see questions like this a lot on here but to be honest, it's all about personal prefrence where I'm from. about 50% of the guys where I'm from go for thin, and the other 50% go for thick, I don't know why that's just the way it is, for example would you go for someone outside your personal preference? It's all about personality and attitude, you could be thin and beautiful but if you're arrogant about it, then that's the one asking "why do guys only go for thick girls" if your attitude sucks.. Then you suck.

[Belleoftheball]

They think

" Might as well get them while they are skinny now because as soon as I wife her up she will let herself go and turn into a hippo"

It's sad, and many women who are naturally curvy can get back to their regular weight with determination,excersice and healthy food.

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[Belleoftheball]

:O thanks hun <3

[AdamThomas]

Isn't it funny how instead of doing that and working on themselves to become more attractive, they prefer to complain about men being attracted to slim women and try to tell us what we should be attracted to.

[Belleoftheball]

No one is forcing you to not be attracted to slim women. Just don't expect every women in the world to be a size 0-4. Many women are born with different frames because of genetics. Just beacuse a chick is skinny doesn not mean she is pretty.

[StevenVW]

Errrrmmm I'm sorry but no... just no.

How uneducated are you ? what men find attractive about women and what women find attractive about men is the same in both cases, we're always attracted to good health and strong genetics.

The features men prefer in women indicate fitness and good health, and the same goes the other way around.

So this is your answer and yet you claim that men are shallow ?

Such hubris.

[Belleoftheball]

Why the hell are you on my answer? mind your own business thank you. if you didn't like my answer don't comment :) k? bye

[iamstayinganonymous]

I did not read the argument here or any posts but belle has my support because of that badonkadonk

[StevenVW]

The reason we like "skinny" girls (and "skinny" really means a lean girl with a beautiful bubble-butt) has the same reasons as why girls like a trained hard-body man with a skin tone, square jaw etc.

IT'S SIMPLY HOT !

And like the others here said ... being fat does not equate being a "real woman with curves"

[cun7n1nja]

I'm actually NOT attracted to those type of guys at all, initially. I know what you're saying and I agree with your general point, lol, but those aren't the kind of guys I go for at all, unless obviously I find something irresistible about their personality. That look alone, nothing but the visual, just isn't what appeals to me. Except the strong jaw part, haha. I tend to be more attracted to guys who are built bigger, strong, taller [not always], but who are a little softer and have some chub.

[RedThread]

Lol... is this a troll question? Why are women "with curves" more womanly than women who are more petite? There are beautiful women with slight curves and beautiful women with lots of curves. If by curvy you mean overweight then it's the same reason why women don't go for overweight men.

[Ultima]

" If by curvy you mean overweight then it's the same reason why women don't go for overweight men."

Bingo

[Stacyzee]

"real women with curves"

You're putting skinny women down, just because men in your area usually do not go for your body type.

That isn't the way to go.

Insulting others to boost your self esteem.

Just because a woman isn't curvaceous doesn't make her less of anything.

Men have their preferences and their types.

I'm sure there are plenty of men that would go for your figure, you just have to keep looking.

[martyfellow]

Personally, I like bouncing girls on my knee, and I'd get a ruptured ACL trying that with a lot of the girls these days.

Seriously, the thin girls are healthier, more together, and often have naturally shadowed and curved eyes, which I adore.

Not to mention they tend to look more alluring in clothes, which mostly are designed for them.

[pickledxtofu]

When girls such as yourself compare skinny to curvy, it becomes apparent that by curvy you mean chubby/chunky/fat

Guys typically don't like fat girls

That's life

[Asker]

No I was only asking the question as I was chubby and now in 3 stone lighter and the men who didn't want me wants me now

[Theguyoverthere]

Because most girls who call themselves curvy are just plain fat and disgusting.

It's just a lie they tell themselves to sleep at night.

[Asker]

Okay if you say so!

[Anonymous]

Its for the same reason that women always go for extremely good looking and/or super rich guys, even if the guy happens to be an alcoholic, drug addict, rapist or murderer.

In my case, it doesn't matter to me if she's skinny or curvy, as long as she isn't obese.

[Stark]

I didn't know men -always- did this, but if you're right and they do, I would think it's because fit and healthy people in general seem more prospective and attractive :P

[Asker]

I don't think its right thou ,woman with curves are as good as skinny ,who wants a bone when they can have a bit of meat

[Stark]

I know, I agree with you. I prefer chub over bones any day, and there are a lot more like me :P

[Asker]

Most men don't thou

[jmurk]

Do you mean men in general or the guys that you want?If so, give the guys you don't want a chance because it's obvious the guys you want don't want you .

[Asker]

I did lose weight lost over 3 stone and the man who didn't want me wants me now and that's why I was asking

[jmurk]

Don't do it. He's shallow.

[Anonymous]

"instead of real woman with curves" ugh Go jump off a bridge. Why does having extra weight make you a "real woman"?

[Asker]

Some woman are big boned that doesn't mean its extra weight and thanks for the lovely comment

[Belleoftheball]

Women are supposed to have extra weight for child birth purposes

[Theguyoverthere]

Eating garbage all day instead of working out at the gym is apparently what "real women" do nowadays. Don't work hard at those goals! Just eat garbage and get fat!

[Opinion Owner]

lol Going with the big boned thing, are we? You just threw that out there to avoid my question. Why do you think you are better than them? Why do you think you are more of a woman than them? What's your definition of "woman" exactly? You know what? All of that might as well be rhetorical because I highly doubt I'm getting a logical answer to them.

@belle: Extra fat compared to men, I know. That's not what we're talking about here, is it? That's a piss poor response.

[BoobMan]

I'm a fan of thin with curves, so not sure how that figures in.

[SaltandVinegar]

Men go for girls with curves too! just not fat girls

[archer86]

Start hanging out with black men. We like women with some meat on their bones

[1inmillion]

Why do women want Brad Pitt's face on Channing Tatum's body!

[Anonymous]

They don't. Two words: Devin Brugman. The girl is like walking viagra. And I'd call her the epitome of a woman with curves. Which is different from a fat cow.

[Anonymous]

stop being lazy and lose weight

[Asker]

I did and now the lads who didn't want me want me now ,i was only asking a simple question

[Opinion Owner]

good job. so now you get it? most fat girls = unnatractive

[mike5150]

Pretty much every girl I have chased has curves

[Anonymous]

This is why I only date black men.

[Anonymous]

Most women have curves though. I think.