For me it's more complicated. A woman can be carrying around some extra weight and still be attractive. A woman can also be too skinny to be attractive. So it's all about being somewhere in a middle ground. Though in general addiction issues tend to make a woman look unattractive in general. Because addiction issues scream I am super unhealthy and have serious issues. Though all of the above can very much be sad of men as well. So I think everyone should shoot for a middle ground that works for them and avoid getting addicted to something.
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What's sad is guys like you that think all women need to fatten up. Leave women alone. If they are fat, and they are happy with that, then let it be. Same in reverse. People are simply naturally the way they are sometimes and can't be anything else. Learn to appreciate the woman instead of her body form.
I say this because a woman here said she had to gain weight for health reasons, and your reply had nothing to do with recognizing her health issues and everything to do with your personal preference.
I feel like this is the hardest part for curvy girls like me. I can lose so much weight but im still at a standstill to where I can’t lose more weight. I’m on a calorie deficit and workout almost every day. I’m 5’4 and 144lbs. I’m not able to lose any more weight I already lost 20lbs. I’d love to be thin and desirable but no matter what I do I cannot lose more weight. I’m just happy I’m at a healthy average weight now.
No one wants a mate who is overweight and unhealthy. I'm not sure what your definition of skinny is but I know plenty of men who like fit women with curves (not fat) and fit women who are thin and / or athletic built. All that thick stuff isn't cute. Thick is just another word for fat
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I think chubby girls are cute tho
Don't try to like different type of chlothes just cause of how society wants you to look
Everyone is beautiful in their own way (honestly) no I'm not saying that because people always do
But ugly on the outside is still beautiful maybe more beautiful on the inside once you get to know someone but everyone has a way of being what people call beautiful maybe its small but hopefully it helps
Like if people always say something like you have the perfect nose or eyes or lip shape or hair or ears
Or pretty hands?
There's always at least one thing somebody can think of that is true that makes you beautiful
You might have not bet them yet but there is someone our there who will truly mean it when they say you're beautifulThey don't. This is 3 layers of inception XD girls falsely think men like this. So they compete. And then Men like you see this struggle girls are having and don't understand. So seeing that, you assume most men must like this and that's why you ask this XD. Truth is, it's all based on bullshit that nobody actually likes. Girls made that shit up. It's wrong. But now everyone, even men think this is a thing and it makes men who don't like it feel like weirdos even though they are the vast majority.
Skinny vs. thick tends to be a matter of style, while the preference for a waist that is narrower than the hips (optimum waist-to-hip ratio is 0.7; both Twiggy and Marilyn Monroe had it) is hard-coded into men by evolution because it correlates with health and fertility. Skinny is often in fashion during good economic times because it signals restraint from excess. Thick is often in fashion during hard times because it signals access to food. The waist-to-hip ratio preferred by men on average never changes.
It's not about the weight it's about the self-respect they have for their own good. I mean because some just don't care at all.
Sure I agree most can't help it. And it's understandable really I understand.
With years I've dated different build girls and conclusion is I rather be with a healthy person then one who doesn't care at all about his health.
A little is normal and fine. But to much is to much.
Even personalty can't help if they don't care.By skinny do you mean thin? I doubt most guys like dangerously underweight girls. Just like guys aren't interested in obese girls either. Neither extreme is healthy. Some guys have that preference and find that body type attractive. Just like some guys prefer thick and curvy girls or chubby girls.
from what i've seen most guys prefer thicc or even chubby girls though, and a moderate amount like thin girls, and a very small amount like skinny ones
Well in my culture skinny isn't really the most desired body type. I think Haifa Wehbe has the perfect body type.
I'm not really sure how to phrase this. I'd imagine it would be offensive to those who aren't skinny, but I don't mean it that way. To preface, beauty is subjective. I'm not asserting my opinions or perspectives are factual. But I see skinniness and daintiness to be very, very feminine. It inspires an instinctual desire to protect (and provide for).
They love to feel bigger. I must add here that they like skinny without flatness in my country though unlike the Western countries. You should have some curves (especially big breasts) with a flat tummy. Many men also like bigger women. Anorexic look is hated more than slightly chubby.
I think it's mainly white and east Asian men who like too skinny with a flat body.I tend to be attracted to anyone that isn't extremely lean or extremely overweight.
I'm literally underweight :(
Am gaining weight thoughYea I dunno man I’m made fun of for being so small 👩🦯
Let's use an analogy. We like free roaming cats, shile your cat is a home prisoner with owner who finds joy in overfeeding it's pet. You never see obesity in nature, we just like what is healthy. Fat accumulation makes sense in the arctic. Overeating is an addiction, in case you didn't know. But than again some people like heroine addicts too.
The two types I like the most are athletic girls (almost no girls are actually athletic and fit) and skinny petite girls that are so wimpy that many 12 year olds could legitimately beat her up even though she is an adult. I don't care for average builds.
Yessss thick girls with a little tummy pooch are so sexy
Paw paw said closer to the bone sweeter then meat. Plus I think maybe I do cause all the women in my family is fat. I dunno good question got me thinking bout why.
Kim Kardashian isn't skinny. Guys often prefer curvy girls
Men are attracted to girl with a small waist to hip ratio. If you have a big tummy, you don't have an hour-glass figure. Some men prefer thin girl; other men prefer average size girls but, regardless, they prefer that they have a small waist ot hip ration. Ideally the a girl's waist to hip ratio is 0.7, whether 22" waist and 31.5" hips or 25" waist and 36" hips.
Well, as I understand it, many of them don't like skinny girls, and prefer the curvy type.
Because pleasure of eyes and great sex when I performed any action move around.
To be honest undescribed in words, I love it and luckily my girlfriend is slim attractive southeast Asian girl
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