Girls, guys, what do you prefer? Cuteness or sexiness?

[BarbaraP]

Starting with myself, I have to say that it's easier to say when a girl is sexy/cute than when I guy is. I think I like, in a man, a mixture of both, or a prevalence of cutess referring to it also as the way he acts towards me, which is more importante than his looks.

My boyfriend is a romantic person, he prefers cuteness and usually calls me that. I look younger than I actually am, so I think cute is the first idea you get from looking at me (always IF you like me of course). Whenever I do something sexy without even notice it and my boyfriend calls me that, I get shy, so I fall back into the cute-zone. Ahah.

What about you? What do you prefer and what are you?

[Daph81]

On a guy, I prefer sexiness.
On a girl, it depends on what do you mean by the word "sexy". For most people, "sexy" means a girl who shows a lot of skin. For me, that's not sexy, that's skanky. So between cute and showing a lot of skin, I pick cute.

[BarbaraP]

Sexy can also mean being curvy, walking in a certain way, acting with confidence. It can be something that is not showing off, something that comes natural. Doesn't have to be 'slutty'.

[Daph81]

in that case, sexy =)

[GrandiA]

My ex have always told me that there's certain cuteness in me.

My preference for a guy is sexiness!

[BarbaraP]

From your answers here and what I know from my female friends, it looks like women prefer sexiness

[GrandiA]

I'd like to state that my definition of sexiness here is a combination of physical, mental and emotional. The smell and when it's good, is even sexy. I'll be lucky if the guy that I find sexy is also cute!

[bleedingquadrophenic]

The two aren't mutually exclusive.
Besides, both questions really depend on perception. What is cute to someone may be sexy to another and vice versa.

[BarbaraP]

Right, everything is relative.

[dodgypirate]

Cuteness is miles ahead of sexiness. Cute girls are usually very humble about their looks and don't throw it at you.

[Keyspirits]

Cute! Im one of the most romantic luvable person that u will ever met =)

[BarbaraP]

Nuce :)

[BarbaraP]

Nice*

[Keyspirits]

With her being cute, i can stare at her all day everday by her side without blinking *-*
Smexy on the other hand is quite nice plus her beautiful personality doubles the happiness =D

[BarbaraP]

So sexiness alone doesn't do it for you. Smexy or cute or both is okay?

[Keyspirits]

Well, if she has a crappy perosonality while is cute, i dump her within seconds. Gurls like that are quite rare.
Smexy on the other hand doesn't usually have the bishy attitude like the average smexy looken one. Its quite hard to choose tho cuz personality plays an important role into liking them as well.

[JellyBeans77]

both are desirable..but cuteness more :)

[BarbaraP]

I'm with you

[Dragonblood21]

Nothing stops cute from being sexy as well.

[BarbaraP]

It depends on the person. If, besides looking cute, yor attitude is 'cute', it's difficult (See the example in my question of me getting shy).

[Dragonblood21]

Not entirely. Sexy is turning someone on, or being sexually appealing, and there is certainly sexual appeal in being shy/embarrassed. There is actually A LOT of sexual appeal in that.

[BarbaraP]

I didn't think about that. Sounds like the difference s between cute and sexy are not as big as I thought.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I prefer cute, overall.

[kangaru2]

Whyyyy

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It's just what I've been attracted to, the 'girl-next-door' type rather than the sexpot. Mary-Ann over Ginger

[BarbaraP]

Cute as in looking cute or also in acting cute?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well I do want the sex pot in the bedroom, but someone to act cute outside of the bedroom.

[BarbaraP]

I get your point!

[NoblesseOblige]

Sexy. Cuteness is inferior.

[BarbaraP]

I can't totally agree but thanks for the answer :)

[Dionysos]

Cute IS sexy.