Guys do you prefer the Cute/sweet looking girl or the Pretty/Hot one?

[Anonymous]

(pics included) Obviously both types of girls are beautiful but I'm just wondering which one would you rather date and be with? . who do you find more attractive? ... I am using celeb pics and IG models as examples...

Cute girl 1

Cute girl 2

Cute girl 3

Hot girl 1

Hot girl 2

Hot girl 3

Hot girl 4

[pajamasam]

A lot of times the "cute/sweet" girl and the "pretty/hot" girl are the same person.

For me the difference is in approachability.

Does your tinder profile feature nothing but pics from parties and beach bikini pics?

- you probably look hot but you also look extremely socially active and might seem slightly intimidating to a guy who is searching

Does your tinder profile have at least one picture of you in pajamas or in work out clothes or not looking "completely put together"?

Congratulations you now look hot AND approchable.

Its all in presentation really the cute/sweet girl seems like the better option because she seems approqchable and down to earth

The pretty/hot girl is basically just as attractive but she looks and acts like a fashion model and that can be intimidating.

[Avicenna]

Sweetness rules. Sweet women are awesome

[hopegirly]

:) :)

[Asker]

Strongly agree :)

[Quackthulu]

I think you and I have very different taste in women. Only two of them are above a 5. But that's a little off topic. Both "cute/sweet" and "pretty/hot" can be lot of fun. But if you real want to give me a lady-boner find me one who perfectly straddles the line between cute and sexy.

[Asker]

I mean I think all these girls I posted are attractive some not as much as others and there's definitely way better looking ones but for the purpose of the stereotypes I used these pics... I just wanted to know because this will sound funny but I wanted to know how most guys would see me... even though I didn't post my own pics in this I know what type of vibe I give off lol

[Quackthulu]

Fair enough

[Marilynjuana]

Unpopular opinion but those "hot" ones look scary to me. The "cute" ones are so much more hot and they don't need to cover their faces with 5 pounds of make up or dress skanky to make an impression.

[Asker]

I mean they look good without it too... a couple of the hot girls I posted are YouTubers and they look flawless without their make up... hot girl 2 just had a baby and she's in a good relationship.. she looks beautiful natural I just didn't post the natural pics cause it was going to be too long... but thanks for sharing your opinion. I'm just trying to see what people would date or be attracted to :)

[RemoErdosain]

"Cute girl 2" looks just like a whore and not "cute" at all, in my opinion. The cute ones all look physically attractive, while of the hot girls I only think number one and number two look really good, while the rest aren't that appealing to me. Like it was mentioned, most of the hot ones you picked go way over the top with the make-up. Here I'm just talking about how attractive they are. When it comes to who do I date, I'd rather be in a relationship with cute girl 1, since she seems modest and doesn't invite a lot of attention, unlike most of the others, and is also very pretty

[CaptainOverthink]

Ehhm.. in my opinion..
Cute and beautiful is usually in the same category. Sure, there are some girls that are less attractive but have some cuteness to them. So I get your point I guess..
However the pictures you put up as examples are bad examples. The girls in the cute category (according to your pics) are the hot Ones. And the hot ones are.. well, Superfake/plastic and utterly undatable in that state, unless they have a great mind.

Girls with only cute trait but not hot would be more like.. a bit too chubby, degenerate or unhealthy but may have a cute face/eyes or behavior.

If hot but not cute then, slim to fit bodytype and face.

[1Anon]

To me, the hot girl isn’t hot and probably doesn’t look good without all of that makeup on. I’ve found that guys typically like cute girls without makeup or very little. Plus, when those girls wear makeup, they could only look hotter. However, girls who have a face full of makeup (your hot girl) may look ugly or just not attractive.

[Lovely_kh]

True

[Grond21]

Cute, hands down. The hot girls above look very high maintenance

[Asker]

What do guys mean when they say high maintenance?

[Grond21]

Depends on the guy. They mean either that she will spend a significant amount of time on her looks, or that she will make lots of demands of him.

In this case, I mean both

[Asker]

Oh interesting..

[Grond21]

Interesting how?

[Asker]

Well I haven't really seen like my own friends and women around me be extremely demanding of their boyfriends... if anything I am surrounded by lots of amazing women who gave too much of themselves to men who didn't appreciate them so it's just something I'm not familiar with yk... like it's interesting to me that women are judged so easily by looks and if a woman takes care of her body, clothes , hair, makeup whatever she is deemed to be a high maintenance person who will take or demand more of her partner. I mean I am sure there are women like this and I have heard of stories where there are men that will do anything for one girl but just didn't see it first hand... that's all. I said interesting as the short response but in my mind many things came up. Also I myself love fashion and ever since I was a little girl I always loved nice clothes and looking cute/dressing up... but personality wise I have always been outgoing and tomboyish.. playing baseball with the boys in the street , riding my bike all around etc. But with all that I still loved wearing dresses and drawing my own designs and creating jewelry from scratch... whatever so now as an adult I do the same and I love dressing nice, doing my hair pretty and makeup sometimes... I guess from first impression I would appear to be high maintenance too then... but I don't know I don't feel that way nor do I make demands on others for my stuff... like my ex boyfriend would tell me constantly he thought I was too pretty for him... and I would be astonished because yk I don't see myself as "too good" ... but I guess it's a perspective and everyone has a different one

[Asker]

Sorry I kind of rambled on but it makes me think of many things

[Grond21]

No it's okay, because you made me think of many things too.

Perhaps I was too hasty. When I see a girl who has put this much time and attention into her looks, it's easy to assume that she is the stereotypical girl who is not doing it out of a love of fashion but out of insecurity. that she doesn't like the way she looks without makeup and she's uncomfortable with it.
But that's not what you're describing. You're showing a different side which is intriguing. A girl who dresses up really nicely not because she's insecure, but because she loves fashion and loves looking feminine. But isn't intimidated by being tomboyish, getting dirty, etc. And that is actually a really powerful and attractive combination.
So thank you for pointing that out. I'll try to be less assumptive and judgmental in the future

[Asker]

Thank you for understanding, and yeah it's not always about insecurities. I mean I understand there's some women who aren't interested in fashion or who hate makeup. In fact my younger sister hates it and never likes to use any even for events sometimes she's hesitant but for women who do it's not just to cover up insecurities. It's a hobby or passion or way of self expression. A girl who looks high maintenance is just another human , she's not that different and maybe what she's doing is helping her express parts of her that she can't in another way or that just makes sense through style. I understand many males enjoy sports or video games and follow along with those things very carefully or shoe trends... similarly women sometimes obsess over clothes or nails or hair it's just something that serves as a passion or hobby. I try my best to not judge people solely based on looks... I mean first impressions are different sometimes we can't control the way our minds are subconsciously programed yk. But I have noticed that people tend to be more skeptical or meaner to those who look more high maintenance then someone that looks plain. I mean I guess we are just subconsciously taught to associate certain qualities with looks... before we actually get the chance to observe and understand who that person actually is.

[Grond21]

It does make sense. And it sounds like you have experience that a lot. People just seeing the surface, and stereotyping you because of it. It sounds both frustrating and sad actually. And I'm sorry I did it.
You know, I think some girls are high maintenance. But, when you think about it, that's much more about their character. If a girl is doing fashion and makeup because she likes it then that's just her doing her hobby. And that's great. If she's doing it because she feels like she has to in order to be treated well, then she's dealing with more problems. Or worse, if she does it in order to control or manipulate others. Sort of like the classic mean girl. But I can tell that you're not like that at all. And I appreciate that a lot.
I know that I have seen behind the curtain, so to speak, I would be honored if you followed me. I would like to talk to you more about this, and why you love fashion and makeup so much.
That's an offer though, but you don't feel under any obligation to say yes

[Quidthonian]

My choices are for the non-smokers in the group. If my life depended on the choice, it would be number 3. She is the most "plane Jane" of the lot. I would need to see her character: I would need to see her in a very stressful situation. I would need to see her completely relaxed. I would be watching very carefully.

[abutaher]

You are exactly right. She has something different.

[jennifer_bloom]

Without make up Selena Gomez does not seem cute to me and the hot girl looks cuter than the cute girls so I vote for the hot one

[Browneye57]

We like them all. Just be your true honest self and let the chips fall where they may.

[Asker]

Good Answer! :)

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

Cute girl wins.
Any cute girl is more beautiful to me than someone like those that you call beautiful I think that was one of those Kardashians I'm not sure I don't watch PRIMETIME TV but she looks deformed

[MysteriousDarkness]

The ones you chose for hot have had work done and or are wearing way too much makeup.

[Asker]

I guess we'll in your world who ever you view as hit it cute... would you rather chose hot look or cute? Both have a good personality

[MysteriousDarkness]

Out of the photos that you posted I pick cute.

[Asker]

Okay

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I wouldn't consider these make up covered instagram models as hot, too fake for me. And mostly they are very self centered divas.
The face is the most important feature of the girl for me, the body is second. So I'd go for the cute girl.
Like Selena Gomez on the pic. Also the thing with latina chics is, they are often cute and hot

[Guardian45]

I like both Cute/sweet looking and Pretty/Hot girls. They are the SAME to me! Attractiveness is just the basic 'get-in free card', it is NOT the VIP card.

Tbh, the 'VIP card' that separates any girl from the pack is her character, personality and behavior.

[Reaperbot666]

• cute/sweet more then pretty/hot.
• but boils down to personality and attitude.

[Unstoppable20]

Personally I would rather be with the cute sweet girl. I'm not saying this as an absolute statement, but it seems that a lot of the hot girls know it and as a result have an attitude about them. Whereas the cute sweet girl with more than likely bring more to the table as far as a relationship is concerned. Like I said this is obviously not an absolute statement. There are girls that are considered hot who have great personalities.

[anon1903]

Could you maybe next time examplify simple girls? Any would do. I'm sure some public Instagram users won't mind being popularized this way.


What you're showing is a hotel. Everything eatable is good in a hotel. That's what its for, sista!

[sensible27]

Saorsie ronan is cute/pretty, someone like megan fox is generally regarded as 'hot', there sorter it for ya.

[anon1903]

Thanks honey! But no it didn't help :|

[sensible27]

Why not?

[ohshee]

To be honest I woukd take you over all of them and I don't even know what you look like

[BeenThereLovedIt]

#3 is the most attractive to me, but I don't generally date 'pretty girls' because they tend to have extremely high maintenance costs. I stick with 5-6's.

[Asker]

What do guys mean by high maintenance?

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Girls who know they are beautiful can be extremely demanding, overly flirty with other men, used to getting more attention than most, etc.. so they have much higher demands of their SO's than 'normal' girlfriends would. That's the basic explanation - the long explained version would take months to type up.

[Anonymous]

Not to be rude or anything and I know people have their own tastes and everything but in my opinion u chose very average looking girls for "cute" and the "hot ones" r actually kinda ugly, no offense.

Now if I had to choose between attractive cute girls and attractive hot girls then I'd choose hot girls

[_SOARER]

You chose the worst options for "Hot" girls. the one with that fruit drink looks ugly.
Hot girl 2 and 3 are alright. I think if I had to chose it would be them.

I dont like the cute girls you chose either haha.

[Asker]

I mean honestly I was just trying to go with stereotypes and didn't spend that long searching for people online. In my opinion all of these women are beautiful in their own way but thanks for sharing

[DianaWest]

why did you choose the girls with the heaviest makeup for hot/pretty? i don't consider heavy makeup hot or pretty.

[Don-_-Don]

If I had to choose the I'd go with the cute/sweet looking girls.
The "hot" ones aren't giving me good vibes, they're the type to be good for a hook up at best.

[Asker]

Wow that's interesting