My wife's personal trainer flirts with her. Should I allow her to continue training?

[shad654]

My wife started using a personal trainer 6 weeks ago. In these six weeks he keeps flirting with her by telling her how hot she is and how different she is from other girls and last week in a locked assessment room asked her for a kiss. She refused and walked out... but for the remaining lesson kept saying it's just a kiss... its not the end of the world. She refused and made it look light hearted and completed her class with happiness.
She told me the story and I immediately asked her to find a new trainer... but she loves this guy's programme it's the best in her gym.

What should I do? Allow her to continue or ask her to sacrifice her happiness?

Help... I don't wanna hurt my wife in this.

Shad654

Updates

+1 y

I asked my wife to stop training with this guy.
She agreed to as long as I dont report him to his manager and make bad friends for her at the gym. She told him she is quiting training because I have issues with her training with a male trainer.

Updates

+1 y

I am really proud of her for quiting training with him and searching for a new trainer. I love and respect her for agreeing to that but also scared about him still chatting to her daily at gym. Dont know why I am so so troubled about this situation.

[Anonymous]

This guy probably has a nice body and all and most probably women find him sexy. He likes your wife and she "loves this guy's programme". I wouldn't be surprised if your wife cheats on you with this idiot. Figure out a way to convince your wife to find another gym. You might report this guy to his boss as well. If all this would hurt your wife, so be it. You might regret not taking these steps when in the future you possibly find out that your wife and this guy had sex.

[cowsert101]

She can find another trainer that she is just as happy with. I would not at all be happy about this in your shoes. It's fine if he likes her and isn't acting on it. in that situation just trust her. however, as soon as he starts acting on it, she needs to stop going around him

[SillyQuirks_]

Trainers in my experience, typically do flirt to an extent but asking for a kiss is crossing the line and if i was your wife i would end sessions without you telling me.

[acka72]

Accompany your wife to the gym and tell her that you want to work out and spend quality time with her. Also find a female trainer to train both of you guys.

[cowsert101]

I think she should stop going but this is another thing that would probably work

[LaGronio]

Allow? Sorry bub, but unless you pay for it it's not really up to you.

[Michelle892]

I agree 100% this is messed up!

[cavmanier]

Obviously get rid of this guy. She hasn't complained to the gym owner? If she did nothing about it, I think my feelings for her could start to fade. Not sure it's very hypothetical.

[Panzer103]

If this keeps up she might finally give in to him or he might start getting rough trying to take her forcibly. You've got to deal with this guy ASAP. But first tell your wife so she doesn't feel like you're controlling her life.

[Anonymous]

Stand right outside the gym window with a machete in your hand...

... that should clear things right up :)

[douride2]

If it was me I would go have a friendly chat with her trainer.

[ButterflyXkisses]

I agree.

[MarkyyG123]

Don't forget your friendly looking shotgun, mate

[nickstaa]

Get rid of the personal trainer, find another gym , but keep using the same programme lol.

[TheMotherFxcker]

You wouldn't be a nice guy is you didn't let him bang your wife.

[hananananbatman]

Tell her to tell the trainer to stop.