Do upperclassmen guys like underclassmen girls?

[Anonymous]

would a lot of guys go for underclassmen girls? or would they think "oh they're just little kids."

[HikerDude]

Guys like hot girls, period. Some guys might talk big and act publicly like freshmen and sophomore girls are beneath them, but they will crush on them. When I was a HS senior, I had several underclassman girls crush on me. One was only 14 (I was 17) but we talked a lot until her parents found out about me and made her stop talking to me. I briefly dated the other (she was 15) and liked her a lot, but then I graduated and went away to college.

The truth is that I was thrilled that underclassman girls liked me because so many of the girls in my class always wanted to date older guys. When I was a senior, both of the girls I really liked in my class were dating guys in their 20s. I thought it seemed kinda unfair. Then when I started dating the freshman girl, some girls in my class started making fun of me for dating a younger girl. I told them that they were just jealous, and that they had dissed me for four years and now could watch while I had fun dating a younger girl.

[Asker]

ahh thanks so much!

[Dignifire]

If a guy is looking to just get laid then as long as you're 18 he doesn't care how old you are. But you should ignore these losers anyway. A younger girl needs to show that she has some maturity and won't embarrass him around his friends. Generally a guy is going to want to avoid having to deal with his friends saying, "Dude, she's a child. Dump that chick." But shoot, when I was 18 I fell for a girl of 14 and it was a great relationship. The problem I had was moving off to college, so it didn't last long.

[Asker]

thank you!!

[Dionysos]

Depends on the individuals. At that age though, folks mostly want to liik more mature than they are so they might be embarrassed by dating more than a year or two below their age. As we get older, those types of differences become a much smaller fraction of our lives (a 2 year difference is 10% at age 20, but less at 40).

Short version : don't be surprised or take it personally if the guy you want is looking for someone his age.

[Ez_or_Hard]

yes, it depends on the person... i know five guys that go out with underclassmen... its nothing wrong with it cause people get married at different ages so it shouldn't be a problem to date 1, 2 or 3 years behind you or above you

[Asker]

yes i agree!

[jacquesvol]

I avoided them. Why? I don't know , not my taste, too young.
I tried: started talking/listening but dumped them after hearing what they had to tell. Less than a week thus. I didn't try to kiss.

[Asker]

I see your point.

[jacquesvol]

One 13 yo asked me to come to her room at night, I went , we talked, she didn't get a kiss. And that was the last I did see of her. I was told she was angry at me Pfff...

[Asker]

wow! 13? that seems young!

[jacquesvol]

Exactly my idea (even if she looked more like 16)