What does it mean when a girl has a boyfriend but flirts with you and sends you sexy photos?

[Anonymous]

I meet this girl in a class at the start of the semester, after a couple of classes I decided to ask her out and we connected instantly. It was crazy, our first date ended with our first kiss and we had to pull ourselves away from each other; but she wants to get married asap and I want to take my time to get to know each other more. Then on our 2nd date on her birthday the next night we had a great time and eventually hooked up. Then after that there was a weird distance, so I told her we should see other people, but after a couple of weeks and a couple of dates with other girls I realized I was still stuck on this girl. So I told her how I felt and she texted me back and we hit it off again and even did some flirting and light sexting. Though when we're in public she's kind of distant but when we're alone we have a good time. It's been going on and off for a couple of weeks now. But I have no idea what to do cause I really like this girl, but only known her for a month and hardly know her, she never once said she wouldn't want to date me or anything just that she's with a guy now. I'm stuck between flirting and light sexting with a friend which would be like the weirdest friend zone ever or just moving on cause I don't think I'd want to put that much effort into having two "things" I don't know I've never thought about having this kind of things going on so I'm a bit confused. Any advice would do haha

[DoriantheArtisan]

Just get the hell out of this situation, it amounts to nothing but you gettinh hurt, I am not gonna pull the holier than thou card bcs you are getting that here already but consider having a gf that is already very promiscious by cheating on her bf with you, what she gonna do with you once you hook up with her? people don't change over night. Being FWBs with so much garbage attached to it is simply not worth it. You are young, get out enjoy single life until you meet a nice single woman and have fun ;-)

[Anonymous]

To be honest I think she does likes you but she is also cheating on her boyfriend with you. The way I see it is she is using you. I don't think she has much feelings for you. The feelings she has towards you is sexual! You are her dirty little secret and she using you to cheat on her boyfriend. That is just my opinion!!!

[Asker]

Thank you! I needed to hear that from someone else, yeah I felt like I'm just a fling or like I'm being lead on. Though when I ask her about it I just get told that I'm not... Though the question I need to ask myself now is if it's worth being her plaything

[Asker]

iTaco had a point, I'm going to have to cut myself off.

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome and it is probably best that you do. Good luck!!!

[xXiTacoXx]

It means... she has no walls and is a cheating hoe. Don't to it you'll be throwing a hotdog down a wall less hallways. xD

[xXiTacoXx]

hallway*

[Asker]

It wasn't a hotdog in a hallway when we hooked up, but yeah I should consider the other guy in the situation; though it's kind of hard too since I never meet him.

[xXiTacoXx]

Weather you ever meet him or not you still shouldn't do anything with this chick. how would you fee if you had girlfriend and she was screwing some other dude behind your back? You'd feel like shit right? You should put yourself in his should put yourself in his shoes and see how wrong you both are. She's wrong for cheating in the first place and you're wrong for still doing things with her even after finding out she has a boyfriend. It's not cool dude, not cool.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right, would be cool if I tell her that she can hit me up when she makes up her mind on which one of us she wants to see? Or do you think I should abandon this entirely? Like I said I like this girl to the point of stupidity so I can really use outside opinions.

[xXiTacoXx]

You should abandon the situation entirely. It's been this long and she's certainly not making up her mind about anything. Plus, what if she tries to pull the same shit with you and another man if you did get together? You wouldn't like that would you? It's best if you just stopped seeing her or at least stopped doing sexual things with her. There's much better women out there anyway whoa re actually single so you wouldn't be caught sneaking by her S. O. and be in this position.

[Asker]

Well we only hooked up once, and the rest was over the phone flirting and sexting, but yeah that's not really a reason to continue. Still the main point is that you have a point, I'm better of finding something else with less drama and more fidelity. Thanks!

[xXiTacoXx]

Thanks for MH.