A lot of people appear to not really understand that boundary when it comes to being flirty or not. I've known a lot of people who are considered flirty and they had no idea that what they were doing was considered socially inappropriate. (not entirely sure how) Some girls don't intend to be flirty, and some men will take it the wrong way or misunderstand. On the other hand, a girl may be flirting with you if she is in an unhappy relationship, if she's looking to cheat, or any number of things! People will even flirt when bored (which comes off on the unfaithful grounds, usually). So it could be a wide variety of things, but the best bet is to steer clear.
I've met guys who thought I was trying to date them simply because I was a good friend to them and then blamed me for leading them on when I never made a decision to chase or seduce or attract them. They mistook my friendship for interest and then blamed me for "cheating" on them when I had a boyfriend I never mentioned until they decided they wanted to date me. Guys are designed to overestimate a girl's interest in them while girls are designed to underestimate a girl's interest in them.
It means she flirted with you even though she's got a boyfriend.
My human sexuality class did point out that women don't just flirt to achieve the end goal of possibly escalating into more sexual activity... Many just like doing it for the sake of fun. Others flirt to get something out of it- IE she's flirty so you buy her coffee before work once or twice a week. Maybe they like to get you all flustered because you look like an awkward idiot. Some do it to boost confidence. Others are just DTF. Can't really tell. That's part of the fun of it. This is why I'm terrible at it... Finding the line between a flirty fun comment and being certain she want's you to whip it out and drag your nuts across her face can be a bit blurry if you have no social skills.
I've had taken guys flirt with me, too. Even married ones (married to my freaking friends of all things!!!) I don't want any part of it.
I've had friends who were talking to taken people who started out by flirting with them, then eventually to promising to leave their SO for them. If they would do that to their SO, what makes you think they wouldn't do it to you as well? People like that are unfaithful and untrustworthy.
She’s a slut or a wannabe slut. Any woman who flirts is open to cheating on her man.
Some say that dressing like a hooker in a context where that’s unusual is a form of flirt too.
Just beware, bro. It may be fun and games now but as you get older you will run into married women doing this. Do not even think about rejecting them or saying something to shame them because they will run to their husband and claim you did something rude & if he’s a dumb ass he could kill you for that. It happens. Your best bet is to just say, ‘i would but I have a girlfriend’ or ‘i’m gay’. Anything but, ‘I don’t do married women’ lol
Women want men to WANT to have sex with them even if they are not interested in having sex with that guy. It feeds their ego. You flirt with her and she walks away feeling validated in her sexuality but didn't have to put out. They get ego-stroked at no cost to themselves. He gets balls of blue.
Unfortunately, this is true with some. I know plenty of girls who want to be the center of every guy's attention, even if they're not interested. They also tend to compete with other girls for a guy's attention even if they're not interested, but just want to be front and center and don't want the other girl getting that attention. It's messed up.
People are allowed to flirt even if they have a partner. If she was flirting to the point where it got to a kiss or something else then it would be another story. I flirted with a guy last year when I have a boyfriend because he was a guy from my past and I really liked him a lot and kind of wanted to date him. But just simple flirting is normal for people.
So. e girls just flirt. I have a friend that flirted incessantly with a guy she could not stand. That is just the way she did things. Others might not be happy in the relationship while others might be having a bit of fun or even looking for a bit of physical fun outside of their relationship.
It means trouble. Dont take any part in it. Don't be afraid to spoil her fun but remember this; dont be a dick about it, "hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."
But then again I dont take cheating lightly so when it happened to me once, I told her boyfriend outright and made it clear I wanted no part in it. The rest was no longer my problem.
She's probably thinking about cheating on her partner.. Don't see what's the point of flirting with other people when you are in a relationship unless you want something from them.
Flirting is natural however depends on the severity of the flirt. Unless its a flirt that is basically a giant neon sign saying "do me" i wouldn't really worry. Take the compliments but dont return the flirt
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