Do girls get creeped out knowing that guy friends can feel their boobs when they hug?

[HikerDude]

I have several platonic female friends who are very huggy, like we hug at least once a week if not more. When we hug, they usually press pretty hard against me and I can feel every inch of their boobs. It honestly feels very intimate because it's almost like I'm feeling them up. Do girls ever get weirded out by that, or do y'all not care that your guy friends can feel your boobs?

[SolitaireBond]

Hmmm... It's a well known fact that we girls/women have breasts/boobs/ tits call them what you want.

Unfortunately we are unable to unzip them and discard them when we hug someone, therefore it is just something we have to put up with... I guess you could call it a guy's gain! :)

Friends are literally just that FRIENDS... People I know and trust, just as much as they know and trust me.

Here is something else I have never much thought of either, is the feeling of hugging another female.. When our breasts press together! :)

[coffeprince]

Why was she downvoted?

[HikerDude]

@coffeprince I thought her answer was pretty condescending.

[SolitaireBond]

@HikerDude... Thank you so much for your lovely compliment.

I really must try and remember never to bother answering any more of your "ridiculous" questions.

[SolitaireBond]

@coffeprince... Thank you for your support... It's very much appreciated. :)

[HikerDude]

"Hmmm... It's a well known fact that we girls/women have breasts/boobs/ tits call them what you want.

Unfortunately we are unable to unzip them and discard them when we hug someone..."

Sounds pretty condescending to my ear.

[KayleetheKitty]

We know, but I personally don't really care, if it's a good friend. If it's someone I barely know, then I'll be a little more conscious of it, but otherwise yeah we know. If it's a guy that I'm trying to flirt with, then I'm a little more aware ;)

[Anonymous]

It never crossed my mind , I guess this explains why one of my guy friends use to hug me about 3 times in one day. I was thinking to myself , He must've really missed me.

[HikerDude]

Yes, of course. It's an easy way for us to cop a feel with no consequences.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[BertMacklinFBI]

probably not. they must know whats up. if they don't then what they don't know won't hurt them.

[HikerDude]

I like the way you think.

[kambo_trick3y]

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[HikerDude]

LOL there's one girl who I can't hug without growing three sizes like the Grinch's heart.

[coffeprince]

Lol!!!

[coffeprince]

@kambo that is hilarious thanks for sharing that comic.. @HikerDude pretty sure as you get older you'll have better control!

[kambo_trick3y]

@CoffeePrince

I always aim to please.

[kep79]

do you aim your erection?

[alwaysight]

they do trust me because we feel our boobs pressing up on you too fyi

[HikerDude]

Do you feel weird about it, or do you secretly enjoy teasing the guy?

[alwaysight]

depends on who the guy is normally I hug guys in such a way that I try not press my boobs against him but because im really busty its really awkward and normally they press up against him anyway unless I am teasing him on purpose

[HikerDude]

The two girls who hug me press into me really hard. I'm asking this because I think they're secretly trying to tease me to see if they can get a rise out of me.

[alwaysight]

if theyre doing on purpose there's an easy way to tell

[HikerDude]

What is it?

[alwaysight]

if theyre not doing it on purpose their posture would be leaning against you almost bending at the waist but is its on purpose they'll be plastered to you moulded to your body

[HikerDude]

Yes, the girls I'm talking about plaster themselves on me. They're pretty physical with me in general, stuff like punching my arm, or tickling, or piggyback rides, etc. That's why I can't tell if they're teasing or just having fun.

[alwaysight]

simple. teasing. the more you ignore them the harder they'll try trust me

[HikerDude]

That's what I thought. Honestly, it kinda hurts my feelings because they know I've never had a gf in college. I think they like seeing me squirm. Thanks for your answers!

[alwaysight]

they thrive on it babe don't let them win be strong

[HikerDude]

Well they are my friends, so I don't want to be in a contest with them. I just prefer to know the truth of any situation because I don't like feeling like a fool.

[Mgoods]

Tbh, the thought never crossed my mind and I would've thought the same of my mates... Well, this is an awkward realisation. Tbh, I don't think they really care/ register.

[TheDevilInside]

If I don't know the guy well enough then yes, it's awkward. Just like any other kind of touches or closeness are awkward. But if I'm close with the guy, it's not that awkward.

[kittykatbrat]

The men I know are very tactile whereas "I" am the opposite.

Men get erections around me frequently which I am used to,
find flattering and usually laugh off.

[HikerDude]

Yeah, I almost get the sense that sometimes these girls are trying to see if they can get me hard, like it's a big boost to their egos.

[Anonymous]

You should feel how it feels like to hug other girls. lol thats more intamite to us since they have boobs too and it feels like both of our nipples are touching.. but as you get older you learn to just go with it lol

[alwaysight]

exactly if both girls are busty your boobs touch before any other body part LOL

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly and girls always hug "full hug" and tight.. I have never "side hugged" my female friends lol that's even more awkward.. and it's tough for me since my friends are all like 6 ft so their boobs hit my face
L. o. L

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I just realized I said" exactly" too ha

[SolitaireBond]

@alwaysight... Before my BR, this use to happen to me all the time.

[linkywinky]

nah, not weirded out. sometimes my guy friend hugs me too hard and i'll protest loudly that he's hurting my boobs, but that's the most acknowledgement we give them.

[natalieblue7]

I only even think of that if I don't wear a bra. But otherwise it doesn't even cross my mind when I hug someone that they can fele my boobs lol

[Theguyoverthere]

I'd imagine it'd only be awkward if the guy made it a point to mention it or acted very turned on bringing it up.

[aloniara]

Nope. I'm not a huggy person in general, so on the rare occasion that I DO hug a guy I have less-than-innocent motives anyway.

[Riverock]

Less than innocent motives are my favourite. XD

[GreatPerhaps]

Lol I never even thought about it.

Now when I hug my best friend (guy) that's going to be on my mind lmao.

[ShaeNielson]

No of course not? I don't give a shit what they feel.

[Arianna16]

I don't mind coz u aren't exactly touching on purpose with ur hands

[Katy16]

I don't care, but I don't hug many guy friends either lol

[Anonymous]

Wow. That thought never occured to me. Is it awkward for you? Would you prefer no hug or a side hug?

[HikerDude]

It's awkward for various reasons. If I see a girl as strictly a friend, it feels wrong feeling her boobs. If I like her as more than a friend, it's awkward because I get turned on while she's oblivious and just being affectionate.

[gabbyirene]

We don't feel anything weird when we hug so it never crossed our mind.

[Anonymous]

No, I don't really care. They're friends, not random people.

[LaceyG]

I never actually realised that XD

[Anonymous]

Never hug guys so I don't care. I hug my dad though so this question just made me feel gross.

[Anonymous]

I don't care, it's just a hug

[HikerDude]

For guys, especially inexperienced guys like me, it feels like a big deal.

[Opinion Owner]

Let me put it this way. If I'm comfortable around you, friends with you, full on hug! If I'm not, then side hug. If it's your friend then it's okay, like hugging a brother! Full on hug!

[HikerDude]

The only thing is, I'm not their brother! I get turned on by it and feel embarrassed.

[Opinion Owner]

But you are their friend right? i look at my friends like sibilings. Maybe you like them more than friends?

[HikerDude]

Yes, of course I like them as more than friends, and I think they know it. I don't think they feel the same about me, though, which is why I think they're teasing. Either that, or they just enjoy being physically playful?

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, they seem manipulative

[coffeprince]

I doubt they are teasing maybe they just like giving hugs?

[HikerDude]

@coffeprince I don't know... that's why I'm asking girls. When I have a girl get really physical with me, I get turned on. I just didn't know if girls realized what they were doing when they pressed their boobs into a guy.

[coffeprince]

@HikerDude I understand where your coming from.. but most girls just hug w/o that much thought or overanalysis.. the only way it would be intentional or methodically planned out.. was if the girl also has a crush on you.

[HikerDude]

@coffeprince I guess y'all just don't realize the effect you can have on guys.

[Ihav2fart]

No sometimes they do it on purpose