He offered to eat me out?

[Anonymous]

there's this guy I've been texting he's new to the state and doesn't really have a lot of friends out here. he's told me he thinks im cute and has been asking to hangout.. But im thinking he's not serious about possibly dating me because he has asked me or i guess offered to eat me out. I feel like he just wants a hookup but im a virgin and i would only wanna do that stuff with someone im in a relationship with.. Everytime he asks to hangout i feel guilty cuz he doesn't have that many friends... What should i do? I wanna be friends and see where it goes but..

[YoNiggah]

Naa fuck that dude no wonder why he don't have any new friends with an attitude that like that who gon' want him? I say ditch him he don't sound no good anyways. If he can't respect your virginity what can he respect. How long you say you've known the dude for?

[Asker]

1month

[YoNiggah]

1 month? and dude already demanding he wanna eat you out. He a straight bitch for that i'd say leave him all he gonna do is peer pressure you anyways he was upfront about his intentions and theyre wrong hell you know whats good for you. He gotta learn to have respect for ya :)

[Asker]

Thanks :) i just feel bad i wanna still be friends with him but I don't know how to be friendly without him thinking he has a chance... He asked to have a netflix date and i know he's not interested in watching a movie.. if u catch my drift

[YoNiggah]

Hell yeah I do cause I use to do that too haha. But for real tho you need to ditch the dude. He trying to pimp you and get you falling into his lap talking about a movie? haha don't you know a movie is code word for come over to my house so we can fuck. Look if you were to go through with this he's get his way then later on he'd move on to your girlfriends I know how niggas act that's what woulda happened if you give his lee-way. Some us guys were like dogs you give us an inch we take a mile we bark we scream and we chew shit up. You better off without him he's friendship isn't at all what it seams. I'm glad I could help, thank you :))

[Chris011]

Hang around for a bit. If he continues trying to get into your pants then stop contact with him. Good luck.

[justbeinghonest]

If you don't want to lose your virginity to him do not hangout with him. Sometimes putting yourself in awkward or hot situations will just make it worse.

[Karleee]

Don't push yourself to do something you're not comfortable with, just because you feel sorry that the guy doesn't have that many friends.

[brookeh09]

If you don't want to do it, then just let him know to stop asking because you're not interested.

[m203gl]

Do you see yourself in a relationship with him? If so ask him if he agrees then go for it.

[headstomper]

like take you out to dinner?