I was just wondering if you guys liked getting approached by girls and if lots of girls approached guys.. (Like the title says, haha.)
Girls, do you ever approach guys? Guys, do you like getting approached by girls?
Nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out, but just make sure the reason why is a good one. If you're asking a guy out because he's too shy and afraid to talk to you first, then he's probably not worth the effort. Guys like that won't lead in the relationship, won't initiate romance, and you will quickly lose attraction for them. Just a waste of your time.
If you're asking a guy out because he's getting a lot of attention from other girls or he's preoccupied with something else and you want to get his attention, then absolutely, go for it. Men like women who know what they want just as much as women who like men who know what they want. Asking out a guy will definitely increase his attraction for you. Just be sure that once you've gone out on a date or two that you return to a more feminine role and initiate contact with him but let him ask you out on dates. You're going to start to lower his attraction for you if you're playing the masculine role in the relationship too often.
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I've never been approached by any girl in my life, but it would be a great experience for the girl to show interests in me. The thing is that I feel really shy & awkward when a girl would walk up & start to flirt, because I'm a shy guy who doesn't know what to do when a girl eye balls me & try to talk. I'm not really skilled with this kind of stuff but I did experience similar scenerios back when I was in middle school. Other than that, it's great to have the girls to approach the boys who are their type & to get to know those alpha males better.
i have only with my first bf, because he was the shy type so i knew i had to do it lol. if he's an open sorta guy, no way am i doing it lol.
i am honestly thinking of telling someone i like them someday but it's too terrifying and complicated so yeah, I don't know.
short answer: yes, i have the balls to do it. i might have to intoxicate myself the next time tho haha:P
ps: how come i can't vote? :O
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Whoever has crush on opposite sex should approach. Like if a girl has a crush on guy, she should approach guy and exchange contact info and wait for few days for him to call her. If the guy does not call, then call him and make plans for date.
I always appreciate it when a girl approaches me in real life. - 1.1K opinions shared on Flirting topic.
I like getting approached. And, unlike women, men don't expect to be charmed; so, there is no real need for technique. But, despite this, in my experience, many women make bad approaches. How? Well, I don't ask for much. But, if you are going to approach, you can just say "Hi" or something like that. Don't sneak up to me and grab my bottom!
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that's good because it means the girl doesn''t stick on traditional gener role models basically
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I've never been approached by a girl, but I would definitely appreciate the effort on their part. Girls usually don't do this though. Too much fear in them
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I always love confident and assertive girls who like to take the initiative ;)
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When girls approach me i feel i can talk more and not be as shy
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Sometimes yes! Especially if she's cute and has one of those bubbly personalities. Sometimes I'll blush a bit and I'm just thinking please don't go red please don't go red :P
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Sadly yes guys never seem to make a move on me
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Well... C. I'm too shy to approach someone. :/
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No idea no ine approaches me. 😢
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