But is there more than meets the eye? Is he marking his territory, so when I go out other guys will see it and know I'm with someone? or what?
Why do men give love bites?
It is a fetish for some guys. Form what I know, it is as you said... To leave a mark. They get a thrill knowing that people will see it. Not just other guys, but everyone! Your grandma, your old professor, the Sunday School teacher, whoever.
It would annoy me because they can take a long time to heal and they don't look good. Also, there are a lot of people who think they are trailer trash-esque, so depending on where you work, that can be a problem.
My advice is to tell him he really needs to stop doing this. You told him to stop and that should be the end of it. You should be able to feel secure around your boyfriend, not have to worry that will do anything that you are not comfortable with.
Lol marking his territory, no he's doing it because he knows you hate it, like he said he's just messing around, although up until just now I had never thought of biting a girl as a way to fend of other guys from hitting on my chick, and I am willing to bet he never thought of it that way either, well just gave me a new idea.
It's a sign of affection nothing more. It really has nothing to do with "marking" your territory. If we wanted to do such a thing we would pee a circle around you. If you really don't like it tell him agen. He may have misinterpreted your previous statement as playful banter.
MY opinion, not yours.
Cheers.
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Yes, there's more than meets the eye.
The issue is that he's putting his gratification above your stated feelings.
That's a biggie. You don't need this guy.
Ted
He wants to mark you as his
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