Girls, Watching Strippers?

[Anonymous]

So I strip in a Male Revue a couple times a week or so as a side job. It's fun.

So so I have gone out on 4 dates with a girl I really like.

I have a show tonight and she and her friends are coming to watch. I do go fully nude in the show

would you have an issue dating a guy who strips or what would you think of a friend of your who dates a stripper.

[crystalt70]

I wouldn't have a problem if he stripped in the past. I don't think I would be okay dating someone who was currently doing it. At this point, I am looking for a serious relationship and am not interested in that lifestyle being a constant part of my life. I would be all for private shows, though. Lol.

[Asker]

What do you mean by 'lifestyle'

[crystalt70]

I've been to plenty of strip clubs and I know a few strippers. I don't want everything that comes with it. The sex, the drugs, the lap dances, every woman seeing and touching my guy, etc. I don't want the constant nagging/disapproval/questions from my family and friends. Etc.

[crystalt70]

I also have kids, so that plays a big part in it.

[Asker]

Hmmm... I think the sex and drugs depend on the guy... The other things you mentioned are right.

So I assume you enjoy the shows?

[crystalt70]

Well, I haven't been to a strip club with men stripping. Those aren't common here. The ones that we do have aren't of great quality, so I have no desire to go to them. I know that the Chippendales come down to one of our casinos every so often, but I haven't been able to make any of the shows. I would love to go, though.

[crystalt70]

I had one male stripper friend years ago and he was a piece of work. He did everything under the sun. He slept with men and women, did drugs, etc. He was hot as hell, but I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole. Lol. I just couldn't look at him in that way. I had no desire to go see him strip while knowing all of the things that I knew. I wouldn't go to the strip clubs where the girls that I knew stripped either.

[Asker]

My genetics won't allow me to do drugs and hit the gym as hard as I need to, ha. I don't use steroids and spend a lot of time in the gym, and drink sparingly... Most of the guys who are out to meet women usually aren't the best dancers & aren't around long... I have slept with a couple women from shows but it happens rarely. I think most people who aren't strippers have more casual sex than I do

[crystalt70]

It definitely depends on the guy. Many guys are not trustworthy, regardless of being a stripper or not. It's one thing to sleep with women from your shows, but it's another if you are in a relationship. I'm a pretty laid back and open woman. One thing I don't tolerate is cheating, though. I believe that if you have the need to be with multiple people then you should stay single. I also see it as if you have the urge to be with someone else while you are in a relationship then you should break up first. I will let any guy know that if he is a cheater, a drug addict, an abuser or a drunk, he can take a hike. I am far from being a prude and I am not a feminist, but there are just some things that I won't deal. I have already been there, done that with my kids' dad and am not going back to any of it. I am too good to whatever man I am with to put up with that crap.

[Unersheep]

She clearly knows what you do and wants to show you off to her friends. I'd say SHE doesn't have an issue, so who cares what anyone else thinks?

[Shes_Like_Texas]

No i wouldn't have a problem with it, if I did I would be a hypocrite.

[Asker]

How do you mean you'd be a hypocrite?

[Shes_Like_Texas]

I use to strip myself, so I would have no issue with it. I know it's just a job.

[Asker]

Why'd you stop?

[Shes_Like_Texas]

I met a doctor while I was dating and we started having a thing, and he offered me a job at his practice and I took it. I got tired of it. It gets old real fast. Now I have my weekends off and go out with friends and I dont have to give old guys lap dances anymore, the cute young ones were fine, :)

[Anonymous]

As long as he wasn't having sex with them then it would be fine

[Asker]

Cool. Do you think it would be weirded seeing somebody naked that is dating your friend?

[Opinion Owner]

No I have seen my girlfriends boyfriend naked and it didn't bother me any it was Platonic to me but I also know that she want have any trouble being pleased lol buy the way a lot of people was around when he was naked to if that helps

[Asker]

So what was the situation when your saw your girlfriend's boyfriend naked?

[Opinion Owner]

We was outside with a bunch of dudes and they was talking about how big there members are well they said prove it and I guess he forgot that there was one girl in the entire group and he got naked and showed everyone but they have always treated me more like a guy than anything else anyway

[Asker]

that sounds pretty strange, mostly in the fact that a guy would readily get an erection in front of mostly other men. I would imagine he may be secretly gay or have gay thoughts at the very least

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think it's that because it wasn't erect and it was still huge

[domismommie]

neither, i'd leave it alone. just as men judge woman as strippers don't give it all for show and leave nothing for the imagine. shame on you cochino..

[ClariceOwen23]

I wouldn't bother me that much.