Guys, how do you feel about your girlfriend going to see male strippers?

Question

I know a lot of women don’t like their boyfriends/husbands or partners to go to the strippers, how do you feel if you girlfriend were to go to a male stripper show?

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Would not bother me in the slightest. Women have sexual needs and although they are psychologically different from men, no harm done every now and then for there to be a little fun and variety.

In fact, back in the early days with my girlfriend - we've been together 11 years and have three children - she used to say to me that if I ever wanted to have sex with other women, as long as she knew about it, she would understand. Suffice to say, I never tested that offer - though again in our wild days we did a few threesomes - but I always told her that I felt the same way for her.

Then, as you grow up you start to realize that sex is great and it is a natural instinct, but what you really need is not just sex but someone who makes your life special and meaningful. So the wild and crazy goes by the boards.

Still, every now and then, it being a natural instinct, sex for the sake of sex still sounds good and going to see a stripper is a way to sort of satisfy that need. It is not, in that way, a big deal.

Kelnius · Accepted Answer

Strippers exist for people in relationships...

Think about it - if you're single, why would you spend time looking at a naked woman that you not only cannot have sex with, but you cannot even touch?
You're essentially paying good money to get blue-balled.
Pornography exists - why would you arouse yourself in an environment where you can't do anything about it?

Well, surely, answer to that question is that the purpose of a male stripper is for the audience to watch a man expose some skin so they get all hot and bothered, then come to their boyfriend so they can "release the pressure" as it were.

So, yeah, I'd be very happy for my girlfriend to go to a strip club if she wants to.

ImSparkly · Accepted Answer

Twice, first a friends birthday, second was a Hens night. It was all fake, from the chests and abs to the music, it is a choreographed performance to make the watcher all tingly, like artificial sweetener. I'd do it again, but it is not an experience I would seek out. BF's at the time didn't seem to understand, nor really care.

WhiteShoulder · Accepted Answer

I’ve been once. It was fun. I told my boyfriend. He was cool with it.

abc3643 · Answer

I am fine with it.
1. I have to tryst her and wouldn't think cheating would be involved.
2. If it motivates her to leave me for a better looking guy like a stripper, so be it. I don't want her to be unhappy and settle to be with me. If she stays, I know she's a good woman.
3. If I prevent it which means that I am trying to limit her freedom, then I am going to make her resent me and show her that I don't trust her.

That said, I would want her to still ask me to go first so we know we are open with each other. I would of course let her go have fun with her GFs.

wankiam · Answer

i have had relationships with women that have been to male strippper events with their friends... had no issue with it at all and besides i was probably sat at home wanking over porn while they were out the house

CapnHawk · Answer

I'd give her a wad of dollar bills to stuff in the guy's undies and tell her to have a great time.

HollyTran · Answer

I think it is great I mean those guys are like super hot!!

My girlfriend has gone a couple of times with her besti's - she thought it was fine lol, and told me some of the guys are really packing - I said like come on you know it is stuffing - lol!! So she invited me next time with the challenge to tell if they are! Could be interesting!!

holograph · Answer

I wouldn't like it, though I wouldn't throw down over it if it was like a once-in-a-great-while thing. Then again, I also don't go to strip clubs, and if I get married, I wouldn't even do the bachelor party stripper thing (if I did any kind of bachelor party at all, it would be going out for a day of disc golf or go karts or something like that).

Miristheiss · Answer

I find male/female strippers disgusting.

Deal breaker.
I divorce her if she gets nude, sexual entertainment from anyone but me.

We didn't do any of that disrespectful crap for our pre-marriage activities.

My friends knew not to try but if they had, if some hot police woman showed up... I would have kicked the whore out and not let her in and then have cussed my friends.

northerngal · Answer

Girl go and have a great time. Nothing wrong with enjoying a little eyecandy every once in a while. A confident guy should have no issue with you going and should trust you.

Prakhar27 · Answer

I wouldn't mind as long as there isn't any "sexual" activity involved. As long she is just looking at fine young men with great bodies. But I wouldn't like if she does some sort of sexual activity with the guy. May it be coitus of cunnilingus.. I still believe in monogamous relationship and if I am have a girlfriend I'll expect the same.

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

During the dear hunting season in the Midwest, there are Dear Widow's Balls. Women go out and watch strippers, while their men are off hunting. I've never had a problem with this, and never complained if my girlfriend at the time went out with her friends to them either.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No girlfriend of mine would go to see male strippers. I was one in college and the girls are terrible. You know how many brides to be cheated or tried to cheat? More than half. Disgusting. Id breakup with a girl before id let her do some nasty shit like see male strippers.

banana75 · Answer

acutally what goes on in a Male stripclub? My female buddy told me she went and did not enjoy as the guy whipped his dick out and just goes around trying to slap his dick on faces. she didn't stay long enough to tell me what else happened. Does the stripper actually get his dick sucked and get $$? do straight women and gay men go to the same stripclub? hmm.. interesting!

Anonymous · Answer

It would depend on the type of person she is and our relationship, and I'm curious what goes on with male strippers (vs female), I hear it's very different but I don't know if that's true or not? But depending on her reasons for going and how often, I don't think I'd have a problem with it? Especially if it got her in the mood and she came home to me! lol

MrOracle · Answer

She's welcome to go. As long as she isn't touching a cock, I'm fine with it. There's no harm in looking.

Claireluvskaren · Answer

I've been to male strip shows before. My husband actually told me to go. I found them funny, and over 50% of the guys are gay. But hot. And in better shape than my husband too, they are also a bit younger.

GuidoThePizzaMaker · Answer

Strip clubs are gross. For men and women. I will never go to a strip club.
I would just break up with my girlfriend if she wanted to see a bunch of naked men
She can go, but she won't be my girlfriend anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

Not good because I stripped in college and know what happens at them.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Honestly fine by me I don't mind a little twerk near her or a snazzy clothes around here and the old towel left and right maneuver but touching sexually is the limit.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls generally grope, suck off, and are grotesque with male strippers (I used to be a bouncer)
Unlike men who are generally not allowed to touch the females.
The difference is men are shamed for going, women are openly allowed to talk about it and it's seen as "girls just having fun".

Guys, how do you feel about your girlfriend going to see male strippers?

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i'll say this. my friends girlfriend at the time was intent on doing it. i don't know if she ever flew to london, but she would've sucked a stripper and maybe more.

SoWhAt249 · Answer

I've never been to a strip club, and most likely never will, and I understand if my partner wouldn't like me to go there, because I wouldn't want her to go there also.

Browneye57 · Answer

My wife says she doesn't care where I get my appetite as long as I come home to eat. :)

Reaperbot666 · Answer

So long as she is coming back to me and not fooling around with other guy I do not mind. But fair is fair and I might go see some female ones now and then also. shttps://youtu. be/lcOD6XdoeYE

bladerunner667 · Answer

It's harmless fun, most strippers don't show everything it's only like a burlesque show but with men instead of women

ohshee · Answer

If I didn't trust her or believe in her I don't think she would be my girlfriend I would say have fun

Aethereal · Answer

I wouldn't be okay with that at all, and I'd hope she wouldn't be okay with me going to a strip club either.

adidas0169 · Answer

I dont care as long they dont touch and the guys dont touch. i wouldn't care if my wife went to watch. with that being said i dont go to titty bars i used to when i was younger when i was 18 19 years old even in my earrrrrly 20's.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

If I don't want to see female strippers than I wouldn't date a girl who wants to see male strippers. I don't mind porn because I also watch porn but actually going to a sexual show no!

CasaNorba · Answer

if she lets me continue to go then I wouldn't mind if she goes. just as long as she does not get any lapdances and definitely stays away from the champagne room

jackdaw2345 · Answer

Male strippers are mostly on gay clubs and few in female nights clubs so i guess it's okay. If we are watching female strippers its fair they watch male strippers.

chriscdi · Answer

obviously i wouldn't like it and if i respected my girlfriend and lived her enough to the point i want her to be the only woman in my life then i expect her to do the same with me.

Holy_Ghost_Fire · Answer

It's just as immoral as it is when men see female strippers. People should be satisfied with their partner and not need to view others in sexual ways.

DysFictoral · Answer

As long as she doesn't forget whose girlfriend she is, I wouldn't mind.

realworld2017 · Answer

Depends. You know male strippers get BJ's free. So if there is no actual sex or BJ's then have fun. Come home to me and we will bang. I do not mind if you are thinking about fantasy beefcake.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Completely harmless... if she's okay with me getting a lap dance by a young lady with a big ass then she should have the same privilege of getting one herself...

vald9inches · Answer

I would tell her to enjoy herself if she is going alone if with friends I would say enjoy themselves! And I would hope its good strip club that has nudity and also sells alcohol in the club

Ben228 · Answer

I've never been to a strip club, so I suppose I'd be uncomfortable with it.

Anpu23 · Answer

Eh... Whatever. If she went I'd be"okay whatever" as long as she didn't try and drag me along.

slatyb · Answer

She wouldn't be interested but if she were I wouldn't care.

Anonymous · Answer

Suspicious. It’s highly unusual for women to be that attracted to the male body. It would also be hypocritical on her part if she would have a problem with me going to watch female strippers.

BlueberrySnap · Answer

As long as she's not banging the strippers, I don't see a problem

Spencer10 · Answer

I would have no problem at all where she gets her appetite lol

JimRSmith · Answer

Wouldn't worry me in the slightest.

Creepazoid · Answer

Id tell her she can go but i can go to strip clubs too. Then id call all my homies and head to a strip bar

adolescentswede · Answer

Assuming we had been exclusive i would wonder if she has any issue with our intamacy. If we were in a open it would be in line of expectations.

loveslongnails · Answer

As long as she stops off at the strip joint for men and brings one of the girls home, I'm good with that :)

CoffeeWC · Answer

I am mostly against it. It's often looked down upon for guys to go see strippers when they have a girlfriend. Why should there be an exception for women?

Il2bn · Answer

I don't go to strip shows myself but I have always encouraged my wife to enjoy male strippers with her friends. As long as she doesn't actually have sex with anyone but me she can do whatever she wants. I want her to go and have a great time.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you should include an edit that she wasn't asking to go but just his thoughts about if she asked or wanted to

Swat_ · Answer

In case I had a girlfriend, I'd let her go, see how much she really cares about me [;

ChiPaPa · Answer

Don't like it. I wouldn't go to a strip club, I don't want a woman that would, either.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

if i was seeing a girl I would mind if you both cars in a goid relationship you might even go to be there for her

Mossberg500 · Answer

I don't look at strippers so I obviously wouldn't want her to. But of course I'm a Scorp so I put a surplus on pure devotion.

frikinmonikannnnnn · Answer

Let her have fun. Just trust she won't cheat. You could tell if she did anyway

Arlyss · Answer

My girl enjoyed go with friends. She was excited when she came home. I have no problem with it.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I would seriously object; I might even end our relationship.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

"Look don't touch, and pick up some bread on the way home"

codycccccccccc · Answer

I own the only strip club within 150 miles so I don't have any problems with it

DaMack999 · Answer

That's awesome especially with her lady friends. Women need a night out. Just as a man needs a boys night.

Rob171977 · Answer

i dont care let her do what she wants. she's her own person i don't control her. as long as she stays faithful and loyal to me that's all that matters

Anonymous · Answer

It wouldn't bother me. Girls go to this kind of show to have a laugh. It's not like they will try to have sex with the performers.

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