I know a lot of women don’t like their boyfriends/husbands or partners to go to the strippers, how do you feel if you girlfriend were to go to a male stripper show?
Guys, how do you feel about your girlfriend going to see male strippers?
Would not bother me in the slightest. Women have sexual needs and although they are psychologically different from men, no harm done every now and then for there to be a little fun and variety.
In fact, back in the early days with my girlfriend - we've been together 11 years and have three children - she used to say to me that if I ever wanted to have sex with other women, as long as she knew about it, she would understand. Suffice to say, I never tested that offer - though again in our wild days we did a few threesomes - but I always told her that I felt the same way for her.
Then, as you grow up you start to realize that sex is great and it is a natural instinct, but what you really need is not just sex but someone who makes your life special and meaningful. So the wild and crazy goes by the boards.
Still, every now and then, it being a natural instinct, sex for the sake of sex still sounds good and going to see a stripper is a way to sort of satisfy that need. It is not, in that way, a big deal.
Think about it - if you're single, why would you spend time looking at a naked woman that you not only cannot have sex with, but you cannot even touch? You're essentially paying good money to get blue-balled. Pornography exists - why would you arouse yourself in an environment where you can't do anything about it?
Well, surely, answer to that question is that the purpose of a male stripper is for the audience to watch a man expose some skin so they get all hot and bothered, then come to their boyfriend so they can "release the pressure" as it were.
So, yeah, I'd be very happy for my girlfriend to go to a strip club if she wants to.
Twice, first a friends birthday, second was a Hens night. It was all fake, from the chests and abs to the music, it is a choreographed performance to make the watcher all tingly, like artificial sweetener. I'd do it again, but it is not an experience I would seek out. BF's at the time didn't seem to understand, nor really care.
I’ve been once. It was fun. I told my boyfriend. He was cool with it.
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I’m going to a show in a couple of weeks and I’ve told my boyfriend and he has mixed feelings about it! He trusts me but he said he doesn’t understand why I would want to go lol! Just for a bit of fun with the girls!!
If your boyfriend has mixed feelings than you shouldn't do it. Period. Especially if you, (OR HE), wouldn't want to do the reverse. Go if you want to, it's your choice, but if your relationship ends it's on you.
I am fine with it. 1. I have to tryst her and wouldn't think cheating would be involved. 2. If it motivates her to leave me for a better looking guy like a stripper, so be it. I don't want her to be unhappy and settle to be with me. If she stays, I know she's a good woman. 3. If I prevent it which means that I am trying to limit her freedom, then I am going to make her resent me and show her that I don't trust her.
That said, I would want her to still ask me to go first so we know we are open with each other. I would of course let her go have fun with her GFs.
i have had relationships with women that have been to male strippper events with their friends... had no issue with it at all and besides i was probably sat at home wanking over porn while they were out the house
I think it is great I mean those guys are like super hot!!
My girlfriend has gone a couple of times with her besti's - she thought it was fine lol, and told me some of the guys are really packing - I said like come on you know it is stuffing - lol!! So she invited me next time with the challenge to tell if they are! Could be interesting!!
I wouldn't like it, though I wouldn't throw down over it if it was like a once-in-a-great-while thing. Then again, I also don't go to strip clubs, and if I get married, I wouldn't even do the bachelor party stripper thing (if I did any kind of bachelor party at all, it would be going out for a day of disc golf or go karts or something like that).
Girl go and have a great time. Nothing wrong with enjoying a little eyecandy every once in a while. A confident guy should have no issue with you going and should trust you.
I wouldn't mind as long as there isn't any "sexual" activity involved. As long she is just looking at fine young men with great bodies. But I wouldn't like if she does some sort of sexual activity with the guy. May it be coitus of cunnilingus.. I still believe in monogamous relationship and if I am have a girlfriend I'll expect the same.
Deal breaker. I divorce her if she gets nude, sexual entertainment from anyone but me.
We didn't do any of that disrespectful crap for our pre-marriage activities.
My friends knew not to try but if they had, if some hot police woman showed up... I would have kicked the whore out and not let her in and then have cussed my friends.
During the dear hunting season in the Midwest, there are Dear Widow's Balls. Women go out and watch strippers, while their men are off hunting. I've never had a problem with this, and never complained if my girlfriend at the time went out with her friends to them either.
No girlfriend of mine would go to see male strippers. I was one in college and the girls are terrible. You know how many brides to be cheated or tried to cheat? More than half. Disgusting. Id breakup with a girl before id let her do some nasty shit like see male strippers.
acutally what goes on in a Male stripclub? My female buddy told me she went and did not enjoy as the guy whipped his dick out and just goes around trying to slap his dick on faces. she didn't stay long enough to tell me what else happened. Does the stripper actually get his dick sucked and get $$? do straight women and gay men go to the same stripclub? hmm.. interesting!
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It would depend on the type of person she is and our relationship, and I'm curious what goes on with male strippers (vs female), I hear it's very different but I don't know if that's true or not? But depending on her reasons for going and how often, I don't think I'd have a problem with it? Especially if it got her in the mood and she came home to me! lol
I've been to male strip shows before. My husband actually told me to go. I found them funny, and over 50% of the guys are gay. But hot. And in better shape than my husband too, they are also a bit younger.
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Not good because I stripped in college and know what happens at them.
@SilverRain92 a lot of groping and sexual harrassment. Often things go too far. I was often sucked off& fucked on the dance floor in front of sometimes hundreds of women. I often went home with the bride to be, bridesmaids and even two sisters once.
Honestly fine by me I don't mind a little twerk near her or a snazzy clothes around here and the old towel left and right maneuver but touching sexually is the limit.
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Girls generally grope, suck off, and are grotesque with male strippers (I used to be a bouncer) Unlike men who are generally not allowed to touch the females. The difference is men are shamed for going, women are openly allowed to talk about it and it's seen as "girls just having fun".
i'll say this. my friends girlfriend at the time was intent on doing it. i don't know if she ever flew to london, but she would've sucked a stripper and maybe more.
I've never been to a strip club, and most likely never will, and I understand if my partner wouldn't like me to go there, because I wouldn't want her to go there also.
Strip clubs are gross. For men and women. I will never go to a strip club. I would just break up with my girlfriend if she wanted to see a bunch of naked men She can go, but she won't be my girlfriend anymore.
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