What if you get feelings for a stripper?

[cmchi0]

ok so I was at a strip club on the weekend and I got a lap dance with this beautiful girl. and I ended up spending a lot of time with her that night and most of it was just chatting about things like work cars interests and what not and I know its her job to get guys interested but I hate a huge crush on her now and was wondering what I should do if there is anything

[michalezki]

just because she's a stripper doesn't mean she's not just another girl, how would you approach any other girl? I mean I wouldn't walk in there all the time and stalk her. hmm tricky situation though, if you ended up talking to her once why don't you go back in and ask about her or drop by with a few flowers that would be so cute. if you see her working try to find some time and ask for her number, make you intentions clear to her that you don't just want action but that you really like her as a person and would like to get to no her better. be sweet and sincere and if everything works out and you become more important in her life like her boyfriend, she might ditch the job and you won't have to worry, but you should be careful. she might do that with every guy she's meets, that's why she's so charming, but go for it anyways! at least now you can relate to that "im in love with a stripper" song, good luck! and don't worry she will appreciate some genuine attention

[Anonymous]

i think you should tell her ur interested...for something real and be honest about it, esp because you have nothing to lose and in the end rejection (if it happens) won't hurt because well..she wasn't in your criteria and worth your time anyways! just be optimistic about it and give it a shot...but don't pay a dime! give her ur number, don't ask for hers...and tell her if she feels something is there she should give you a buzz... on her own free time and will

[sexycat]

Well I'm a dancer and I don't see anything worng with it I mean we are human beings and it is just a job. What I would do is try and get her phone number and see if you can hang out with her etc. but if she tries to get you to buy her stuff etc. etc. she is not interested or if she keeps trying to get you into the club to see her then she is just in for the $$, but if she actually doesn't do that then you all set.

[cmchi0]

Awesome thankyou heaps. its good to hear that not all dancers are just in it for the money but yeah of course ill be careful with this one. thankyou again. now just need to plan a tri[ back to brissy this wkend and cross my fingers

[chettah-two]

lol...

Strippers know what there are doing..

I've been to strip clubs a few times,

and EVERYTIME I went there I had one of the most stimulating conversations with them ALL..

One of my experience was with this stripper, she was HOTTTT..

We talked about what I do, drive, ambitions, what I'm doing right now, and what she is doing, why she is dancing/stripping, she even gave me her number, etc.

We even talked about the stock market, metal prices, etc.. she knew her stuff..lol

End of night, realised I spent over £500(750USD) on ONE girl.. buying champagne, drinks "food" and COUNTLESS private dances.

Trust me, they know how to TALK to guys...

[ryanontario]

i have some guy friends who go to strip clubs so know all about this and the industry ( these guy friends couldn't really get many actual dates but they can get some at the strip club if they pay ) , but know also that these clubs are a very bad place to try and meet someone . and trust me she does not actually like you , she just wants your business , she's in it for the money not love . sure she talked to you but she's being paid to do so . keep that simple fact in mind and get out there and meet some real girls .

[Celiene]

considering I'm your girlfriend I don't think you should do anything

[jacquesvol]

Unless you're rich, or a mafiaboss, look elsewhere: strippers consider themselves high maintenance and you're just another John in her eyes.

[prettyinpinkx33]

wow that is tough. but it is her job to dance with guys and all that. I mean you could have a relationship with a stripper but you just can't be the jealous type of guy.