Would you date a stripper?

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SanZhang · Accepted Answer

my previous field of work (night world) gave me an experience that has broadened my view.
you could say i was a 'pimp'.
put it 'elegantly', i'm a ladies coordinator, for men spa and karaoke escorts.

not sure with other country, but in mine, these girls usually the type of women / girls that has been abandoned by their family or their husbands.

'abandoned' can have lots of meaning.
like, how their guy would bake their oven and left them just like that.
asia's traditions put these women as a shame for having kids but no father.

now, how would they survive when the society denied them.
dont even mention about government.
so they escape, run into some certain party like us, looking for work.

they may be seems dirty, naughty, flirty, u may think they looked like the worst.
but they too have feelings, and those are hidden beneath their masks like courtesans.
they cried, they scared, will do anything to protect their kids.

now u may say, that some of them are not as i said.
abusive to the kid, cheater.
but back again, i have been work in the 'day' world (9 to 5 works), whats the difference between those slutty secretary, or that cheating managers?

the society put these women into the corner, and when they try to survive, another stone has been casted.

to answer the question, depends on the person itself, yes i would date her. reminds her that she no longer needs to do this kind of work, educate her, help her to get a link (network) to school, to work, make her obtain a certificate, and work in a better place that involves no alcohol nor 'touching'.

Obtuse · Accepted Answer

Don't think so. I try not to jump to conclusions but the basic job description alone suffices to be unappealing to me. I also suspect that for many, possibly not all (but I'm not the type to be that interested in taking the risk to find out), are susceptible to developing very distorted views of relationships when they have men willing to line up and hand over money so directly for their attention. Even if there is a resistance to it, I suspect it's going to impact things at least subtly when a woman knows too consciously that all she needs to do is a dance on a stage with a top off to get some men throwing money at her.

McMillanD · Accepted Answer

I definitely wouldn't date someone BECAUSE they were a stripper. But I also don't judge people of those choices. If I met someone who I really liked and fell for, the fact that they were a stripper would not deter me.
One of my best friends was a stripper for a time and she is an amazing person who grew from that experience. I dont think a job don't define you. The choices you make when put in tight situations, how you conduct youself and how you act, out way something you do to make money and service. .

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I'm female so not interested in females whether strippers or doctors and judges - if it was a male - I would say no - I value modesty in men - I find it very attractive and I would not want a guy who likes to show off - I can't think of a single celebrity I consider to be attractive cause how may modest celebrities do you know other than Bill Gates who doesn't show off or Jeff Bezos who is always private about his personal life?

ragequeen · Answer

Your job doesn`t define you. Some are strippers by choice, others do it because they don`t see any other way. If I loved him, it wouldn`t matter

fire2iceus · Answer

no I wouldn't all the guys are going to probably say it all you're a liar but to have a girl get up on stage and take her clothes off to a bunch of strange men and rope and do know what they do either under the runway under the table or go home and do or even go to the bathroom in dude is not right and it shouldn't be done this like men shouldn't be pornstars neither should women because it's degrading to them as a person see the people that raised them to your family it's just wrong a woman shouldn't have to take her clothes off to get money it's just a legal form ofprostitution

opnbuk59 · Answer

Hell yeah best times ever both of you know where each other stands no emotional ties just hang out unfiltered conversation no bull crap good people so damn open honest once you get to know them make me blush, I don't look down on our feel Superior to anyone no matter what they do it how they live their lives it's nothing wrong with making an honest living and will be treated with same level of respect from me they are people also someone's daughter, sister, and or a mom herself, consider that next time you come into contact with a lady of the night, can hook you up with whatever you need talk about the ultimate connection Google don't come close to the wealth of info these ladies have just saying

Anonymous · Answer

It would depend on a few factors. For example, I would probably be ok with it if they were doing it as a temporary job just for the money and had higher ambitions for the future, were drug-free and had no physical contact with customers. I think I would have to draw a line at my partner giving lap dances to horny strangers. I know its a job, but physical contact is a no for me.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

If I was single and and started seeing someone who let me in on this fact, maybe. The maybe being we have started seeing one another already so I assume I already see something in her to have kept her around for more than just one date. Which historically I do not. I am glad I have a girlfriend already. She is not a stripper...

Miristheiss · Answer

Didn't you already ask this?
No way.
A woman undressing fully and displaying herself sexually for a man's pleasure is in an intimate relationship thing.
I consider women who do it for hundreds of strangers for money corrupt and 100% unfaithful.
I could never be with such a women as I would feel betrayed by her everyone time she gives sexual entertainment to another guy.
She is dirty and corrupt to me. She has nothing I want.
Dating wise, relationship wise she is ruined.

Randomawkwardness · Answer

Why not? Just because someone strips doesn't mean they suddenly have no value. As long as it's because of who they are rather than what they do, I see no problem with it.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yeah if they're a nice person and we have a connection then why not

NineBreaker · Answer

Be kind to? Yes. Be friendly abd polite with? Yes. Date? That is a NO for me, and a hard no at that.

_gigi18 · Answer

Nah not for me to be honest the jealousy or the secret judgement I have would take a toll and make it toxic

MrEaze · Answer

Deffinately, like so many other decisions , a lot of other factors come into play. I fell in love with a girl and I held in to her for 15 years, lost her last week or March 10 was the nail in the coffin of a toxic relationship. She was the most manipulative person but also very loyal. I should left her 5 yrz ago and not looked back.

ProjectileTuna · Answer

I would. I don't judge. If all she did was strip - you know, no private shows, wink - I wouldn't have an issue. I don't judge someone's circumstances or reasons for doing things because it's not my place and I may not understand why they do it. That's up to them. Some people have to do hard things. As long as she had a plan in life, because stripping doesn't last forever, I'd date her.

Jacksoscar · Answer

Maybe I just have never met one with a personality I liked. I use to work nights at a restaurant. That had a strip club in the parking lot. They came in for dinner all the time. I found that bunch to be rude every time.

honestGUY45 · Answer

I probably would, although it would be a dealbreaker if she's on drugs. The first challenge would be meeting one because I don't go to strip clubs. I outgrew that shit a long time ago.

slatyb · Answer

It's an honest living. If we were otherwise compatible and she would date me... sure.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

Laozi · Answer

If they're good as a person then that's enough for me.

vickyaustin · Answer

I'm still trying, I like only one girl and only go to that club for her.. She is still taking time to talk personal stuff...

Kezzz · Answer

On the condition that she come home with me every night and give me a private show... yes. I'm kidding I mean, I'd still give it a try

Clyde_123 · Answer

I'd date him if doesn't do his clients, if there are no physical contact.

Guanfei · Answer

Nope. I wouldn't date à girl who's intimate with someone else, even as a job.

bobbyirish · Answer

I have dated female strippers and would do it again.

Ebivion · Answer

No because it's unsanitary also she is probably more likely to cheat I know that sounds like a stereotype but strippers come in contact with a lot of people every day and we'll you never know

bulletbob555 · Answer

I have, so I might again. I do have a different mindset now

Kejaco · Answer

I have, they are just normal people that know how to dance,

bodel · Answer

I would never be able to trust her 100% so i probably would not date her.

MrCon10t · Answer

No. I'm 24 and I wouldn't date a stripper if it got me enough money to put my grandkids through Harvard.

baconninjadc · Answer

I have dated a stripper in the past. Best sex I ever had and she was definitely my best friend.

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

I don't know. I guess if we really clicked and it was strictly dancing then maybe.

DictumVeritas · Answer

Not even a snowballs chance in hell. I've known too many stippers, I don't trust them at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Ya my mom a stripper and I'm be one too so I would date a stripper.

hotrocks · Answer

Ya, but no touching lol. No different from any other occupation really, you can go streaking through town I wouldn't care. As long as you are faithful I'm fine.

Tomsta · Answer

Would depend on the clientele of said stripper, if it's a dive bar style then probably not, but it's it a bit more "upper class" then maybe

jasco · Answer

it depends really if she's willing to stop it and find another job then sure i see why not otherwise ehh gonna have just be fwbs

spartan55 · Answer

Date? Na. Fuck? Oh yeah.

Massageman · Answer

If the job was a legal one, it wouldn't have been a deal-breaker when I was dating.

Riot_king · Answer

Well love is blind. It would make me blind if she is worth it. I wouldn't care about her job, past, etc.

jersos1 · Answer

If they matched with my type, I certainly would consider going on a few dates and deciding finally.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

Hell no... Instant red flag... I doubt she ain't a hoe...

bossbaby11 · Answer

Yes they are people who are just doing their job so if they are hot why not

Yeshua · Answer

If I didn't then that would sort of make me a hypocrite since I did actual porn at one point.

navyP · Answer

Yes absolutely and just an FYI they are extremely fun to play with

ivbnlknfru · Answer

Mmm... yes. Then i could get private shows...😁😘😍

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Date? No. Pay her fifty bucks for a BJ in the VIP room? Yep.

akguy75 · Answer

Yes why not ! IT'S A JOB BECAUSE NOTHING IN LIFE IS FREE ! Need money to live.

vxlsir · Answer

I did once she was the one that got away I shouldn't have ever let her go

B2281 · Answer

An active stripper no. Someone who has been a stripper maybe. All depends on compatibility.

ultimega · Answer

I'll be friends but not dating

Mcluven · Answer

Yes but im pretty sure I will ask her to change careers

Oogie-Boogie · Answer

I wouldn't care. She comes home to me at the end of night and she's making good money.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't date an active prostitute or stripper because the risk of polygamy would be too high.

crazy8000 · Answer

Sure if it was only stripping.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm gonna be a stripper so why not

jillybeanns · Answer

Absolutely not lmao.

CaptainLegal · Answer

Yes I would it's just a job.

IAMNathanael · Answer

I'm gonna have to take a hard pass on that.

msc545 · Answer

Sure, why not? It's just a job.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

Date? No. Fuck? Yeah.

WhiteShoulder · Answer

No. I would not.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah

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