Well, the thing is man, you have made it very hard for yourself. How can you tell if this woman actually likes you, if you are acting like one of her customers? You are paying her to get naked for you, make out with you, and flirt with you essentially.
The overall rule of thumb. Strippers don't like you... and even if they do. Their job is to dance, grind, and be naked in front of a bunch of other guys, one of which is you. How do they make more money? They pretend to like the guy, and he shells out more cash, coming back more and more, instead of just going that one night. Happens all the time. But I'm sure there are some guys they like, be real with yourself. Are you THAT guy? If you had a lot of luck with women, I doubt you would be considering this one, so I'm going to guess that you are not THAT guy.
You want to see if this girl really likes you. Invite her out for a real date. A nice dinner somewhere. Don't go to the club anymore... Your last day in that club was yesterday.
Your job should be to form a relationship with this woman outside of the club, and eventually get her to quit. Unless you are fine with that. Most guys would not be. But does SHE want to quit is the question.
All of these are things you should have considered, and you should keep in mind if you move forward. Also, the fact that she is in any sort of "situationship" that she is telling you about, is a bad sign. I say run, you do what you want.
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Go the the club on a busy night when she's working. See who she sits with. Probably the guy (s) that are big tippers.
She is probably telling you a sob story so you feel sorry for her and will loan her some money.
I had a female friend that was a stripper. (I did not meet her initially at her club, but at a restaurant.) We became friends. She told me how some strippers manipulate guys to get money.
Beware.
Yep, you nailed it with that last sentence. You are being played. What would make you think otherwise. Her sole purpose is to please men and make money from it. Of course she is going to be nice.
Certainly worked too! You keep going back and I would assume spending more and more money on that entertainment. Now, I also see she has hooked you with a little backstory of this 'other' guy 'one his way out'.
That is just to keep you interested and coming back. My guess is that will never be resolved and she will keep you on the hook until you figure it out. If you ever do.
She likes... good customers. Her job is to be a people pleaser. You're being played.
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Well this is a year late but may help someone. girlfriend is a stripper and at one time I was a customer. She may be fond of you even attracted to you. She has to keep he RL self away from her work self. When we fell in love the work situation immediately disappeared. We became OTC only. Girls can't handle their boyfriend in the club long term. If they see you at work your still on the outside no matter home much she can make it feel like the inside.
Ya right.
They know how to work the crowd and end up with your money.
You are not the first guy who has thought this, nor will you be the last.
They are there to make money, and not to have someone save them.
Just stay away before you lose your money and or your dignity.Thats what they do. They give you a good time so you come back.
The easiest way to figure that out is don't give her any more money and see if she keeps talking to you.
No, she just likes your money, but ask her out if you feel that strongly about her.
Hahah No dude... No.
She wants you to spend money on her.They're paid to like you. It sounds normal for her to do this to every customer
They loooooVE you🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑🤑
🤑@how much strip club cost to you?
omg! she likes your money dude
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