I think my boy cousin likes me! What should I do about the situation?

[Brown_suga246]

OK my cousin likes me, like he wants to be with me or something. I had other family members tell me he likes me too. When I went to a family gathering he was there. And when he hug me he said I see you got the girls out. Meaning he was talking about my boobs cause they was kinda out. It felt real awkward cause my own cousin looking at my boobs. Then we was watching TV and I noticed him staring at me the whole time we was watching TV. Now I don't even wanna be around him at all cause its so weird and nasty. How should I go about the whole situation?

[Anonymous]

Just tell him that you have heard some things that have been said, and you don't feel comfortable with it. If he tires to play it off like he doesn't know what your talking about just tell him that you don't care either way and that you will not get involved with a family member.

[Brown_suga246]

Ok thanks!

[Rajaenigma]

Actually, I think I'm That cousin of yours. I have the very same feeling and intension on my cousin. I would love to play with her boobs. I haven't physically touched yet, but i love to. by the way I'm from India, not to have way to many confusion

[setcheck67]

Hmm incest is never good. Especially with cousins. My advice is to simply tell him that you don't like him doing that stuff.

[greeneyedgal]

Is he a first cousin?

[Brown_suga246]

Yes he is.

[greeneyedgal]

Ok, thank you. I think you need to be honest and just tell him that since you're family, you both cannot be involved. It is considered incest. Also, let him know that you're trying to be honest, open and you hope he will respect your feelings.

[Brown_suga246]

Ok cool....I know I'm going to see him on x-mas so I will talk to him then. Thank you I appreciate the advice!