My girl is too popular? a little concern

[kenken1330]

my girlfriend is really pretty nice body long hair (her own) and every thing but every time we go out there's some one trying to get with her or knows her I ask her about it and she was like I know people that know people what do you think I should do to do to end that

[Jtmatt]

Well, even though the girl is popular, she needs to understand that she has a boyfriend, which is you. For a girl to attract a lot of attention like that is a big problem for real. Majority of the time, she doesn't even know what she is doing. However, this attracts a lot of shady characters from the streets and can cause some real issues. (Believe me I know...im living in Detroit Mi.) She needs to realize that she is already taken and control herself.

Now, don't be controlling and not allow her to hangout and stuff, but tell her that you are technically her priority and she should at least be by your side. Confront her about it, because it is somewhat serious.

I don't deal with the popular girls too much because they forget why they are in relationships and and in life and can never be faithful...until they reach 40 and don't have no man. lol

Hope that helps somewhat.

JTM

[mabialy]

ehh, sorry babe but you can't. Trying to control who she hangs with or talks to or has connections with only pushes her away, and eventually she'll get annoyed and leave you. Talk to her about it, but in a subtle way not to push her away. Try to get to know those people. & if you can't trust her, then I don't think you two are going to work out unless you get past or over this :)

You're cute by the way :]

[ljchick]

If you really like this girl, deal with it and don't let it get to you... You can't be upset with someone for being well liked. She seems pretty outgoing, so why not try and make her friends your friends. Or at least yet to know them enough to feel comfortable when they are conversing with your girlfriend

[CrazynKinky]

You can't end people looking at her just trust her