The girl I like is way too out of my league?

[Anonymous]

I wrote way too much, I guess you won't read but please help me!!

The girl I like is probably way too out of my league, so I didn't interact with her a lot before. Then she started conversations with me. I came into a liking to her then. We used to flirt, talk all day and night. She had a big part in my happiness , later in a few months she started ignoring me all of a sudden. I don't know what I did wrong and I probably hate myself now, I am so depressed. First of all she forced me into her life, now she is the one who is ignoring me. She was way tooo nice to me. Now, I don't know what to do? I cried a lot. I hurt myself a lot.
I am 16 by the way if you are wondering.
Any suggestions.

[Liam_Hayden]

First off, ditch the "out of my league" thoughts. That equals automatic defeat. Then realize that some girls primarily seek male validation. Kind of sounds what she was doing with you. Just realize that she thought you were good enough to talk with, and so will a lot of other girls. Now you need to just accept that she isn't into you. That is okay. You will meet a lot of girls who are not into you and a lot in whom you have little interest. That is life. Just don't get trapped into a "The One" mindset. There are billions of women out there. There are lots and lots and lots of "ones" for you.

[Asker]

That got through to me man🙄✌❤

[Matieux]

Maybe you did something wrong or maybe you didn't but 70 % of the time when a girl start suddenly ignoring guy it because she start loosing intetest, you don't have to follow my advice but if you do that's, as you seem depressed and that she is a part of you happiness you kay want to go after her and ask her what you did wrong try to apologise and simp after her that would be a big mistake, if she ignore you just make her take conscience of it and do the same ignore her too, if she interested in you she will come back if she is not so she will go

[Tara234]

probably you have done something to hurt her without knowing or she lost interest in you. I suggest you talk to her about what happened. Show her that she means a lot.

[whyareboysDouchebag]

She may not realize you feel ignored. I think it’s cute when you say “she forced herself in your like”. Lol anyway just tell her how you feel.

[that1guy_123]

I'm going to venture a guess that she gave you ample opportunity express your mutual attraction and to ask her. And you never did. And so she's appropriately angry about wasting her time chasing you. I mean from your description, it sounded like she did all the work and chasing and you never reciprocated.