I believe that personality and character matters most, and they don't at the same time. It makes logical sense to say that because there's a lot of people, an ordinary decent person can get passed over for someone that their crush finds more appealing. That's why a recruiter will say "Your resume looks great! I'll get you connected to our HR!" *3 days later* crickets.
Anyway, I've attached a short clip of myself speaking: https://imgur.com/a/aPKnmE0
I don't think I'm fat, BUT I can lose weight if a doctor says I need to for my health. Here was the type of girl I liked the past: She was 5'6" blonde and used to be in the top sorority of a university. I have a feeling that, because she's really beautiful, there's a lot of other guys who are ahead of me in looks and other things.