Girls, when all else fails, should a guy just give up and quit?

[Anonymous]

I don't get it, I'm not a cocky guy, I try to be genuine by helping others and not expecting anything in return, i don't do drugs, i don't drink alcohol, i don't party, i never slept around, i got a university degree and now about to complete law school. I'm not some mama's boy, I'm an independent guy, I give others space, I play sports, I stay in shape, I try to listen and communicate civilly with others. Even when I was in my 20s I declined to have sex with different girls. Plus I noticed girls looking at me, I don't know why. But even my sister's friend said "your brother is a good looking guy". I am not claiming I am some perfect dude because we all faults but I try to live life in a good, clean, proper way. But Im 33 now and I'm just tired of trying with girls, it's mentally and physically exhausting.

Side note, please don't answer with the general answer of
1- maybe your looking in the wrong places
2- maybe your going after girls out of your league
3- maybe you are too aggressive

The answer to all 3 is no, so what gives, maybe I am not destined for anyone. No I am NOT hiding anything.

[clusker]

Wow I'm 43 and I have the same experience as a man ur not having sex with women for the sake of it that's great and I wish I had a proper man like you and no do t quit. Ur a sensible man and sounds like u just want a serious realtionshio and wen u meet girls tell them that and I would love a man like you as its very rare these days to have a loyal man.. No don't give up just go to bars where's there like minded people where there are girls like you or wen u least expect it you Meet someone I promise. God is just wait g for the right time and if u like a girl let her know just ask her out on a date maybe you'll meet someone who u work with or when ur finished college.. But when u stop looking is usually when it happens or maybe some girls are like he's out of my league so they don't humiliate themselves thinking he's educated good looking why would he won't me.. So if u like a girl let her know smile flirt it is a hard question as I'd have to know u as a person..

[Asker]

But im 33 now when you get rejected and all these girls in your age bracket dont care about serious relationships they just wanna party and do whatever I just lost faith I can't keep pushing myself because I just feel like the outcome will be the same. Guys nowadays dont want to approach women because of hearing the words "ew", "get lost", "im taken", "sorry", and etc. At some point maybe I have face the music that I won't find anyone and die alone. All these girls I was interested in, yeah they eventually got married... I never took advantage of them sexually when I sorta flirted with them. That got me no where I'm just tired of this nonsense. I don't hate women and girls, I'm not even one of those guys who hates females because thats unhealthy I just hate myself because I keep getting rejected.

[Anonymous]

you should travel. my dad travel across the country and he found my mom.

[Asker]

kind of hard to do that with everything going on, i wouldn't be surprised if ww3 starts.

[Opinion Owner]

well if ww3 starts, it's time to join army lol. I would join the army as well if it's open for women. plus I don't have a boyfriend either

[Asker]

I wouldn’t fight for a country that abuses its own people. Wars are just meant for trying to conquer other territories and for what? Killing millions of innocent people, no thanks. The truth will be revealed one day by God and what lies ahead his not going to be pretty.

[Opinion Owner]

oh. wait. I'm not going to join war. because my country never help its own people. you made me. realized. thanks.