Why are guys so easy to manipulate?

Question

do you guys like being used or do you just not see that you're being used? like when a girl flirts with you to get what she wants (very obviously) why do you give in?

Sarah0514 · Accepted Answer

I'm a girl

The thing guys are missing about this question is that it has nothing to do with being a man or a boy, or even easy. The fact of the matter is that men DO ANYTHING for women.

Everything falsely classified as manly basically puts men on the losing end.

Granted some of the things are nice things to do but what men don't realize is that by always being the one to do these things, they place themselves in a box

Chivalry - Sure it's nice but the reality is men are on the losing end. Sure girls are taught if the man is going to pay for the meal, try not to order anything too expensive.

Or doing anything that requires true physical exertion. You don't see women doing these things for men.

Or the dating/bar scene - Do you see women in bars typically going up to men? Not really. Unless! they are trying to get a free drink. Men on here would say those girls are bitches. The thing is, they could stand still and if they are hot chances are they will still get that free drink. Everything related to male and female relationships has to do with female choice.

I mean literally a girl only has to wear a sexy skirt and a shirt with a deep V or something that shows just enough cleavage. Not necessarily a lot either. Just enough. Men will be begging on there knees.

What's even more funny is that men put themselves in this box while still allowing women to do the same things as them. Such as women has a choice to stay home or work, etc.

Men are sexually driven. That is a fact, but the thing that separates us from the animals is that we have a frontal cortex. So men stop being such push overs. Sure things are nice gestures, but chivalry for example shouldn't be followed all the time.

Now for the comment by BOND00713

true some girls may be easy to get in bed, get it in, and leave, but the thing is. More often than not, Big leagues or little leagues, men are much easy to manipulate than women.

bond00713 · Accepted Answer

Why are girls so easy f*** and dump? Do you girls like to be had like hoes or do you not see that a guy just wants to git in the draws? Like when a guy doesn't seem to be interested in what your sayin to get what he wants (very obvious) why do you give in?

Same question...get it? You probably messin wit Simps (Simpeltons, Chumps, Blockheads, Charlies, Marks, etc). Real men don't fall for that sh*t. Rookies (Newbs, Puppies, Nice Guys) make these mistakes because they don't know how to handle a woman.

Same goes for Real Women. Stop manipulatin the Rookies in the minor leagues and get to the big leagues.

Jolyo91 · Accepted Answer

Because they are blinded by beauty.

Juicebowl · Answer

In general cases men just like the attention, and as a result they'll be more open minded to doing things for the girl that they interested in. A guy has to be savy enough in social interactions to understand that the girl flirting with him has other intentions. If the girl is qualifying the guy it can go to his head and build his ego, while throwing logic out the window. The naive guy is susceptible to being controlled because he is willing to trade his resources for you and your attention. They comply because they are accustomed to the traditional relationship where men provide resources and women provide themselves.

A savvier or more experienced guy will recognize your tactics and will have more options at his disposal because he'll be thinking more logically. He may accept or decline your manipulation, bargain with you and even attempt to manipulate you.

Anonymous · Answer

Haha. I used to work in a popular perfume store and had a lot of women that tried getting away from paying by flirting, I can tell you that it NEVER worked on any employee. If I hadn't been payed to act polite towards customers, I would have made sure that these type of women would know how pathetic I thought they were.

Hell, I even had a 60 year old hit on me and I was 18 at the time! It was so pathetic that I just wanted to tell her that there was no way somebody my age would find her attractive. But again, had to be smile and politely make a joke or something so that she would get the point.

I've had conversations with friends about these women and they also find them to be pathetic and that the women that have tried the same thing have never worked on them either. Maybe it just works on guys with brawns and no brain, guys with large egos or whatever.

experimenting360 · Answer

I do allot of studies on the human mind and from what I can see flirting is a sign that the girl may like the guy and she can disguise it good in some cases. With this being men want to prove themselves. I have not been used by a girl yet I already know what is going to happen when they try.

T_Beezy · Answer

Not all guys give in. As for the guys that do, they make it very obvious that they will. Hence why they are so easily targeted by the girls who do the manipulating. Then there are the guys that would still play hard to get, but have the full intention of being easy. Just something I've noticed in the world.

ihatecopcars · Answer

We are like dogs I suppose, really loyal and sometimes too loyal and we get taken advantage of. If you are are manipulating guys I think you got some serious issues. I know all the games you girls play because I can play them too. Usually I don't waste my time with immature women though.

budphillips · Answer

In my experiences, girls are just as easy to manipulate as guys are.  Sometimes even easier, pending on the manipulator.   This makes me sound like an awful person.  I'm not all that awful, I promise.

iformshadears · Answer

We don't :) Only silly children let girls use them. But real men, tell you where to go :p why do you ask? Have you been a naughty girl?

JustDance · Answer

lmfao. I guess all the guy you flirt with, and manipulate, are CHUMPS.

Try and meet a real man, we don't give in like that. We ain't dumb lol. ITs called self-esteem. Guys need it so they don't NEED validation from women to feed their ego.

Jtmatt · Answer

That is not true... if you flirt, I won't give you what you want...I'll manipulate you to give me what I want. No matter how much you can try, you can't control me.

stercor · Answer

'cause guys don't play relational chess. Ironically, the first manipulated is the manipulator.--- though not aware of it. It's somewhat sick. Ted

stevo · Answer

Some of us give in and don't see it coming because we feel that she actually likes us. Personally, I don't like it. I've been in those shoes three too many times.

Telemusik · Answer

men don't mind being used if at the end of the night they get there end away ;)

Anonymous · Answer

Use us how? I'm fine if she just wants a lay. Don't wast time on women that don't put up. ;p

Anonymous · Answer

If the lady is beautiful, smart and sexy, I just can't help myself. I'll be her toy.

bunny420 · Answer

I'm not, I give the orders. :)

Giggletr0n · Answer

Boobs are hypnotic!

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