How should I start physical contact/cuddling?

[Anonymous]

Me and this girl like each other. We usually text/fb for a while everyday. She has invited me over a few times but I couldn't make it. Now, we have planned to watch the bachelor together next week. She has said stuff like "i wanna be in ur arms" and has heavily hinted that she would like to cuddle and such. how can I start this while watching the show? also, should I be talking to her? sweet talking? or should we just watch silently? I am relatively inexperienced and would appreciate your help

[ArtistBboy]

Advice BEFORE the show:

- Take a shower

- Shave down to at least a stubble

- Put on good deodorant / Cologne

- Wear something reasonable (Don't come in suspenders / a dress)

etc

What to do (to cuddle)

- Sit next to her and relax... Let your mind be at ease and in the moment with her

- When you feel comfortable offering your arm, raise it up like you are going for a "side hug" and then ask "May I keep you warm?" in your own terminology. BAM that easy.

**NOTE** After she accepts, pull in ever-so-lightly, just enough to let her know you are holding her, but not enough to stop circulation / kink her neck. This will also bring her head against your shoulder / pex, which allows her to feel safe and comfortable.

What to look for (During the show)

- If she looks up at you or raises her head (after resting it on your chest). This is a hint to kiss her

- Squeeze her hand at a random time LONG after you start holding her hand... if she squeezes back, she is ready to kiss you.

- If she starts rubbing her shoulders, she is cold- keep her warm with your body / arms

- If she pulls away, she feels uncomfortable, give her some space to feel comfortable again and push lightly to show your desire to hold her. When she opens up, she will come to you.

etc

Good luck on the date, if you need more advice- let me know

~ ArtistBBoy

[h2opologirl]

mm well I think that there isn't a "right" way to start cuddling. you just need to do it! haha like when a guy put his arm around me for the first time it was just when we were walking right next to each other and when we were watching a movie if she leans towards you that's when you should. But it can even be while your watching the show just put your arms around her! it doesn't have to be right in the beginnning. just make sure she's comfortable and hopefully it isn't akward for you! sometimes it can seem like it but its a good feeling for a girl to be held in someones arms.

[Nataliee]

Just put your arm around her and things should flow from there. If you're too nervous to do thart, then you could try tickling her and lead it into cuddling, that's always cute. It doesn't really matter if you're talking while watching the show or not - watching something is good that way, if things are awkward you don't have to come up with conversation. But if you want to talk to her don't hold back just because of that