Guys, Should I give my crush a drawing?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I wanna give my crush a drawing I just made for him and it's really cute and nothing too much and I showed all my friends and even my guy friends and they think I should cuz it's cute but me and my crush have never talked but he knows I like him and I know he likes me too were just really nervous with each other but I'm tired of not doing anything and I thought he would like it if I made a drawing. Do you think I should give it to him, how would you like it if this were too happen to you? Helppp by the way everybody the drawing I made should be posted so you all can see. Would he be weirded out or will it make him happy?

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And by the way he stares at me like alottt so. But just since we've never talked I feel like this might make it more awkward between us... I don't know so if anyone could help that be nice

[RED9000]

I think yes, giving it to him wouldn't be an awful idea but be careful not to come on too strong. Present in a friendly and joking way as to not put too much pressure on him, while still making it somewhat clear you have some feelings for him. Don't come on dead serious like you are totally obsessed with him and you totally mean what is meant on the paper 100% (even if you do). I can't speak for all guys but most guys are afraid of relationships and their own feelings and when forced to confront them by a girl they may just run away from it all and say he isn't interested. Leave is somewhat playful, don't be too forceful, this will allow him to think over the situation, and his feelings about you and decide on what he actually wants to do. Also it wouldn't be a bad idea to put your phone number on there if you guys haven't exchanged numbers yet, just a thought. Hope that helps

[Asker]

Okay thanks and well the staring game between me and him has been going on for a year now... I've written him a note before last year but I thought he'd be happy if I do this and I had someone tell him before I'm sorry if he thinks I'm pressuring him and he said I'm not he's just nervous and doesn't know what to do

[RED9000]

yeah if he said he is nervous then you probably want to take it slow, give him time to think over things, if a guy is nervous and scared taking it slow it usually the best option. the picture isn't a huge leap forward, should make him smile and think of you more, so I would say go ahead with it

[Asker]

He told me he needed time to think over things a little he just doesn't know what to do but I figured this would give him a smile or somethin.

[RED9000]

depending on when he asked for some time to think you may wanna hold off a bit on this, could seem a bit pushy

[Asker]

Okay well uh today I talked to him for the very first time.. didn't think I'd do that but I said to him "the drawing... you weren't supposed to see that and I'm sorry about everything" and he said "it's okay" with a smile and he said it quietly it was cute. the whole time we were talking he smiled at me even when I walked up to him. And he thought it was cute that I talked to him he just said he feels like a bitch for not doing it first haha. So yeah everything's good now and hopefully it will get better with me and him.

[RED9000]

so you gave it to him and he received it well? good luck

[Asker]

Yes he thought it was sweet and cute

[matheus_mb]

Yes, you should. You said that you both know you like each other and you're tired of not doing anything. That's the spirit! Never regret later for something you could've done. Do it! You have nothing to lose. Good luck.

[Asker]

Thanks that's what I said "I have nothing more to loose" and I'm pretty sure he likes me he thinks I'm cute and I'm done with the staring game.

[matheus_mb]

It's good you think like that. People would avoid so much uncertainty if they just acted...

[Viking111]

Do it.