Make a story about her body as you caress every square inch of her body, that she is comfortable with. Meaning, don't talk about how you're going to mount her. Instead, here's an example:
You both are already cuddling and your stroking her hair, she starts to relax and be comfortable. She is laying over your thigh and listening to your every word. Your voice is calm and relaxed, but on the tip of overly-powerful. She can hear the command of your mind through your voice, it's coming straight from your heart. You're describing the very profound meanings, using just basic literature. You will start to notice her heart beating faster and her breathing deeper when you do this right. It's like a form of ecstacy almost. To some it's overbearing but to the normal human, it's rather normal and comforting.
- Keep reading that until you understand the FEELING, and not the words. Keep reading until you get goosebumps and feel the energy surging from each nerve to the next. Then close your eyes and make a mental picture of your girlfriend and what she feels like with each touch, with each smell, etc. You can almost draw her with how clear the picture is, and it's even in color.
Women truly enjoy stories like that, from my own experience. It shows that you have great grammar (or in this case, spelling too).. And additionally, it's fun and unique. Not many guys make up stories like that.
So the answer you're looking for, is just to be yourself. Don't be a cookie-cutter man.
~ ArtistBBoy
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For me, cuddling fills in all the spaces. I don't need chatter or complements. I just enjoy the company and the closeness.
If you think the quiet must be filled with something, trace your hand along her side, telling her she's beautiful. Complement her eyes, her smile, the way she looks at you or laughs. Speak straight from your heart, and don't be shy about it. A girl loves any complement, as long as it isn't something like, "I love your really big butt." or, "You have nice t*ts."
Be genuine. Be sweet. Be creative. Most of all, be cute!
You could talk about you're day, or what you guys want to do for a fun date.
Tell jokes. It's fun to try to get each other to laugh or smile with out talking, like make faces at each other, something cute and fun like that.
Hope I helped a little =]
Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all. You don't have to force conversation. Just let it happen on its own.
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