I picked up my best friend and she wasn't wearing a bra. It was obviously she wasn't. What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

So yesterday I picked up my best friend as she doesn't drive. As she got in the car I instantly noticed a few different things. The first thing was that she was wearing a tank top. She never wears tank tops in public and I've been friends with her a long time. Then as she got in I noticed she didn't have a bra on and I could see her boobs. They were really obvious because the tank top was tight on her. Then next thing was she tied her hair up into a bun. This is the first time I've seen her tie it up in mouths. She normally has long hair and she has even said she hates tying it up. What does this all mean. It was like she was showing me her boobs on purpose. We then went back to mine and I could see her boobs for hours. Does this means she's more comfortable around me or does she like me.

[pastelbun]

honestly, considering it's April and you said her hair was up and she was in a tank top, she was probably just hot. i mean, you have no idea how hot and sweaty and uncomfortable bras can be. And that just multiplies when it gets hot out. it's like hell. i'd probably just say she's more comfortable around you. and possibly feels safe enough to not have to wear a bra in your presence, which might mean she doesn't fear that you'll harass her or try to make advances. not wearing a bra around someone is generally not a sign of attraction. actually i'll often find myself wearing cuter or nicer looking bras around people i'm attracted to. so yeah, i'd say it's a comfort thing bc i don't know one girl who would say most bras are even remotely comfortable (unfortunately for some, it's actually less comfortable to go without a bra because of chest size, but that usually also comes with awful back pain). but in the end everyone is different so you can't really know unless you ask her personally, which would be totally awkward because it's a societal taboo. I wouldn't think much of it now. If she does like you she'll be more direct.

[Asker]

I live in England and it's never really that hot. I was wearing a jacket that day lol. So I don't think it's the heat but yes maybe she felt more comfortable around me. But why suddenly now, and why such a change in style around me. We've been best friend for so many years

[jjr23]

maybe the bra looked bad was ripped dirty or just hurt and she wanted to try a tank top as for hair might have been unmanageable so quick fix or she didn't have time to fuss. also you don't know what she's doing before or after. next time subtly probe but certainty don't say why are you bra free

[Paris13]

There could be More in Store that she is Just bringing on to you her, dear. There is only Way Today to find Out and that is to perhaps give her 'More' of A... Shout.
Do some flirting of your own, should she do the Boob Tube thing again. It could be she has now had a change of heart with you and wants to make "More'... However, be Sure.
Good luck. xx

[Paris13]

For me, Unless I really like the guy, I am not just gonna let it all hang out all about for Just Any ONE. xx

[Goldie757]

She feels comfortable around you, nothing less nothing more. Stop over thinking.

[thatboye]

I wish more women would be braless. I don't know why she did that, but I would have a hard time not staring. Maybe she's comfortable around you, and feels like she won't be judged by you if she isn't wearing one. I don't wear underwear sometimes, and it's only because I find it more comfortable not wearing underwear, and maybe she feels the same way in a bra. If you really want to know, then why not be bold and just ask. I wouldn't care if a woman asked me why I don't like wearing underwear i'll tell her the truth lol.

[AHellaNo]

I guess she is comfortable enough around you not to care much. I dont think it immediatly is a signal that she likes you. Maybe she just wasn't feeling like wearing a bra that day and felt comfortable enough not to wear one around you.

[meatballs21]

I hope you took a detour down this street:

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[Spiorad_Aisce]

At the end of the question - I thought to myself it could legitimately be either - First things first, do you like her - If you do, try flirting a bit, give her signals and see how she responds

[DianeDuffus]

I really shouldn't answer this because I'm trying to hold back laughing while at the same time cutting you down. This girl wants you plain and simple

[bilal123s]

it could be both actually, since she is ur best friend perhaps she wears clothes that makes her comfortable and this a sign of trust

[Offthelist]

she's probably just comfortable around you. I wouldn't jump to assumptions.

[Summerjonee]

she's comfortable around you enough wear bras aren't a priority. it probably isn't flirting.

[Brincess19]

She's comfortable around you

[Cccgala]

This girl is somehow into you. She's showing off.

[LaurenGrace]

It means... why are you in the friendzone. lol

[Twolips]

Probably nothing