My female friend asked me to cuddle and I have feelings for her, what should I do?

[ChiefQueef]

I'm really close to this girl who used to go to my class, we are really good friends and we hang out a lot. I started falling for her so a couple of months ago I asked her if she wanted something more than friendship, but she turned me down. I thought I was over her but lately she's super touchy and intimate, she's always holding on to me in public, or sitting on my lap, or dancing on me whenever we go out, last night we went clubbing and afterwards she begged me to go back to her place, saying she only wanted to cuddle. I was hoping that something would happen so I accepted but she just held onto me and fell asleep. All of this has dug up old feelings and I am very confused because she made it clear when she rejected me that she only saw me as a friend. I don't know what to do, i still want to be friends with her but i know she won't stop being physical. And I already asked her if she wanted a relationship once and she turned me down so I'm not sure I should do it again, what should i do?

[mr90skid]

I'm assuming you played along in all those instances.
1. Either you keep playing along and hope she tries to initiate a relationship
2. Pop the question again on her again. if she says, you good. if she says no, then 3
3. You tell her to get off your dick figuratively and literally ( tell her if when she sits on your lap so you can get the one-two) cause she's getting some cheap minor boyfriend privileges outta you without fully investing. The things she does are the kind of emotional shit women post on social media. like

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and

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^Stop killing her depression, let her anxiety sit, and tell that bitc- tell her to eat a damn multivitamin.

Sorry, :O jokes aside, (no offence to her) but it ain't fair for her to get this little benefits outta you at your expense. Let her know its making you feel bad first, don't go ham for no reason. Keep it civil :) :D

Seriously though, good luck

[ak666]

How about just try to seduce her a bit when cuddling? Blast up the sexual threat. If she's dancing up against you, grab her and pull her back to you. If she's cuddling with you, try to go for a kiss. Or maybe tease her -- kiss right next to her mouth, maybe make her wonder a bit what it's like to kiss you for real. You got all these situations to be physical with her and grab her and put your hands on her. That might bump you out of the friend zone or at least let you know where you stand.

[ak666]

Basically be physical right back to her. Place your hands on her. Lead her. Don't restrain yourself. See what happens.

[Smmyskittles]

^ Has clearly learned a few things over the years.

[Born2shine01]

Well maybe she's just being friendly with you or even flirting! Or that could be her personality but if she's being way to touchy like how a girlfriend would, then maybe just ask her why she's doing all that if she only wants to be friends! :)

[Klara-Hitler]

Girls. They never understand they should exactly marry the man they can see as "a friend".

[BlackPantherSpeaks]

Nah bruh fuck that I've been there. She TESTING you!!! She wants to see how much of a man you are... Tell her how you feel if she can't reciprocate then tell her you're going to back off to get some time to heal. NOT ALL FEMALES DO THIS, just the fucked up ones. She's trying to USE YOU AS HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON... THATS NOT FAIR TO YOU!!! Respect yourself homie...

[accomplice]

Maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship, but enjoys the physical contact. If you enjoy cuddling her, do it. If you want something more physical, talk with her -- she's a friend, right?

[Anonymous]

Some girls like to screw with a guy like you, just for the benefit to their ego.

She knows you like her. She knows she can tease you and you'll take it. And it makes her feel good about herself, to know you want her but she can say no to you.

[Decentguy]

just tell her straight to her face that if your not interested in me then done be so physical and intimate with me

[AdamMadX]

My friend... you have officially been friendzoned. #welcometothebrotherhood