Why do some girls get hit on ALL the time?

[Anonymous]

So I have two friends that I hang out with a lot at home. Between the 3 of us none of us look bad but one girl gets hit on all the time. Now when I say all the time I mean ALL the time. Neither me or my other friend (the one who doesn't get hit on all the time) can remember a time when we didn't go out and at least 1 guy approached her. It's like when we go out with her it's not if it's when she gets hit on. But the me and my other friend don't look bad at all, people tell us we're cute all the time (people that know us and on occasion random people) but this girl is like a guy magnet. Why is that? I mean my friend and I don't look bad but the other girl is constantly attracting guys and while guys are talking to her we're just standing there awkwardly. Even if we say anything to the guys that are talking to her they just look at us like, "We don't want either of you we want her." So why is it that he gets hit on all the time and we hardly ever do?

[chalupa]

OMG! that's what happens to me and my two friends like ALL the time! I mean, my two friends a GORGEOUS! they both get hit on quite a lot, but friend#1 is always being hit on. I don't really know why, and personally I really don't care, but me and friend#2 have talked about it. And yea, I think it is just because they seem more approachable to guys. But I don't really have a unbiased opinion on this because my friend has a really great personality as well, so...

[SmoothBlue17]

maybe I suspect it is the vibe she gives off and that she is extremely approachable. Guy don't feel intimated walking up to her and talking to her. Truth be told, it also depends on (just like Thiezz said) her appearance. What is she wearing compared to you two? Maybe she is wearing something that attracts many guys

[1MysteryMan]

Sometimes very good looking women get hit on less than least attractive women because they are more intimidating... maybe they think they actually have a chance w her but not with you two ... maybe they might think you two hold higher standards ...

[Thiezz]

Maybe she looks really approachable somehow. It might be worth investigating what kind of first impression you and your friends make apart from your physical appearance.