I'm 24 and still haven't had my first kiss. Is it ok? Or very strange and weird?

[Valgolla]

[MaelaK]

It can be both strange/ weird and okay at the same time. Or, more precisely, you can be okay with the fact that it is strange/ weird to the majority of the populace and still not be too harsh on yourself about it or take other people's viewpoint to heart.

Personally, I don't think it is such a big deal. I can understand how it can make someone feel like they're a bit "behind" compared to people their age. I can also understand how someone wouldn't be led to get their first kiss because of some basic and universal reasons, like shyness for example. It can be as simple as that and since the reason is often linked to this very common state that shyness is, I don't view it as being that weird.
Other people might find it weird but their viewpoint shouldn't affect you because there is nothing wrong about being "late" (to most ppl's standards) and going onwards to your own rythm.

[anti_feminist21]

Just go kiss someone. I'm also a virgin lips but I definitely plan on changing that before I'm 24. Just plant one on her/him.

[Bandit74]

It's pretty fucking weird and I say that as someone who is in the same boat as you. And despite what some of the girls on this site might say to you, I honestly believe most girls in real life would find it really unattractive.

[Valgolla]

You too?

[Valgolla]

Why I'm pink?

[ak666]

https://vocaroo.com/i/s1IrPbqXEOSa

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I didn't have my first kiss to i was age 28, so i know the feeling.

[Anonymous]

Its fine. Ignore the others making out that its weird. Not having a first kiss and being 24 is fine. You'll meet your prince charming in the future, probably when you least expect it. So I wouldn't worry about not having kissed a guy.

[Valgolla]

Haha. Well I'm a guy. And I think I'm straight:)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh haha, your princess then :) Honestly there's worse things to worry about in life than not having kissed a girl. You'll probably meet your girlfriend when you least expect it. Im a girl and i don't think there's anything weird about you not having kissed someone. Just chill, relax and enjoy life dude. It'll happen when its meant to happen :)

[Valgolla]

Yea. You absolutely right. It's not the big priority to worry about. Just feel some "pressure" from others sometimes. But honestly I'm good with it. Not a goal. Thank you so much for your answer!

[Opinion Owner]

Its fine. Honestly as a girl i'd have more respect for a dude who'd only been with a few girl than guys who are players and have been with loads and loads of chicks and sleep around. You'll meet the one when the time is right. Other than that I wouldn't give into the pressure. Just ignore those who are pressuring you. A first kiss is something that you're going to remember forever and although it isn't as serious as something like losing your v card, you don't want to waste your first kiss on some random girl. Anyway I'm glad I've helped! :)

[Anonymous]

yeah things are moving a bit slow , the summer is coming. I'd say its your chance to get something started and change this

[Anonymous]

Honestly that weird since you've been on this planet for 24 years and haven't had a kiss yet. But I guess that could also just be that you're waiting for the right one

[Valgolla]

I'm not waiting. You want to say I'm old?

[Opinion Owner]

Lmao no. I never said your old. 24 is young. If I thought you were old I wouldn't said that but I didn't. I'm just saying like maybe you haven't found someone that you want to kiss badly yet. have u?

[Valgolla]

I'm old haha. Well it's not a big deal. It's not a priority in my life anymore. And never was. Just feel sad today. Decided to ask. Thanks for your answer

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't mean it in a bad way. Sorry. What I meant to say was that first kisses usually come unexpectedly for some people.

[Valgolla]

No it's ok. I shouldn't bellyache about it. I have been living or"existing " (better meaning of my life) on this planet for 24 years and cry about kisses. It's nothing. Some people don't get chance to live so long. Die young. I should take life as it is and stop crying. That was a bad question

[TVerbeeck]

Have you made attempts?

[Anonymous]

weird
for a guy actually

[Anonymous]

it is ok, do it with someone that will worth

[Inkked]

Strange