Girls, is flexing muscle a turn-on or turn-off to you?

[HikerDude]

I don't mean like ridiculous, full-on bodybuilding posing or anything. I just mean like a quick flex to be cheeky. Sometimes I'll catch girls looking (esp when I have my shirt off) and I get the urge to show off just to see how they'll react. I caught a girl checking out my arms one time and tensed my arm muscle and she wouldn't make eye contact with me the rest of the night.

[TayTay21]

HOT 😍😍😍 Seriously, if you've got the body to show off, go for it! Be as forward and as ballsy as you want to be. Most girls love guys who are confident and proud. Not every girl will like you, but if she's into you at all, a little playful showing off like flexing will give her a hint as to your intentions. Some girls will even roll their eyes while secretly being really turned on by it. Point being, just do what you want and live boldly. Shy, timid guys don't get pussy.

[natured]

Well, we like it, i think it's something natural to like something powerful that is able to protect and hold us ;)

[HikerDude]

Why are so many girls put off by it, then?

[natured]

I don't know :) maybe we all have different views or they just don't admit it, some women don't admit it because they are scared to look thirsty LOL i have no idea but to me it's sexy :) i don't care

[HikerDude]

I don't get why girls are so afraid of looking thirsty. Honestly, a little thirst is hot. Just like girls love that feeling of *knowing* the guy is gaga for her, we like to know we've had an impact on the girl we like. Makes escalation so much easier, too.

[HikerDude]

by the way, you are exceptionally pretty.

[natured]

Thank you so much, well, because some of us are scared of being judged, even though women should not even care at all like you said :D

[xMiax]

If you have something to flex, flex it. If you don't, then you're a joke.

[HikerDude]

I'm not a "joke," but thanks for the comment.

[tiabell]

its kind of a turn off honestly but also it depends on how you go about it

[JubJub_Hi]

It is silly. I will laugh I think. I do not like muscle guy anyway. Normal for me please 🙏🏻

[HikerDude]

Ok, that's understandable.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Flexing muscles is a HUGE turn on for me

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Do you have big muscles?

[HikerDude]

I have a pic on my profile page. Click on my user name.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

You look fantastic

[HikerDude]

Thanks! I haven't had pizza or beer in two years and I miss it, but I love being in shape more.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Your most welcome, keep up the great work. :)

[TayTay21]

Oh my 😍 Yeah, he does look amazing. Very nice work @HikerDude

[HikerDude]

@TayTay21 thanks!

[TayTay21]

@HikerDude how do you stay in that shape?

[HikerDude]

@TayTay21 I fight for my body every day. It's all about what you *don't* eat.

[TayTay21]

@HikerDude well, whatever you're doing, keep doing it! I wish more guys were in your shape.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Your welcome

[zanypanda]

Flexing muscles is okay if it's not done purposely. If you are picking up a heavy box, it's natural for muscles to flex. Now if you see someone checking you out and you start flexing that's weird.

[momo770]

oooooooo la la!

[emkat1020]

ON 💯💯

[depeche2015]

turn off. lol

[HikerDude]

why?

[depeche2015]

cause it looks cocky.

[HikerDude]

It's supposed to be, though. What I don't get is that girls tell guys to be confident, and then when we act confident, girls accuse us of being cocky a-holes. It's pretty much a no-win.

[depeche2015]

yeah i know but to each their own. i personally don't like confident guys.. i'm insecure so that throw me off.

[HikerDude]

I get that it can be too much for a guy to act really cocky, but we're also stuck with having to walk a fine line between being invisible to girls and being cocky jerks. It's not always an easy thing to do.

[NaughtySarah]

Ugh, Turn off