Do guys tease you when they like you?

[Anonymous]

Ok so there's this guy I like and he teases me a lot and it's like very playful. Does this mean he likes me back?

[Apollo75]

It's hard to say. If he's a high school guy there's a good chance but in high school it's a bit up and down.

Guys can act really mean just as girls. We all grow out of it in later years but yeah High School can be tough

[Asker]

Yeah we are both in high school
But he is also kind of a player and flirt
So I really don't know what to think

[Apollo75]

My advice would be either ignore him or play the game.

Ignore him; if he's into you, he'll show it and react. If he's not he'll get bored and move on

Play the game; play his game, tease him back, see how he reacts. Be Whitty. If he continues to tease, he might really be interested and it's a good ice breaker

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice

[Apollo75]

No worries. Good luck !

[Asker]

Again thanks

[geonator]

He probably likes you. Do you enjoy the teasing?

[Asker]

Yes but I pretend to be annoyed
And he starts flirting

[geonator]

He definitely likes you. Be careful though because he my be trying to hook up and nothing else, but he might be looking for an actual relationship. I don't know the guy so I'm not sure just keep doing what you're doing but don't be too vulnerable

[Asker]

thanks
But how do I he him to make a move

[Asker]

Get*

[geonator]

Have you been flirty with him? If not try that. If so try other things to make it obvious that you like him

[Asker]

I did and he said why don't you just kiss me


I didn't for two reasons
1: he was very arrogant when he said it
2: he said it with my mother in the next room

[geonator]

Your only option is to do it sorry

[geonator]

Thanks for MHO

[JhonnyMA]

if it's only this, then NO, but if he treats only you like this, an are kind with you then YES...

[Asker]

He has treated me both

[JhonnyMA]

But how he behave with other friends that are girls?

[JhonnyMA]

may be he is just like that with everyone... but if not, then he likes you...

[Asker]

Um well he is a flirt and has the reputation
But I have only seen him around older girls so he doesn't flirt with them

[JhonnyMA]

Now, even if he is a flirt, if he is flirting, he is look in for a opening, so you can be with him anytime, you just have to give him this opening, but keep in mind that it wouldn't last...

[JhonnyMA]

*Looking
dam cellphone

[Asker]

Are you hinting that he may only want sex

[JhonnyMA]

may be, but this only depends on you... you have to know what YOU want..

[Asker]

I know what I want and I intend to wait for marriage

It's just that I like him and I want to be in a relationship but I'm not going to change for him but honestly at this point I don't really know if he even likes me

[JhonnyMA]

So go for it... you have nothing to lose... if he is your age there is a great probability that he is still virgin too... and is just outgoing...

[JhonnyMA]

you just have to be aware of all possibilities...

[JhonnyMA]

to not broke you heart...

[Asker]

Thanks

[JhonnyMA]

Take care.. ^_^

[Mikmex1651]

I would say yes, but 100% if he makes physical contact with you when he teases you, like touch your arm and stuff.

[Asker]

Good to know thanks

[Thevampire]

It depends on what kind of teasing it is. If it is teasing that you would consider bullying then no, they don't like you. But if it is playful teasing that might mean they like you and want to interact with you more.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[Vyxzuw]

Or he's just a flirtatious guy.

It does mean he likes you, but not necessarily that he wants to pursue anything.

[Mynameisbobby]

Yes! I do that to girls that I like too! It's just playing around. The girls that I've done that with seem to like it too.

[Asker]

How do I show I like him back

[Mynameisbobby]

Just play along with him. Joke around with him. He probably already knows you like him anyway that's why he's teasing you. Tease him back.

[Asker]

I did that but he didn't do anything

[Asker]

What else should I do

[RiskMaster]

It can. It really depends on how he's teasing you. I would assume that he does like you from what you have described.

[Asker]

Well it's more of a he teases me about anything he thinks will get a reaction and we often get into arguments
Yeahhh so I'm not really sure

[Asker]

He even said why don't you just kiss me I don't know if he meant it or not or what he even meant or if he likes me

I'm just majorly confused

[Asker]

Does that make any sense
He's sending mixed signals
I really don't know what to think

[RiskMaster]

Well, is he doing this with a smile on his face? What kind of reaction is he going for?

[Asker]

Well he tries to hid his grins but he does it to get a rise out of me
It's like he had three sides
Nice, teasing, flirty

[RiskMaster]

Well, it sounds to me like he likes you, but I can't exactly speak for others.

[Asker]

Ok what do you think I should do

[RiskMaster]

I think that of stuff is working out fine right now, then you can just make no change. If you want progress, then either wait a bit or just go ahead and make the first move.

[Asker]

Ok what do you mean by first move

[Asker]

Like tell him I like him or kiss him?

[RiskMaster]

If you want to make the first move, I'd say that those would be two ways. You can do it however you like, but those seem like the best choices to me.

[Asker]

Which one do you think is my best option

[RiskMaster]

Whatever seems right to you. I think that if you're a spontaneous person, then kiss him without saying that you like him or if you are a person who plans things out, then tell him that you like him, or you can always just give some subtle hints. Please don't take this as gospel because I don't have a large amount of experience with this.

[Asker]

thanks I really appreciate it

[naraku]

we can do depending on how well they know you and thus trying to get your attention. Or just really immature.

[BobbyC65]

Yes guy's tease me because they like me and I find it sexy.

[DylanDimock678]

I like to tease to tell a girl I'm interested in them

[Asker]

Ok so if you don't mind
How would I tell him I like him back without actually saying it

[DylanDimock678]

tease him back

[Asker]

I have but he never made a move

[Asker]

I want to try a different approach
Do you have any ideas🙂

[DylanDimock678]

just tell the guy you like him

[Asker]

I'm afraid
He's a family friend
I can't go through the embarrassment or awkwardness if he really doesn't

[DylanDimock678]

just pretend he's naked

[Asker]

Again I don't want anyone in my family to know I like him if he doesn't like me back
It'll be too embarrassing

[Bunny0]

maybe... i think yes cz we tease girls who r either too messy or the girls we wanna impress