I sent him a selfie of me but he didn't comment on it?

[Anonymous]

He always used to say that I was cute after I would send him a picture, but when I sent him this one he didn't say anything about it. So I'm worried if I looked ugly in the picture? He asked for a selfie and I agreed that I would send one. Before I sent it, he said thank you goodnight or something like that and then the picture finally sent after and he didn't comment on it at all. I asked my best friend what she thought of the picture and she said I looked hot so idk! I'm a bit self conscious because now I noticed I had slight circles under my eyes and he wouldn't be shy to tell me how I looked... By the way he's my ex haha

[NotInTheBox]

I'm confused... why are you sending your ex selfies and if he's your ex why do you care what he thinks? Are you seeking validation from him or something?

He probably just got busy or fell asleep or something. Or, if he likes you he's trying to end this cycle of validation.

[Asker]

My ex asked me for a selfie that's why. He said he wanted to see me.. And then we just left it like that with a goodnight before I don't know it bothers me because I have low self esteem?

[RedVulcan]

He just fell asleep.
And if he's your ex what are you doing sending him selfies?

[Asker]

So he fell asleep and then just saw the selfie and didn't say anything back? It just makes me feel insecure I don't know why. And I sent him one selfie because he asked for it. I didn't want to be mean and say no..

[RedVulcan]

Ask him about it then. And do remember, it's just one picture. Nobody's full and glorious beauty is ever captured in just one picture.

[Asker]

I feel like asking him is too much and he's going to think things, so I'm just dropping it. And true. Thanks you made me feel a bit better! I shouldn't need a comment from him anyways since I did look good in the pic so people have said

[RedVulcan]

Happy to help!

[BaddieBunny12]

Maybe he was expecting it and took the pic for granted or didn't think he had to say anything.. you could just ask him. But I doubt he noticed your under eyes

[Asker]

I like your answer the best because it seems the most realistic. He did expect the pic before and it took forever to send. He most likely probably just looked at it and then fell asleep since he already said bye to me. I'm not going to ask him anything about it because I feel like that sounds a bit too much 😂

[UnnattiA]

I wouldn't read too much into it. He doesn't always have to flatter you. Also, looking for any kind of validation from your ex is never a good idea.

[catelyntje]

Ask him why he didn't respond while he asked for the pic

[Justinaveragedude]

He probably didn't want to admit he was waxing eloquence (jerkin off) to your picture. It isn't that he doesn't like it. But you are his ex so his uses of it may be something he wants to keep under wrapps.

[Asker]

But it was not meant to be a serious picture hahah it was using one of those weird Snapchat filters and I looked decent. I didn't send him a serious one for THAT reason. Don't want him jacking off to me :P

[Justinaveragedude]

It may have been a much hotter filter then you thought.

[Asker]

Even if he was, he wouldn't be afraid to admit that because we have sexted so many times before and he literally would openly tell me when he was doing it. So I don't know if I just hit him with a nostalgia feeling or a WTF she sent me that picture feeling since I didn't hear from him since then

[Justinaveragedude]

It may have struck him. You are His ex now, it may have been nostalgia and depressing.

[notlrac]

if he is an ex why care question why send to start with?

[Asker]

True I shouldn't even be caring, but I just have a low self esteem. I don't know if he was thinking ew this girl or not

[notlrac]

if might ask why do you think negative about your self?

[Asker]

I'm just really insecure that's all. I don't know how to explain why I think that way.

[notlrac]

you seem to be a nice young lady so i will try to help you should try to think good thought about your self how were you in school sports i sure you have good points if you would remember them to me you seem to be a special person think (i know at times it's hard to do) have you ever helped anyone perhaps an elderly lady a young child

[Asker]

Thanks that made me feel a bit better. I just have more self image problems... And I've been that way for awhile. I have helped out people before, yes

[notlrac]

no more nude selfie remember you are someone who is special now this olefart going to catch news Russia now good site take care of yourself

[Asker]

Okay have a good day! Same to you.

[Anonymous]

he didn't respond cuz there was nothing to respond to. I personally don't respond when people send me basic shit like "hi" or "GN STREAKS". unless you have something interesting to start a conversation with don't expect a response from me.

[Asker]

Yeah then again he did say goodnight before I sent the selfie so maybe he didn't want to say anything else after it idkkk

[player0696]

He has already moved on. Why you still waiting for hin? Move on...

[Asker]

I'm not waiting for him and I don't want him back. I just have self esteem issues.

[player0696]

For self esteem issue, post your selfie here, Anonymously and get results. Simple!!!

[Anonymous]

maybe he is sleeping or away from his phone/computer

[Asker]

Now I just think that he fell asleep and didn't really want to say anything about it, which is weird but understandable since I'm his ex

[wells1976]

If a girl dose that I usually say they look cute and stuff but sometimes I won't or stuff because I think if I say it to much it losses it's meaning

[Riteszh]

Maybe his opinion has changed and you were looking gorgeous in that pic but he hasn't got the guts to say

[johnmichaei]

no baby that's bad maybe he knows what he lost and he don't want to go back there maybe too much water under the bridge now

[Himig_Ng_Pag-ibig]

He fell asleep hard after he performed a cum blast cumtribute on your selfie.. It's normal.

[Harlock2045]

you should find a guy who will appreciate you

[Vdawgg]

Maybe his hands were busy?

[Asker]

Lol it wasn't a serious or sexy pic really it was just using a cute Snapchat pig filter.

[Vdawgg]

Guys don't need sexy pics. Anything with a hint of a female usually does the trick.

[Asker]

I did send him nudes when we were dated *shrug* so I'm sure that got to him more than this simple silly picture. I highly doubt it was fap material tho

[Asker]

When we were dating*

[Vdawgg]

Alright alright alright

[Anonymous]

Why are you holding on to a ex? You know a ex is ex for a reason.

[Makeuphoarder]

He probably fell asleep

[Makeuphoarder]

I just saw you said he's your ex.. Maybe just wants to see if he can still get you to send him selfies. Now he's got you.

[TILLBEANS]

He's your ex. Why would he compliment you?

[Asker]

Why would he ask for a selfie in the first place and tell me he missed me? I don't want him back. I just have self esteem issues.

[TILLBEANS]

Maybe he deleted your number and wasn't sure who you were.

[Asker]

He called me first earlier and I felt bad for not answering, so I texted him later on. He still has my number

[TILLBEANS]

To me it sounds like you should forget about his lack of response and instead figure out why your self esteem is low.

[Asker]

I admit he always would say that I'm cute and that would make me feel good that's why I got insecure when I sent that pic and didn't get any response.

[TILLBEANS]

What if you look in the mirror right now and tell yourself you are cute?

[chrisbigman]

He's probably just admiring it.

[psrocks]

You should think that he is left speechless. 😂

[Nahid1234]

Don't make a big deal about this.

[chuy10]

maybe he fell asleep

[Asker]

But he never made a comment about it that's why I'm like ah

[chuy10]

or maybe his new girlfriend saw your pic told him to delete it

[Asker]

Lol he doesn't have a girlfriend. He actually asked me that day if I was seeing anyone and then I asked him if he was and he said no so yeah. But I don't know I just sent it to my other friend and he said I looked very nice so I'm just like confizzled with this guy

[chuy10]

oh so you send it to another male friend

[Asker]

Yeah I did like a few min ago and he replied so I don't get what my ex's deal is. Then again it was using a pig Snapchat filter so maybe I shouldn't take this so seriously :P

[Anonymous]

send nude... he will react

[Asker]

It wasn't a nude. It was just a silly picture of me

[Opinion Owner]

if you want a reaction you got to up you game

[Asker]

I've sent him A LOT of sexy photos of me when we dated (he claimed he deleted them) but he probably didn't...

[Opinion Owner]

why are you sending pic to you ex again?

[Opinion Owner]

Your

[TheUglyMonk]

Want me to perform a cavity search on him? I can confirm whether or not he has the noods.

[Opinion Owner]

@TheUglyMonk Dude just send him nudes. He will tell you if he still has the nude Nudes are like a free pass on everything. #NudesAreFreePassOnEveryThings

[Asker]

I sent it because he said he wanted to see a selfie of me and that he missed me. We don't talk much anyways and this was the first selfie I sent to him in a month or so (So I sent him one right after he thanked me when I said I will and he said good night), but right after that message he didn't reply to my selfie. So that's why I was concerned. The nudes and everything happened BEFORE we broke up.

[Asker]

I'm done with the nude days... nope never again :P

[Opinion Owner]

But, think about the power and satisfaction you'll get from sending the nudes. (I hope you know i'm joking... don't send him nudes)

[Asker]

Lol it's fun but too risky! I would rather do that with my future partner.
.. But do ex boyfriends really delete sexy pics of their ex girlfriends?

[Opinion Owner]

To be honest well some do some don't but you'll never know who does.

[Asker]

Yeah he told me he would keep them forever when we were together (which SCARED me lol) and I'm like please don't and he's like ok I deleted them but yeah... He most likely didn't and now I feel weird because he mentioned how he missed my boobs on him that same night we were talking.

[Opinion Owner]

Best thing you can do is forget about those pic. If he still has them well he's only hurting himself more.

[morganrae]

he's asleep boo

[DylanDimock876]

a nude selfie?

[Asker]

Noo not nudes! I would never send those again to my ex lol, do not wanna be a booty call. It was just a selfie with the Snapchat pig filter...

[DylanDimock876]

I like when girls send pics of them in sexy bra and panties more better than nudes

[Asker]

Well I did that with him when we dated before, but he wanted to really see what was underneath them...

[DylanDimock876]

that's great but a smile can do so much for me as well as what's under your panties

[Midget_Hug]

Bummer

[Anonymous]

he is not interested

[Anonymous]

he didn't like it