If a girl values your opinion and asks for advice is there interest or just friendship?

[Darthkittehh]

So, this girl I like. I think she knows I like her. We're both kinda shy. She'll ask for advice on her life and stuff, send me selfies in crop tops asking "does this look ok" "should I post this on insta " She sent me a selfie of her wearing a see through top and a couple of others asking should I upload one of these and drew attention to the fact that you could see her boob through the top. She'll send me screenshots of messages, asking if she should send this to friends and stuff. So I feel she's comfortable around me and trusts me.

[SarahsSummer]

Could be interested, could think you're gay. Ask her out and find out for sure.

[Darthkittehh]

Yeah cause she'll ask me advice on things in her life. It's just the crop tops and stuff, that's a tad confusing, like I feel she's trying to flirt with me here? Especially pointing out her boob. Like she told me the other day she was naked and stuff getting changed and these guys walked past her parents lounge window. She'll send me songs and stuff that she likes saying "this will make you cum." It's kinda confusing also, cause she's chatting to another guy, through WhatsApp, so i'm not sure if she's trying to make me jealous. And she was thinking of going round his but they've not even met yet. So I got annoyed cause it's not safe, and she was like "now I know you reacted like that, it's more of a challenge not too. " She uses eye contact as a way of flirting also cause she did that with me the first time, and she told me she uses that as a way to get a quick fuck. When I saw her the second time she acted all nervous round me.

[SarahsSummer]

Is she also in her thirties or a teenager?

[Darthkittehh]

Nah she's younger then me, she's 22. But she likes older guys. Cause the guy she's talking to is 27.

[SarahsSummer]

Sounds like she's just a flirt, but again, you could find out for sure if you just ask her out. What's holding you back?

[Darthkittehh]

The friendship side. It's cause in the past I've asked people out that I thought were interested in me, but they decided to cut me out of their life. I have anxiety issues too.

[SarahsSummer]

Cut you out of their life? Seems like a drastic response to just asking a question. I'm the type of girl that when I'm curious about something, I ask. Directly. Sorry but the people you are interacting with seem to be very immature.

[Darthkittehh]

That's what I thought, its' happened so many times that's why I'm kinda reluctant to ask her, in case she does that. But I don't think she would be that sort of person. I guess it's just my anxiety. She's told me in the past we're close.

[SarahsSummer]

The other way of looking at it is if a person wants to cut you out of their life for that, do you really want or need them in your life? in essence, you have nothing to lose.

[Darthkittehh]

That's absolutely true, I wouldn't. But I kinda like talking to her everyday like we do. I'm just not sure if there's interest on her part. I know she feels comfortable being around me more then most people and she trusts me and stuff. So, I couldn't see her doing that.

[SarahsSummer]

Thanks for the MHO💟 good luck!

[Darthkittehh]

You're very welcome :) X

[accortez]

Ask her on a date and find out. I think she is definitely interested.

[grega239]

in my experience i get asked bcs they know that i know

[Darthkittehh]

Yeah she's chatting to this guy at moment. She was gunna stay around his for the first time. She's met him from an app, Bumble. I kinda got annoyed with her for even thinking of staying over, and she was like "now I know you reacted like that it's more of a challenge not to get laid" So I don't know if she's trying to make me jealous by talking to another guy. Its funny she said to me the other day that she'll use eye contact as a way of flirting or if she wants a quick fuck/make out. When I met her the first time she was doing exactly that, playing with her hair and stuff, but she was in a "relationship" at the time. She seems to tease me every now and then.

[grega239]

can't help beyond my comment i stoped trying to figure out what women think or do a long time ago

[Humbledman74006]

friendzoned

[Anonymous]

Interested