So long story short is that I have this friend that I grew incredibly close with a few years ago. It got to the point where she sent me nudes and when I asked if it was okay for me to look at them (I know, stupid of me to ask) she said "I thought you wanted to be more than friends?" To which I said I do, but nothing more ever happened. Later on I asked her on a date and she said that she wasn't looking for a relationship because she wants to focus on herself and her daughter. She's told me about people who she's gone out with and THEY thought it was a date, but she would tell them it wasn't.
Cut to like last year maybe, we were at an ice cream shop and the topic of relationships came up and I asked her when her last one was. She said NON serious was with an on and off thing with this guy, but he had a lot of mental health issues. I don't know if she was talking about me? I say that because I'm on some medication for depression and anxiety and I kind of showed my needy side when we were growing close. Her last serious relationship was with her daughters' father which was years ago
We recently started hanging out again and there's a lot of staring, smiling, laughing, her punching my arm, etc. and she's even suggested us hanging out next weekend or me and her going on a walk one day. I feel like that's a good sign. But I'm just really confused right now. I asked another friend and she said "I think you should give it time because she clearly likes you", but I genuinely don't know how she feels about me? So I was wondering, from what I've explained does it sound like she's interested in me? Or are there some signs I should look out for to know if she is interested in me? Thank you!
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Dude, sounds like you're her rebound/default guy to bug when she wants to feel good. Don't... step away from the unhinged girl... and go find someone else.
Have you ever had a girlfriend?
Yes I have, a few actually. Why do you ask?
Your question sounds like it was written by someone much younger, someone with no experience. OBVIOUSLY, she is interested. Woman wasn’t as man who takes charge so, if you want a relationship, don’t wait for her to send you a a written request. Seize the opportunity and show her that you are as man!
I did ask her out on a date, but she told me she isn’t interested in a relationship. She told me that her last relationship was with her daughter’s father which was years ago. She’s told me about her rejecting other people in the past too, so I think she’s serious about holding off for now?
So don’t talk to her about relationships. Just spend time with her, get to know each other, and if she develops feelings. . . she will forget that she said she doesn’t want a relationship. Of course it may not happen but even if she said she wanted a relationship, it might not happen with you. You never know until you spend time together. Yes, you are taking a chance, but you’ve gotta take a chance if you wanna find romance!
ask her