She's playing hard to get...How can I break that?

[Anonymous]

Questions says it all.

[moongirl44]

You have to get the ball in her court. Clearly, she wants you to chase her. So find a way to let her know that the next move is up to her. Tell her how you feel or something, and that the next move is on her. Don't be all cryptic about it, either. Make it clear where you stand and that you're leaving it up to her to take it further. If she likes you and is just playing hard as a ploy to get you interested, you telling her that she's won, you're interested, and that the next move is up to her will stop her playing hard to get. If all else fails, tell her you're done playing games and when she's ready to take this further, to call you. :) Don't be mean about it, still be flirty. Don't be all like, "Hey I'm tired of your mind games, and I'm not going to wait around anymore. Call me when you feel like making this real." Be like, "You really intrigue me and I would love to get to know you better. If that sounds like something you would like too, call me. I would love to talk to you some more." Or something like lol, that sounds a little lame.

[vmw2008]

I agree with the anonymous user, are you sure she's playing hard to get? Maybe she actually *IS* hard to get, not just playing. Maybe you haven't completely piqued her interest yet? She might not be ready for you to leave it up to her to call. Her interest in you isn't solid enough for her to want to do so. It could grow with time but she's not quite there yet. That's not her playing, that's her just doing what she feels comfortable with. There could be many reasons for it.

It's true that some girls play hard to get. But just as often, guys assume girls are playing when they're really just acting based on her interest in you at the time. No games about it.

[Anonymous]

How do you know she is playing hard to get? What is she doing? She may just not be interested. Easy way to find out is stop paying attention to her. If she is interested, she will start trying to find ways to contact you. If she isn't, you won't hear from her.

[Asker]

We went out twice, and she was pretty physical and responded very well to me touching her. She texts me first and offers times to hang out. But wen I leave it up to her to call, she doesn't. And sometimes she will just suddenly not respond in the middle of a texting conversation. So I'm pretty sure she's playin hard to get.

[Anonymous]

depends on what you want. women are weak against jealousy, if you do that, it may get to her. but maybe you shouldn't get hang up on someone like that. explore different girls, date many. it a good protection for your emotions.

but if you really want her, tell her to stop being immature or its over. it only works if you willing to enforce your threat with consequences. and be prepared to walk away, you don't want to fall for a girl that bad for you and messes you up emotionally. take care of your intergrity as a man.

[Phantom_operator]

Fight fire with fire my friend. Play it right back at her. Put some bait out there so she knows you're interested in her, then you suddenly become very busy to hang out, but as a little time goes by, then you hang out with her. You have to keep her on her toes, not the other way around. Give her something to chase.

[InLoveGirl04]

I hate when that happens. I think what you should do is also play hard to get. We girls hate that so then she'll start to flirt more and get your attention and all. Or you can make her feel jealous. that would make the strike. If she likes you then she'll stop playing hard and go after you ;) some of us girls are really jealous

[sallyaparicio]

tell her to be real to you, have a commitment with her and it would probably stop.