Why do girls never check me out?

[Anonymous]

It's like I don't exist, I never catch their eyes. I've been told I'm short and baby faced so is that why? Am I probably unattractive?

[sinful1620]

Sounds like you have pretty low self-esteem. Chances are girls are looking but you aren't noticing, or thinking they're not checking you out. Really though unless you're super hot and desirable (because girls are stupid and find guys attractive purely because other girls say they're attractive) you're not gonna get checked out all the time.

[vmw2008]

Read about the science of sex appeal. Women are attracted to status like men are attracted to looks. That's why it makes sense a man that other women say is attractive might become more attractive in a girl's eyes. It doesn't make girls "stupid". Unless men liking women's bodies is "stupid." It's instinctual.

[sinful1620]

Nah... pretty sure justifying acting like an ass by saying "she was hot!" is stupid.

[QuizzicalMinded]

Guys rarely catch girls checking them out. But we do it aaaaallll the time. You guys just hardly notice. Its probably happening more than you realize. Many girls like baby faces hahaha.

[Anonymous]

how well groomed are you? how do you dress? do you walk with confidence or do you look withdrawn and shy?

[Anonymous]

probably

or maybe it's just because girls are more subtle and you're missing the signals

[Asker]

Subtle? Why would girls be any different than guys. If a cute girl is walking towards a guy, he will look at her. I could be around girls and they never really make eye contact with me.

[Opinion Owner]

A girl won't look a guy up and down and make it really obvious to him. Instead she might turn her head and check him out from the corners of her eyes

[sinful1620]

Girls are "better" at body language... "better" meaning they do almost nothing, get p*ssed at people who aren't clairvoyant, and then talk about how subtle they are.

[Opinion Owner]

....or maybe you should start ignoring the so called invisible signals, use your mouth and start talking

[Jonny_]

Girls are more subtle than guys...

[Asker]

LOL trust me they aren't. I've seen girls eye rape guys while the guy is staring back "what is your problem"

[Jonny_]

Everyone can see when someone flirts with someone else, but they can't tell when it's happening to them. They are abit pessimistic about the belief this person likes them. The girl I'm seeing now said she looked at me and flirted alot, which I never believed (I think she is too out of my league) Anyway she had to tell me she had a crush on me before I even remotely accepted it.

[rocket-boy]

if you post pics maybe we can help!