Would you rather be called "cute" or "hot?"?

[jamesa0]

Cute

Hot

[freakyzeaky]

Most guys I think don't like to be called cute. Cute holds connotations of being endearing, but not sexually attractive. Puppies and babies are cute.

As a woman, would you picture a "cute" guy ravaging you? Cute might warm your heart, but does it warm your lady bits? I doubt it. If it does, that is awesome! I just have a feeling most women are sexually attracted to hot guys but are emotionally attracted to cute guys, and honestly, most guys want their women to desire them not to pet them. haha!

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Ideally cute, assuming I know it's indicative of attraction. Otherwise, I'd prefer hot because I think it's harder to say "hot" is platonic -- that's really the only reason I would choose hot. But if you can make cute obvious that it's not platonic (and I don't think it's that hard) then cute is preferred.

[Quintessence]

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All seriousness, though, I don't have a particular preference. It depends on the context and who's saying it. If we're in the middle of a debate and the other person condescendingly says "aw, you're cute", that's uncalled for. If it's some random guy screaming "you're hot" at me as I'm walking down the street, that's also uncalled for. If it's a friend or partner saying it in a complimentary way, then either one is acceptable and appreciated.

[pierrot11]

People always want what they don't have. I get called cute or pretty a lot, but not hot, so that would be a novelty for me.

[Purple_Babe14]

Lol, most girls would be like " cute"? WTF am I a child?

[SodaCheeks]

Cute, defenitly. Being called hot is usually just about looks. But if a guy calls you cute, he means he also likes your personality. And I think that's far better ^^

[smølf]

Cute = equal young girl cuteness and that is very attractive
Hot = sexy and I want to smash you right sway

Both are good in different ways, but a girl is hardly ever both at once. But markup, clothing etc. can make the difference between the two.

[Flower-petal]

I was cute as a child, I'd like to be called hot as an adult.

[Flower-petal]

Thanks for the MHO

[amel23]

I want my boyfriend to say I'm hot AF and for pple to say cute

[reixun]

Cute, I can be hot easily by showing skin but cute is endearing 👧🏾

[Hollywood-Glam]

I prefer cute because it can also be referred to personality. It feels better to be complemented on my sweet & adorable behavior rather than looks.

[NightOwl_23]

I would prefer to be called handsome or hot, dont girls call a guy cute when they aren't attracted to him to spare his feelings?

[pierrot11]

Not really. Cute is like 'an attractive guy who also looks like he's nice', hot is 'attractive but may be an asshole'. A guy can be hot but you're still not attracted to him.

[macix670]

I naturally have a cute or younger looking face so even if I dress sexy, people call me cute

[Anonymous]

Hot. Everytime a guy calls me "cute" I assume he doesn't want to tell me he doesn't find me attractive.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Isn't that paradoxical though? He would have just told you he found you attractive when he said you're cute.

[Opinion Owner]

@AllThatSweetJazz Yeah, maybe. But I can't help but think he doesn't find me attractive enough to call me hot.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

Aren't you just assuming that he thinks 'hot' is the stronger word?
If he values 'cute' more highly then he's giving you more of a compliment than saying you're hot, so in a sense you would be complaining that he's calling you *too* attractive.

[cupidkisses]

I would rather be called "cute".

[BleepRawrsaurus_Rex]

I hate being called cute.

[YHL6965]

Hot, because cute is often friendzone sign.

[LegateLanius]

either way, i am actually complimented

[MarianneF]

Cute anytime.

[PrincessPie]

Cute by miles.

[BackAgain]

Cute

[serious]

Neither!.

[Blondie80]

Both.

[Keenisha]

Cute 😊

[Prima_Dana]

I like both.