Help, he ignores me on weekends?

[Anonymous]

i see my man a few days during the week mostly now its just for sex he says he loves me but when his cousin comes around for the weekend he ignores me, or either calls me all drunk on the weekends.we've been together for about a year, the sex is awesome but I just don't know anymore.he used to always wanna be with me. I understand we need our own space and I have been talking to other guys, I do love him I just don't wanna get heartbroken.so what's your advice guys.

[Elcristoph]

Hello,

not calling on weekends isn't unusual, I've dated girls and on the weekends I've been very busy so havnt had the time.. this doesn't mean I'm not thinking about them its just I want to be able to see them in person so I can hold them whilst I talk to them..

drunk calls also arnt that unusual.. again women do this aswell.. what I will say is this though you need to make sure he's not just using you.. if every time you meet its just for sex and there's nothing else there then you need to have a think.. but what I will say is RELAX.. don't just jump to conclusions.. everyone thinks differently and if there's one thing I can say its that jumping to conclusions whilst dating is a guaranteed way to break things up becouse the fact is you cannot read his mind

Good Luck

- Chris

[Anonymous]

Confused, if its just friends with benefits then you aren't really in a realtionship and nothing to get heartbroken aout. Or you can still see other people if you really want to find a long term relationship.

[Longshot]

If he is a true BF, I would say there is a serious problem. If it's just about sex between the two of you, then you get what you get.