Are you attracted to girls/guys who love and are good with kids?

[rebecca10127]

Yes!

No!

Kinda

Don't know

[Anonymous]

Me being great with kids? Women seem to think I'm a pervert for being great with kids. None of the women who I've dated seemed to care if I was good with kids or not. I don't even think they saw me interact with kids.

I had a girl I dated who claimed to be great with kids and kept saying how she would love to be a mother; Oh, how she adored children. Then I saw her interact with a kid... and it was scary. She was terrifying, and if that was her in front of a boyfriend and trying to show how she liked kids... it was terrible. It was not THE reason for breaking up, but it freaked me out how nasty she was with a friend's child.

A woman who is amazing with kids? Love it. It's one thing I'm looking for. A woman who is not spectacular but wants to learn (just shy or something) is fine. But a woman who HATES kids and is nasty to them... I would probably not be that interested in her, dating wise (and I'm sure she'd feel the same way).

And not wanting to have kids doesn't mean you automatically hate kids. And knowing you're not good with kids or comfortable around them does not mean you hate children. I have no issues with anyone who doesn't want to have kids, though personally, I wouldn't want to date them for very long because wanting kids is kind of a thing I'd love to do.

[SovietBall]

Of course!

Because simply means that she would be a good mother

[JustAsking_1991]

I love men who do, because it shows that they are kind, empathetic, patient and loving to a being who cannot do anything for them but love them. So I love seeing men who melt for babies, children and animals cause it tells me he is nurturing.

I am a loving person who likes showing affection , so I want a man who will want children and show me and our baby/child affection and adoration

[foreveralone22]

Wouldn't you get jealous? I would get jealous. I would want my man to only melt for ME, I don't want him to show affection to something else because I'd feel like he doesn't really love me

[JustAsking_1991]

@foreveralone22 Well I can't relate to being jealous over a man that loves children, especially our own. A person who only loves you? That is selfish to want that. I mean you really get jealous if he loved children or his job or an activity? Like I do not know you but to feel jealous over a child? that's like something is wrong within you to feel jealous over that. Not saying you are not a person of good character. I guess I do not understand you in that aspect.

[foreveralone22]

Because guys rarely ever give me any attention and I've lived all of my life without any love in my life so when I get it, I want as much love as I can get from my man and not share it with anybody else.

[foreveralone22]

Nope, I do not find guys good with kids attractive because he shouldn't waste his time with kids when he should be with me. I'd feel jealous if he was more affectionate with a stupid child than with ME, HIS girlfriend. I don't want children

[SovietBall]

No wonder why your username can't say more about you!

[britpop]

I think it shows good characteristics such as tolerance understanding empathy and patience as children can be incredibly difficult but we all go at our own pace it's not a dealbreaker

[_bunny_]

One time I was with my boyfriend at his karate studio and watching him with the kids was very cute and made me love him even more ( although he doesn't like kids ) lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, i like girls who are good with kids, that shows they would make a good mother.

[angelgirl7]

Yes, I think it's super attractive when a guy is good with kids. You get to see their sensitive side.

[Linkio]

I'm searching for a wife so yes 😋 lmao. I find it attractive

[SLSYW15]

You're 117 and still finding for a wife. Go back and sleep in your grave. Lol:-P

[Linkio]

Maybe I ought to change my age. It's getting old

[SLSYW15]

Lol. You can't

[Linkio]

I can't? Wdym?

[Linkio]

Oh.. You're right

[EnglishHorseJumperr]

Omfg XD alright well gl

[turtl3man]

Doesn't make me attracted but a girl who doesn't like being around kids and complains about it puts me off

[foreveralone22]

I hate kids 🙄 I'd be jealous if my man paid more attention and affection to one than me

[turtl3man]

Nice

[Greaver]

It doesn’t matter to me if she likes or hates kids because when I get a girlfriend and plus if I find someone to marry I don’t want kids right away I want to adventure the world for a couple years

[winterfox10]

I don't really want kids, so for me it's kind of a turn off.

[IntroExtroTri]

Welp if she's looking to be my wife shed have to be good and love children just as I do.

[reixun]

Yeah it’s really attractive, it makes me feel safer pursuing a relationship with them.

[n8te_A]

Depends on whether you'd have kids, as for me I find them too annoying

[watisgoingon]

doesn't matter to me. more attracted to career driven women

[SocialIntrovert17]

Yes, I find it very attractive. I get baby fever occasionally.

[makuks]

yes of course. If he doesn't love kids then he can go and die

[Cosytoasty]

Yep, that's one of the requirements for a wife.

[foreveralone22]

No it's not, you could be married without having kids

[Cosytoasty]

@foreveralone22 Thes literally one of the most semantic counters I’ve ever seen on here lol... One of the requirements for the vast majority of men who marry is that she will have kids with him.

[The-Three]

if you had "my future wife" instead of "a wife" then it wouldn't be sexist. But your comment is just 😒

[Cosytoasty]

@The-Three Really? I’ve literally just gone from one semantic to another lol...

It’s not just MY wife, it’s (like I said) most any man’s wife.

[N2thing]

It sure is a pleasure to see.

[Jaybear0123]

Yes that would be so adorable in a guy.

[omgjassy]

It doesn’t matter to me

[GayHowellMeme]

Doesn’t give a difference

[true_follower]

Why?

[YoannaPetrova]

Yes, definitely!

[hasrett]

Yups.