Need help understanding the meaning of side hugs?

[Anonymous]

what do side hugs mean, I really need to know, some people say they are the same as full frontal hugs, but then some people say that they are just hugs given when you don't like that person so much and it's just being polite, I have a male friend who I have been friends with for years who sometimes gives me a full frontal hug but then sometimes gives me a side hug, what is the difference between the two and what is meant by each hug?

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even though we have been friends for years, him hugging me is a new thing, it's only started within the last year. and he never does it if there are other people around.

[Anonymous]

I looked it up on urban dictionary. For some men a side hug could mean he's hiding his erection and a full frontal hug may make it obvious to the other person. And actually let them know they are attracted to them. And they don't want to be more uncomfortable. I have a similar situation. Recently a friend (male) has moved from frontal hugs to side hugs. Ii hadn't seen him in months and was greeted a side hug. Let down to say the least. But was given a full hug when we parted. I don't know men are hard to read. It must be a guy thing. But urban dictionary seems to maybe hit nail on head.

[Anonymous]

I really don't think it means that someone doesn't like you. if someone is busy talking to someone or standing in front of something I will give side hugs. I wouldn't want to go stand in front of someone who is occupied to give them a hug. I think its about the most convenient spot an the moment to give someone a hug. like which ever side they are on what side of a butt cheek to smack or pinch haha. I don't think I think about which side I should hug someone I just go up and do it.

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Hugs are hugs! Though personally I'd rather be hugged from the front. :) I think side hugs are more of like, a friend thing between boys and girls. I knew this guy who always hugged a girl from the side, but they were just friends, not interested in each other. Though of course, if a guy likes you, I'm sure any hug would suffice for him.

As for your guy, it certainly sounds like he really likes you.

[downunder21]

its on like donkey kong sweet heart!

i think a hug is a hug regardless of where it is coming from. the fact that he doesn't do it in front of other people is kinda suspect that he is after something more.

i would give a side hug to a good friend, but I would also give one to a partner or someone I like more than a friend. it depends on the guy I guess.

imo, a hug is a hug.

[likeyeah]

well I think he's just stating his friendship. it doesn't mean a whole lot as he has been your friend for soo long . it is a less open a loving hug but as he's your friend I don't think it reflects his feelings towards you more his mood at the time. he probably only hugs people full frontal when he is in an open and loving mood. when a guy hugs from behind he's in a protective mood and from the side in a closed less emotional mood.

[likeyeah]

With the new update it sounds like he may have some feelings for you and is confused