don't take it personally. They're not making fun of you. Honestly, it's unattractive if a guy beats a girl that fast. He should play with her a little and make it last longer just for fun, even if he could beat her almost instantly. lol
No!!! Women tend not to be as strong as men and are usually much weaker in upper body strength. Also, if you're not done much of that, it puts you at a significant disadvantage also.
Nope, is nice when guys are stronger lol
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They're not laughing at you, I'm 95% sure. He should have played with you a bit I think. It might be possible that he thought the same about your arms and didn't want to risk anything. Maybe he'll be more playfull next time. About the attractiveness thing:
I personally love arm wrestling my girlfriend after we've worked out (or while working out haha).
That way you can adjust strength differences with exhaustion, like winner does x push ups / pull ups. It's soooo much fun, you should give it a try + a great workout since it's fun, sexy and you it's even fun to go till 'failure' (our gym says that one should do exercises till 'failure')
If I was my girlfriend, but with my knowledge of what I think is attractive - I wouldn't change a thing. But if for some reason she magically became unsporty, I'd train her back up, that is about 40-50 (clean&slow :o) push ups, 7-11 pull ups as well as a lot of crunches and squats, haha.
Just ask your guy, depending on the answer, start doing sport (more often but consistently > till exhaustion and motivation loss. Even if it's like one set every day until you just don't like to do push ups or whatever anymore) and stop worrying!
Fun fact: Smiling/Being happy is, from my experience, the most attractive thing.
No it's not unattractive either way. People laugh because they probably thought you were trying to act tough and he immediately proved you wrong. It's not funny that
People laughing doesn't make it unattractive. It's a pretty normal reaction to anyone losing in armwrestling in 1 second lol. It's not unattractive at all though, I'm sure there are girls out there that you would beat. I doubt your boyfriend finds it unattractive nor would anybody else.
No, women are naturally weaker than men. People laugh at everything honestly.
They may be looking to it as a cute game between a couple
I lose pretty quickly to women at arm wrestling. I think that he should have eased up for you some.
He should have let you win just for fun
No. It's adorable.
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