You HAVE to choose one or the other... doing both would just be overbearing.
I say private message him. Wall posts are there for everyone to see and they do not allow a real conversation to take place. When 2 people fall out of touch, they often both sit wishing the other would just message them. Message him and make it personal and make it clear that you want to stay in touch with him. The more obvious you make it that you're into a guy, the better off it will be.
I would give up on a person who randomly decided to stop messaging me (which happens to me all the time) and for a matter of months I don't hear from again. I'm not sure if he had his reasons but I don't think you could properly justify having no contact with a person you once cared about for such a long time. I doubt he stopped replying to his other friends for such a period.
If he's quit responding to your messages, I don't see a point in wishing him happy birthday. Did he wish you happy Thanksgiving, merry Christmas, or happy new year? If not, then I don't think he deserves a happy birthday wish.
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Either. Just try and get his attention. If he doesn't bite then maybe you should move on too. Just don't be afraid to tell people how you feel. Life's too short. Who cares how you'll look. If it's meant to be you'll find out sooner than later. Good luck
Message on wall saying happy birthday and you should talk more often. If he doesn't message you within a couple days message him saying hi. Are how it goes
You said he stopped responding to you, so I suggest private message.
Stay simple. Just post it to his wall so it's there. Happy birthday and tuhduh ^-^
Post on wall like every other jaggov. It's nothing too personal to say "happy bday!"
Vocally say, 'Happy Birthday' to him in person, face to face. Unique? Yes! Odd? Yes! The effect, lasting
If, you have a pic with him, add it and, caption it with HBD missing you or, anything like that. Prefer it on the wall and, let him take it to dm.
What's the best gift a crush could give you?
Mind u, I don't have much money 😝 Go big or go home.
Wall post is too public and general, you need to look different and interested in him in a "weird" way
Text him happy birthday and ask if you can take him out for a birthday dinner.
Say happy birthday on his wall. Add a picture of you together and tag him. He will notice it more.
In a private message, so it would look more romantic
Private message gives you a better chance to talk with him
Send a pic of Robocop riding a unicorn
Wall post, not everyone checks msgs
Seems like he has moved on without you.
I usually do private. Hope it goes great.
Wall post!
Private message
Post on his wall
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