I think my crush thinks I don't like him?

[Anonymous]

but I'm really sure he likes me

what can I do?

[Anonymous]

What's holding you back from you telling him your feelings? You can tell him how you feel, it's doesn't seem desperate, it's actually really attractive when a girl has the guts to do that.

[Asker]

And if I'm wrong and he doesn't feel that way and it ruins our friendship...then what?

[Ms_Sunshine]

Really? Sometimes we are just afraid of losing face when we are not what other think.

As a girl, I have been told by my male friends that do not show much to the guys what you feel for him. Naturally guys like to hung...then let them do it! Is that true?

[Opinion Owner]

TO: Question Asker:

If you want to know how he feels you have to ask him, its the only sure way to know (the only other way you can tell is by how you look in eachothers eyes, you know when someone has feelings for you easily). If he doesn't feel the same way, maybe he'll start to feel something (u can't predict a human heart), or time will heal your wounds, but if admitting how you feel ruins the friendship, then he just wasn't the friend you thought he was. If you don't take the risk, you may never have the reward.

[Opinion Owner]

TO: Sunshine:

Theres a diff between crazy stalker desperate & normal, and some guys are shy, don't like to chase, I really dont. you have to show him interest otherwise he won't even bother because he'll think you don't like him, duh! men & women are both scared to put their whole heart on the line. tell him the right way, depending on what kind of guy he is (alpha male, sensitive, blah blah blah) its heartwarming and/or sexy. just don't do any crazy stalker stuff, that goes for both men and women.