So there's this guy who used to look at me all the time in school, in the hallway, in the elevator, in the canteen, he even tried to approach me in vollyball game and he tried to talk to me but I wasn't intrested at that moment so i didn't communicate with him too much, he even once hold the door for me, So I thought this guy had a crush on me and he seems like a reallly nice guy so I had crush back on him, but lately I've noticed that he started to ignore me, he stopped looking at me, even on social media I followed him but he didn't follow me back and keep my messages "seen", why he act like this? Why he looks at me if he doesn't like me? Why does he makes me have a crush on him if he doesn't like me? He doesn't sounds like a F boy becuz he seems like a really nice guy, don't tell me go talk to him because I want him to make the first move or at least show me signals that he likes me back, I don't wanna sounds clingy.
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Why does he make you have a crush? You did that to yourself, girlypop. Nobody but him can tell you with accuracy whether he had feelings for you at that juncture of time or not. So what if you were wrong? I’m sure that question might make you defensive since you were convinced of otherwise, but the fact he’s not engaging and ignoring your attempts to talk makes it clear that whatever the case was, it’s not that anymore. He could be too busy, have someone he’s already talking to romantically, there can be any reason. The best you can do for yourself now is to back off and move on. He’s seen your messages, I think you’ve made it clear you’re interested and he isn’t biting.
He already did make the first move and you blew him off! Now you expect him to swallow his ego and try again? No shame and no self awareness on your part. You seem entitled, and expect guys to just fall all over you. I'm sure you're worth it too... 🙄