What's the first thing you notice about someone you find attractive?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

#First #Impression

Eyes

Body

Smile

Hair

Personality

[cerebrum]

No matter if I find someone attractive or not, the first thing I see is their whole body (face included) and general appearance, so obviously that's what comes first. If I interact them, focus quickly moves to their face and expressions.

First impressions never come from personality, you can make assumptions about personality very quickly, but there are other senses you will always use first. Intentionally, unintentionally or both. Even blind people rely on voice, a tone of their voice etc before personality. Besides, personality is so wide concept that it's not even figured out as easily as sometimes some like to believe. Initially, you get just a few small bits and pieces here and there and make assumptions about rest of their personality based on those bits and pieces.

[th3c0unt]

I might notice anything that first made me look... because I don't tend to just whorelook around random women.

But usually when I do relook, it'll be the eyes I'll look into.

And not what colour or shape they are. Lol that is shallow. I just look deep onto them to read her.

[karahiri]

probably like... smile, general demeanor. i really love... warmth from guys. like it doesn't even have to be a dating situation. if a man is kind and polite and open to laughter, i'm like already half way in love lol. i also like... men who are a little odd. like... i know everyone's unique and whatnot, but i appreciate men who fall off the beaten path a bit more than usual- generally, it's been a mindset thing. incredibly unusual life philosophies.

[vishna]

Hmm his smile/eyes if we're on a date :)
If I don't see him much (aka someone sitting to the side or in front of me in class, it's all his personality first)
I've only had one or two real crushes, one was on this really funny guy in my class. The other crush was on this super fine Asian guy.

[witherwing]

Seriously? Five people have already voted the first thing they notice about a person is their personality. Do they meet those people with their eyes closed or are they all blind?

[johnboymuscles]

Hahahaha

[Erwen]

@ witherwing So what's your answer?

[witherwing]

I voted for eyes.

[Erwen]

What is it about the eyes? It's an answer that comes back often in women, but I'm not sure why?
You feel he'd treat you well? Or is that something that turns you on? If he's grossly overweight, you'd be ok with that, if he's got good eyes?

[witherwing]

Eyes are what you look at first when meeting someone new. The question was what I notice first. There's nothing more to it. Eyes don't turn me on nor do I make any assumptions from people's eyes. Good looking eyes don't go very far if the person is unattractive otherwise.

[Erwen]

I see lots of stuff, hair colour, hair length, head shape and so forth. I would think it'd be a pretty useless question if it's only meant to be understood literally. I would think the implication, or another way to communicate the question, is what turns you on automatically, by reflex, when you first see someone.

[Erwen]

@witherwing?

[witherwing]

Nothing turns me on in a person I don't know, so I can't take the question in that way. I don't look people in the eye most of the time so it's a big deal.

[Erwen]

@witherwing Do you feel it's disrespectful when guys look you or other girls up and down? Why don't you look at people (only men?) in the eye?

[witherwing]

I don't think it's disrespectful, it just makes me feel uncomfortable. Also why I don't look people, both men and women, in the eye. Because it makes me feel uncomfortable.

[Pamina]

I would say face as a whole, usually.

By the way, how can personality ever be the first thing you notice about someone?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

how can personality ever be the first thing you notice about someone?

Judging people at first sight is a useful tool if used with caution. You can judge based on appearance, manner of walking and talking, and other physical and PERSONALITY traits. Your experiences may lead you to judge someone in a particular way and may even help you in the beginning. However, instant judgment can never substitute actually getting to know a person. In nutshell keen observation of the person.

Hope it Helps.

[Pamina]

But when I first meet someone, obviously their looks are the first thing that I will be able to perceive. How can I perceive their personality before their looks? However quickly I would ever notice anything about their personality, I will have seen how the look before that. Or am I missing something?

[White_Widow]

Body comes closest, I look at body language. I find it most important after that comes someones eyes and facial expressions.

[Erwen]

What does body language mean?

[Logorithim]

Face, and then I try to figure out her personality.

[DionW]

Hair, I'm instantly attracted to a girl with gorgeous hair

[DrinkJavaSeeSharp]

First skin tone. Zhen face shape. Zhen detailed face inspection. Zhen comes ze body

[DodgersGM]

I notice when they've got a certain joie de vivre about them.

I also like women with eccentricities -- particularly when it comes to eccentric interests. Not sure why. lol

[GinaTina]

definitely, im very much drawn to a person's hands, i love big hands and from their i can't decide if its their smile or their eyes... i guess i just love someone that knows how to smile regardless if the smile is nice or not lol

[VonDamme]

I remember when I first saw the guy I like I just noticed he was very tall he had the cutest face and I loved his stature (the way he stood).

[estoydorado1]

Once I find him attractive I start to notice the way he moves and interacts with the people around him. Then I start picking up on personality traits.

[nightdrot]

Her eyes - or body if it is from a distance - get my attention. Her personality keeps me around - and did.

[chrisbigman]

Typically the face, particularly the smile. However, it depends on where my eyes are in direction to her. For example, if I'm already looking at the ground for whatever reason, then it's likely I'll see her body before I see her smile or eyes.

[MissMonstaz]

Definitely his smile, lips, and eyes. So his face is pretty important.

[thinker_]

aura around her then
eyes then
symmetry and contrast in her facial pattern

[Kyhkhbkeb]

how can you know his or her personality at first? that doesn't make sense...

[uniquegirl04]

I say hair is the main thing I notice but if I had a second choice, it would be eyes.

[steel1997]

Eyes... Especially blue.. light blue
... we mostly have brown eyes... I am having dark brown... but I like blue eyes.. well I am obsessed with blue eyes is the right word.. lol.

[Darknut123]

I would say E that is in situation where you've already met them. The personality is the person and they never go far from that. Time changes all the rest.

[ShiaoYin]

Personality and body. Socially intelligent and I have a thing for broad shoulders

[genericname85]

depends. there are different levels and kinds of attractions and depending on which it is, the things that i notice vary.

[NewAgePurification]

Their overall face. But after we start talking their personality is all that starts to matter. Nothing better than a kind-hearted girl.

[Loveherbut]

people in US body. no matter how ugly you look if you have a great body you will be noticed.

[clampfan101]

Depends on what’s the most attractive part, I guess. It varies with different girls.