What's the first thing you notice about someone, their looks or personality?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I know about a woman's appearance the first time I see her, from a distance, and I know absolutely nothing about her. . . except that she looks hot (or not.)

I don't know anything about a woman's personality until I have spent some time getting to know her.

Of course I ALWAYS notice her appearance first.

WindAtMyBack · Accepted Answer

It's not even possible to know anything about their personality without first knowing about their looks. It can't be any other way.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Obviously looks but a lot of my crushes in high school I liked them more for their personality, charm and smiles. Which was annoying because I would tell my friends and they would go "Ewww he is ugly" but then a few days or weeks later they would like him too cuz they would see his hotness lol.

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

From a distance, I have no choice but to just initially notice someone's looks.

DishLady · Answer

Their expressions and posture indicate something about their personality.

matchrestore · Answer

I mean it's hard to notice personality before looks. You can see someone's appearance pretty much immediately, but it takes a while to witness someone's personality. The exception would be people you meet online, I suppose.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

I don’t like going for looks I rather go for personality I am not with someone for their looks I’m with them cause they have an awesome personality and that would be something I can’t get enough of

Fireguy17 · Answer

since it is the first thing you notice it would be looks. Usually you do not get to know their personality is like until you know them for a bit.

dustybiker2 · Answer

How they treat people around them, every time. I don't usually glance at people unless waiting. If someone is open and fun or simply pleasant they will catch my attention first.

paledreams · Answer

Usually looks, if it's a woman, usually people's bad personalities if it's a guy or other (I'm straight duh) lol so anyways again in terms of the context it depends if you're asking you mean Romantic interests or how I judge other people

alice55 · Answer

Depend here on gag I obviously notice their personality first but irl it's looks.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Personality, charm, sense of humour etc.

Caroline91 · Answer

Well, of course looks first bc it usually takes a moment to see personality. But it's personality that attracts me most.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Unless you've been people watching (a great activity to learn about ANYTHING!) looks first

Lliam · Answer

When I first notice a girl, it's obviously her looks because I don't know anything about her yet.

Ladsin2 · Answer

The question doesn't make sense. How could you possible notice someone's personality before their looks?

exitseven · Answer

looks. It takes a little bit longer to get to know somebody's personality.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

What they are wearing? I'm not judgmental, but some people who dress sloppy makes you wonder about them?

LiamJHayden · Answer

In person looks. or more precisely demeanor.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Looks. It's usually the first thing that we see.

Agape93 · Answer

Same as i told you yesterday. Personality

noohair · Answer

You can't see a personality, you have to learn it.

What's the first thing you notice about someone, their looks or personality?

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What they are wearing? I'm not judgmental, but some people who dress sloppy makes you wonder about them?

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What they are wearing? I'm not judgmental, but some people who dress sloppy makes you wonder about them?

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