Are moms attractive?

Question

I've heard some guys say that they think moms are hot because of the way the care for their children. Like maternal instinct I guess? is that true? Are there really men out there that find moms attractive? Or is that just something they say to be polite?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Let me put it this way. If a man is looking to settle down and a woman already has a kid and we see that she's a good mom it can become attractive because we already know she is a good parent. If a guy is looking to settle down then he will be looking for that quality. Non-mothers can also show signs of being a good mom but a woman who is already a good mom is already showing it to be true. But most guys aren't categorizing women in a mom and non-mom sections. Like, oh you're a mom, that's one point for you. No, that's just. . . . no. Doesn't quite work that way.

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend - and the mother of our three children - is the hottest, sexiest, most attractive woman in the world. Can't really speak to the rest - although I find nothing inherently unattractive about moms - but with the one who counts I am head over heels.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It would probably depend on what kind of a mother she is and how attractive she is. But, I personally have seen both kinds of single moms the sweet, funny and nurturing kind and the kind that make Medusa look like a better option to procreate with and you wouldn't trust her with your cat.

Arctic_Fox · Accepted Answer

I didn’t realise that being a mum was something that was specifically attractive, I always just assumed it was because of the mum herself was attractive but sure I guess so.

Desconhecida · Answer

That's not even a perv. It's a sick bastard

Riggers · Answer

It depends, I would say if they are the mother to their own child, Then i think the motherhood aspect would make them instantly more attractive.

But if you're talking about a single mother, Then no. I would think this would be a massive massive turnoff. Very few men would like the idea of taking on the burden and baggage associated with this, And, I know this will sound very primal.. But.. very very very very few men would like to raise a child that isn't there own..

For example, Most animals, Well, lets narrow it down, Take lions for instance, When a knew male comes into the pride and replaces the old one, He will kill all the cubs from the old male so only his own offspring are raised.

I think in nature, Its just in males mentality to want their own genes going on, Again, raising another mans child would be very offputting to most guys, I've actually had a lot of conversations with guys like this at work, And none would date a single mum. Too much baggage quite frankly.

I'm sure there are guys out there who will, Maybe ones who aren't capable of having their own children, or just generally a certain type of mentality to them, But, I doubt its many.

fashionguy17 · Answer

Married moms/moms in relationships. Sure, I guess. That's great that they are moms and that they have a great relationship. Kudos to them.

Single moms. Nope. While single moms can be physically attractive, most men won't date one. I wouldn't date a single mom. I remember as soon as I got to college, a lot of women were already single moms. Lol. And even at my current age (27) it got worse. Lol.

Thank god I met a girl who isn't a mom.

LongHairedDude · Answer

I'm sure they appeal to some. I've heard a lot of stories of single fathers connecting with single mothers. A parentless man probably won't want the extra responsibility of someone else's kids. It's stressful to think about being with them long-term. As for attractiveness, well yes of course they're still attractive. MILF is a thing. I kinda find moms (late 30s early 40s) VERY attractive, myself. Not sure about the maternal part though. Kind of sounds like mommy issues to me. I don't find someone yelling at their kids and tripping over toys very attractive qualities, but they have my sympathy XD

rjroy3 · Answer

I'm sure there are a subset of men who are turned on by mothers. It's also common for guys to like those character traits in a woman the closer they get to wanting a family for themselves, because you want a good mother for your children. But are moms attractive in the absolute sense? I don't think so. A woman is attractive or she isn't in my opinion. She doesn't get extra points for being a mom. But that's me. Other guys may disagree.

Matt57 · Answer

To me they are. I'm a family oriented guy that wants to fall in love, marry, and raise a family. I want to find a woman that is sweet, caring, and loves children and is good with them. Single mothers show those traits. I kind of find it cute when I hear a mother reading a book to her child with a soft voice while waiting at like the doctors office or something.

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

Well every guy has their own taste but a lot of guy think that mom's are attractive, maybe they remind them of their own mother that they might have lost or maybe because one day they want to raise a family and good maternal instincts is something that they would look for in a woman...

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Are moms attractive? Gah. No. Not in the slightest.

Some guys are saying they are attractive earnestly because they're desperate idiots who will have sex with literally anything they can, and some are saying it because they're just trying to be nice.

Ayer93 · Answer

If I know she has kids, I avoid her. I'm not that old yet to be okay with kids in a relationship. Also, mothers can be attractive in general. It has nothing to do with being a caring parent to me although it's true that being a caring person rather than someone who abuses others is a must.

AynonOMouse · Answer

No, it's the opposite for me. If she already has kids from someone else it can ruin the attraction/interest.
I don't want to take care of someone else's kids because they made mistakes. And I don't want a kid in my house thinking they don't have to listen to my rules when they are in MY place.

cuddlydreamer · Answer

I think it has to do with how the mother veiws her self and looks after her self. And takes care of her children and also has the desire to have a relationship with another man/woman and make it work as a family. That makes it atractive to most people. And that they are fun and confident.

wayy11aa · Answer

i think the most attractive about mums how fierce and tender that can be, you know? when a mama bear is so loving and warm yet so lively and bold, which how most mums are, it's kinda sexy to see that combination in one person, maybe?

Anonymous · Answer

Can't say I think they are. Unless she was mother to my children that is. I don't want the burden of helping raise someone else's kids. I will say women do have a certain attractiveness about them after they have given birth tho. But no I would never date a single mother.

GetzRekt · Answer

It's never been a thing for me, no. I've never looked at someone being a mother and felt compelled by that in any way. I would be more inclined to imagine that they smell of baby sick and talcum powder.

tyec13 · Answer

Oh it's not a myth, pregnant moms to be are way sexy, the closer to dropping water, the absolute harder I get. Afterwards it truly depends on each individual. Those that let themselves go, no. Those are trying and still have a little bit of fat on them from being a mom or are losing the weight and always look frazzled or to dishuttled are way hot for me. Which is odd, because confidence is the number one thing, next to enthusiasm that gets me really vibing on someone.

markscott · Answer

It is hot to see a woman give loving, caring attention to her child. It awakens feelings of awe at times, and opens a window into her soul, that is very attractive.

Red_Arrow · Answer

Being a mom does not make her attractive. In fact, since kids can get in the way of dating, it can actually make the mothers less appealing to those men.

4nication · Answer

I'm not sure I find a woman being a mother attractive, I mean if it's to another man's kids. But it can mean she is more mature, and you get to see a different side of her.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Yeah. They're attractive and they can be down to earth, not really high maintenance. And the really good looking ones are technically MILFs, no matter their age (I apply the term MILF to any attractive mother).

Simples...

Mmmaybe · Answer

Fantasy filled thoughts about "Stiffer's mom" from the movie, American Pie?

GingerGuy · Answer

I could see it being true with some guys. Especially if they are wanting children eventually in the future.

Zoltan7 · Answer

The sexual affection comes often from admiration. Both in womens and mens case. A good mom is really someone who deserves admiration...

jonathanhyatt · Answer

It's true depending on what a guy likes if a mom has that the will like her even more but other are turned off by the fact that she has a child

ReachingNirvana · Answer

I think there's a lot of beauty in motherhood and motherly nature, but whether or not single, childless men would find that appealing is beyond me.

KingDio · Answer

I find moms attractive but not for that reason. .. find them attractive for who they are themselves like any other not what they care for but in saying that its a good quality for a relationship

HereIbe · Answer

Many men find "moms" attractive. What astonished me was that, once I got back into "dating", women found it attractive that I was a father who 1) Did not have custody but DID make a point to spend time with his kids and 2) Paid child support on time.

Satyammishra · Answer

Yes actually mom are more quality full as compare to girls. often mom are responsible, long runner , stability, attractive by body shape and last their experience are better then a girl. yes would be choose a mom as compare to a girl

Mackenzie-28483 · Answer

Reading these comments make me feel , like it would be very hard in the future to date someone if they don't like to care for the chick that's not there's I'm having twins in about 3 months and the father doesn't want to be there for them.

Anonymous · Answer

There's this chick at my gym I see a lot who is hot as all hell. She has a kid. She brings him to the gym and he plays in the kids section while she works out.

LittleSally · Answer

It's like asking if lawyers are attractive - depends entirely on the lawyer...

Johnnie1000 · Answer

Thy are hot because of great tits, asses and a soft composure. And you know that at least once they put out.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend always jokes around saying that mom's can be really hot so yes, also there was this kid at my old school who slept with some kids mom in 10th grade

Caaarl · Answer

I'd never date a mom. But most guys wouldn't say a woman's personality is hot. Men's first reaction is to a woman's looks.

Eskandra · Answer

Yh but not all of them just the ones that hold and play with their child. No for the moms that shout and hit their children

lomimore · Answer

Nah its because of all the momma and daddy stuffs going on these days.

Anonymous · Answer

Being a mom has nothing to do with it. I'm trying to date a woman I know that has a child and that doesn't change how much I like her. But knowing that she is a great mom and is very supportive towards him is also a plus.

Paris13 · Answer

If they Take Care of Themselves, They can Out beat Mrs. Beaver Cleaver. xx

advaj98 · Answer

I mean some moms are hot at least if they're not that much noticably older than I am.

TheSikuu · Answer

Yes and no.  If you got knocked up young I can't help but think you're probably dumb.  But if you're a good mom, that's attractive.  Banging a milf is on my bucket list.

splingydude · Answer

Women in their thirties are at their peak sex drive due to risk of fertility loss. That and the maturity level, as well as the idea that she knows what She's doing.

JellyDonutguy96 · Answer

mom in their late 20's and mid 30's are, if I see a young mother and her child, I usually look at the young mother though,  it feels so wrong, I should stop, her husband is probably a cop,

Shyguy2001 · Answer

I like how older woman look so yeah. Who knows maybe in a couple of years.

CuChullan · Answer

There's a lot of hot moms out there. Why do you think MILF was coined.

Gedaria · Answer

Everyone is attracted someone else just because you are not , doesn't mean they are not attractive ...

CarismaMike · Answer

Only my own mother. I avoid single mothers because the kid is their number 1 priority. Maybe for someone who is a father the mindset could change.

zhamman · Answer

If I see a sexy woman who is a mom, I have a huge amount of respect for them immediately. To be a mom and work and workout and take care of child and still be sexy? Hot as hell.

colonthree · Answer

I guess I can respect the maternal instinct but I would never date one

Yal25 · Answer

That's not fair u should have asked too "are dads attractive?" because it goes with both genders

Nerdvana · Answer

Good moms are sexy AF. Bad moms are such a turn off, as a guy and as a human being.

Dzokson00 · Answer

they are attractive because genes attract us to the person that will take care of our kids the most

DamnMan · Answer

Yes, moms can be attractive. The proof is if they have more than one kid. Lol

PrettyRegular · Answer

Hard to say. Pretty much all the women are attractive. If she's a mom, at least it takes nothing away.

Jerre · Answer

I encounter many moms when I visit the local pub, most are MILFs. They are looking for a quick release and I always help them out.

JustRollTheDice · Answer

Milf exists for a reason

Hunterb · Answer

No I don’t like girls with other Men’s kids but I would make an exception if I really liked her

Thatoneguy777 · Answer

“Because of the way they take care of their children” never heard that.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

No no they really are hot. The nurturing side just adds to the attraction. That's soooooooo true

Lance1965 · Answer

Of course moms can be attractive but it has nothing to do with them having kids.

endlessunknown · Answer

To have a child they had to be attractive to someone, so physically yes they are probably attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

Not into it. I assume they’re more grateful for the attention which could be a positive, but it’s not going to outweigh a kid for me.

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