Never been groped, and never want to by either gender.
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It has happened quite a few times. Most have happened at bars.
This one time at a concert but I believed the guy when he said it was an accident. He was drunk and about to fall right next to me, I leaned towards him to catch him before he fell face first, and his arms went out at the same time to catch the fall, his hand ended up on my boob. But once he realized, he took his hand off and turned red. Kept apologizing.
Yes, in certain environments, stuff happens that's no one's fault. I've been to many concerts where people were crowd surfing, and since I don't love being in the pit, I tended to be more on the edge of the crowd. As a result, a lot of the crowd surfers - male and female - ended up getting shoved near me and either I'd grab them or they'd literally fall to the floor.
In a few cases, some girl would get thrown towards me and I'd grab her so she didn't hit the floor head/neck first, and I'd end up grabbing her boob as I caught her (keep in mind sometimes you have about half a second to react). Not only did no girl ever complain, almost every one thanked me for grabbing her so she didn't fall. It's not like I was intentionally grabbing for boobs or anything, but in a wild crowd, things happen quickly and you have to react and take action or people get hurt (and I've seen plenty of people get hurt!).
I was about to say this too! I’ve crowed surfed at concerts and when I was about to fall, I have luckily been caught. And a few guys did accidentally grab my boob but I know it wasn’t intentional.
Exactly. In other examples, I've had female friends/acquaintances who were kind of klutzy and tended to walk into things or fall. I remember one time a group of people were walking down the street together, and this girl turned around to talk to someone, stepped off the curb, somehow tripped herself, and was falling backwards right at a fire hydrant. She was flailing her arms so I could only grab her around her torso - and got two handfuls of boob. I kept her from falling back-first into the hydrant, which would have been VERY bad - and she never said a word about me grabbing her boobs, because it obviously wasn't done on purpose - there's no way I could have planned that in the split second I had to react. So, yeah, things happen sometimes. but it's not always intentional.
But I'd like to express my sincere concern for you; perhaps yiu need to distance yourself from certain areas and social crowds? These men sound like pathetic creepy little perverts.
And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why feminists hate men so much. They see this and only this. Partly because if you actively hate and speak against something constantly, you attract it.
Well, I can't see why they couldn't notice... Perhaps they simply wouldn't?
If you don't mind my asking, in what country do you live and what culture do you subscribe to? That could have an influence on the attitude exhibited by your parents.
... In my culture, perverts get beaten to a pulp in the middle of the night by beefy farmers. If you're going to start with a defeatist attitude, no-one's going to give a shit.
I believe girls get groped in public and think most guys believe that is true. But do you believe guys get groped as well? I expect that to be less for guys but most victims won't mention it not to appear weak
I’m just gonna say it the way it is, but if the man doing the groping is a total stud that the girl discovers to be one irresistible dude. Then she’ll go along with it. But if the dude looks like urkel then she loses her shit... kinda fucked up but at the same time I don’t blame them
It couldn't be further from the truth. You are wrong and it is no more appropriate for attractive people to grope others than it is for unattractive. Most girls I know don't like it either way or care what a guy looks like. If you look at the results, the majority of peopled don't like being groped in general
@biggn i have fun in real life you should see some of the women I've fucked! You sitting here calling me gay pfft! Youndirty little troll peice of shit trying to get eroused to stories of women being groped haha you sad peice of ahit find some fucking rope and hang yourself you cunt
Mostly bars and clubs... it's rather annoying simply because when drunk they are a little more forceful than they should be... I've been racked a couple times thanks to this lol... but aside from that I don't mind much
Once from a "fellow" student it was unwanted contact, I felt violated and hated the consuler wanted to kill the consuler at the time, and by my boss, he essentially dry humped at work, I was a delivery driver for parts, and he wondered why I didn't hangout after work, I don't work there now because of my changed health, but that bitch didn't last after I left 😆😆😆
I'm here to help make you see how much we have to do as guys to avoid these situations why do you want to talk about problems if you are going to make a shit comment about a post. you don't need to judge me just reply or move on
@biggn I don't want to dm. In a big crowd it's hard, because you often don't know for sure who they are and it's too busy to confront someone. When clubbing it depends how severe. If it's just a touch nothing much. If it's really harassment then I get really mad and ask for backup from male friends. At the subway I asked for help from a man sitting nearby. On my bike, I hit his hand away, got mad. Then he threatened to rape me and then I biked away as fast as possible (I was about 15 and these guys were as well).
Yea, a few times in public, I guess the ladies just can't resist but it still doesn't make it right, you can't just go out and grope someone just cause you feel like it...
that is fucked , those guys are creeps lol... the only time id accidentally bump into a girl is on a overcrowded train on the way home , almost immediately apologizing...
I've been groped many times in public, in clubs to be exact and I don't mind it if girls is pretty 😂
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Once in Turkey. The groping and threat of rape was pretty bad in Egypt as a woman literally can't walk alone in the streets of Cairo in broad day light without being gang raped.
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Never been groped, and never want to by either gender.
It has happened quite a few times. Most have happened at bars.
This one time at a concert but I believed the guy when he said it was an accident. He was drunk and about to fall right next to me, I leaned towards him to catch him before he fell face first, and his arms went out at the same time to catch the fall, his hand ended up on my boob. But once he realized, he took his hand off and turned red. Kept apologizing.
Yes, in certain environments, stuff happens that's no one's fault. I've been to many concerts where people were crowd surfing, and since I don't love being in the pit, I tended to be more on the edge of the crowd. As a result, a lot of the crowd surfers - male and female - ended up getting shoved near me and either I'd grab them or they'd literally fall to the floor.
In a few cases, some girl would get thrown towards me and I'd grab her so she didn't hit the floor head/neck first, and I'd end up grabbing her boob as I caught her (keep in mind sometimes you have about half a second to react). Not only did no girl ever complain, almost every one thanked me for grabbing her so she didn't fall. It's not like I was intentionally grabbing for boobs or anything, but in a wild crowd, things happen quickly and you have to react and take action or people get hurt (and I've seen plenty of people get hurt!).
I was about to say this too! I’ve crowed surfed at concerts and when I was about to fall, I have luckily been caught. And a few guys did accidentally grab my boob but I know it wasn’t intentional.
Exactly. In other examples, I've had female friends/acquaintances who were kind of klutzy and tended to walk into things or fall. I remember one time a group of people were walking down the street together, and this girl turned around to talk to someone, stepped off the curb, somehow tripped herself, and was falling backwards right at a fire hydrant. She was flailing her arms so I could only grab her around her torso - and got two handfuls of boob. I kept her from falling back-first into the hydrant, which would have been VERY bad - and she never said a word about me grabbing her boobs, because it obviously wasn't done on purpose - there's no way I could have planned that in the split second I had to react. So, yeah, things happen sometimes. but it's not always intentional.
But I'd like to express my sincere concern for you; perhaps yiu need to distance yourself from certain areas and social crowds? These men sound like pathetic creepy little perverts.
And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why feminists hate men so much. They see this and only this. Partly because if you actively hate and speak against something constantly, you attract it.
Distance yourself?
First time it happened on the bus, My mom & Dad were 2 feet away.
Well, I can't see why they couldn't notice... Perhaps they simply wouldn't?
If you don't mind my asking, in what country do you live and what culture do you subscribe to? That could have an influence on the attitude exhibited by your parents.
So distance ourselves from the planet? Got it.
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In my culture, perverts get beaten to a pulp in the middle of the night by beefy farmers. If you're going to start with a defeatist attitude, no-one's going to give a shit.
I believe girls get groped in public and think most guys believe that is true. But do you believe guys get groped as well? I expect that to be less for guys but most victims won't mention it not to appear weak
I’m just gonna say it the way it is, but if the man doing the groping is a total stud that the girl discovers to be one irresistible dude. Then she’ll go along with it. But if the dude looks like urkel then she loses her shit... kinda fucked up but at the same time I don’t blame them
It doesn't matter what you look like, groping as always inappropriate behavior towards strangers in public
True, I agree. But at the same time what I just said is the cold hard truth
It couldn't be further from the truth. You are wrong and it is no more appropriate for attractive people to grope others than it is for unattractive. Most girls I know don't like it either way or care what a guy looks like. If you look at the results, the majority of peopled don't like being groped in general
Alright fair enough you win
Once in a queue at a festival and a few times in the swimming pool
I would love to be alone in a pool with you
@biggn 😂 Serial pervert! You probably got your dick out wanking reading this 😂 You can't get no pussy 😂
Mono you are so gay you sound like a bitch already. be yourself or have some fun and see what happens
@biggn i have fun in real life you should see some of the women I've fucked! You sitting here calling me gay pfft! Youndirty little troll peice of shit trying to get eroused to stories of women being groped haha you sad peice of ahit find some fucking rope and hang yourself you cunt
Lol you can't even show your ugly head you micro dick bitch
Send me a message please I have a question
Mostly bars and clubs... it's rather annoying simply because when drunk they are a little more forceful than they should be... I've been racked a couple times thanks to this lol... but aside from that I don't mind much
Once from a "fellow" student it was unwanted contact, I felt violated and hated the consuler wanted to kill the consuler at the time, and by my boss, he essentially dry humped at work, I was a delivery driver for parts, and he wondered why I didn't hangout after work, I don't work there now because of my changed health, but that bitch didn't last after I left 😆😆😆
Yes, thrice by a woman, and once by a homosexual man.
Two girls groped my ass at a nice college frat party and one girl commented on my ass when walking past me. I felt blessed oh hallelujah
Always when clubbing, but also often in crowded areas. Also on the subway once. On my bike going back from school once.
I'd like to chat with you please tell me how you dealt with these situations
@biggn You need sex help man i say that woth love. What you're doing won't help you it just isolates you more man! #dontbeapervert
I'm here to help make you see how much we have to do as guys to avoid these situations why do you want to talk about problems if you are going to make a shit comment about a post. you don't need to judge me just reply or move on
@biggn I don't want to dm. In a big crowd it's hard, because you often don't know for sure who they are and it's too busy to confront someone.
When clubbing it depends how severe. If it's just a touch nothing much. If it's really harassment then I get really mad and ask for backup from male friends.
At the subway I asked for help from a man sitting nearby.
On my bike, I hit his hand away, got mad. Then he threatened to rape me and then I biked away as fast as possible (I was about 15 and these guys were as well).
Thanks for honesty, do girls ever grope guys randomly?
Can't tell. Never done it and I don't know anyone who have done it or would do, but I'm pretty sure it happens often enough.
I went out just last night a some creep went around our whole friendship group groping each of our bums. Some guys don’t know how to act!
What did you do
We all took him to the side and lectured him on how that’s not okay...
What did he say did you do anything as he was touching you
Yea, a few times in public, I guess the ladies just can't resist but it still doesn't make it right, you can't just go out and grope someone just cause you feel like it...
Yeah, it's actually not super uncommon. Usually by older, drunker women. Occasionally by younger ones too.
that is fucked , those guys are creeps lol... the only time id accidentally bump into a girl is on a overcrowded train on the way home , almost immediately apologizing...
Thats true but you sound like a hardcore beta male lol
Yup. Slapped the shit out of them too.
Haha I've had to do that a few times myself
Good 😤
i have had a few times. but 1 time it made me feel so disgusting after that i still think about it and feel guilty for letting him go there.
If a guy groops me, he would see the nicest person he ever seen and hear in his life!!
I've been groped many times in public, in clubs to be exact and I don't mind it if girls is pretty 😂
Once in Turkey. The groping and threat of rape was pretty bad in Egypt as a woman literally can't walk alone in the streets of Cairo in broad day light without being gang raped.