Have you been groped in public?

Question

This is for all the guys on here who doubt women actually get groped in public by creeps. I personally have been groped many, many, many times , even after I've told guys to stop

BlahBlehBluh · Accepted Answer

I think you should create a poll asking the guys on here how many of them doubt or even disbelieve women who make this claim.

Unfortunately, it wouldn't be scientific, and you run the risk of men trolling the survey, but I do believe that, over time, assuming more than a few men answer it, the results would show that the vast majority of men do believe the claim or believe it but recognize that some small percentage of women making the claim are for whatever reason, lying.

As for myself, I think 9 out of 10 women are telling the truth, either as a matter of fact, or as a matter of honest belief about who attacked them. What I mean by that is that false identifications on the part of a victim of sexual assault can and do happen, but a majority of them are made as sincere mistakes, or can be the result of the power of suggestion.

Burgerboy21 · Accepted Answer

The only thing that surprises me is that anyone is surprised at this in the first place! Of course it happens, and it surely doesn't take a genius to figure that out.

Now what actually may be harder to believe, I'm a guy and I've been groped too. As you can see, yes I am overweight. I got bullied in the bus quite a few times in high school, including being groped, or rather "scooped" by other guys.

SarahVanRensburg · Accepted Answer

I’ve had this happen many times too. Most of the time it’s happened at work. I work at a restaurant that also has two bars (upstairs and downstairs) so on game nights all the men are there drinking and watching some game. I’ve had heaps of guys my age and guys like twice my age put their hands on my butt, side of my thighs, my back and my arms. It’s disgusting. Even after I’d tell them to not touch me, they just smile and do it again. My boss doesn’t do anything about it because it brings him more customers (male customers)

Arctic_Fox · Accepted Answer

I voted no, but then remembered I have been. It was my old boss who touched my ass, but I guess that’s more work place harassment; especially since he always made comments or talked about my legs and butt bc I workout.
I don’t think public groping happens here as much, we don’t have that catcalling culture or less women than men (I only heard that’s why it happens in Asian countries lol could be wrong) but it probably does happen still.

jeffiner · Answer

Yes, and its always my ass that they grab. So once i slapped the guy across his face (it was an automatic reaction, and a well deserved one too), another time this guy keot saying i needed to let him bend me over and let him show me what an ass like mine can do and he kept trying to grab it.. 😎.. So when he actually did, i turned around so fast slammed him against the wall with my arm shoved into his adams apple amd my knee in his groin while i had his hand bent so far back if he tried to move it would have snapped, and i told him that if he said one more time that i needed to let him bend me over, then I was going to bend HIM over and show HIM what HIS ass could do! He was soo scared, and he kept apologizing. Lol. After that, my friend bought me pepper spray to carry on me. Another time, a GIRL came up behind me and grabbed my ass pulling me in to her and tried kissing my neck.. She got a head butt into her face and shoved me forward because she was so mad. Lololol. My best friend as a teenager taught me how to protect myself and its something i think ALL females should learn. I also think males shoukd learn how to RESTRAIN a woman so as not to HIT her of she gets dumb and attacks him or if she is a creepy pervert and gropes him.

passinby · Answer

To all of the innocent women:

one girlfriend punched me to ask me out.

One sat in the booth next to me and started pushing on me and hitting me to ask me out.

A woman in a bar just grabbed my crotch to go out, just like that.

One (a waitress) threw my food at me to ask me out.

Another in a bar just grabbed my shirt to kiss me.

One blocked the door on a restroom in a dive to get my attention.

One just walked up to me on a dock and took my hand and led me off…

Oh yeah one just grabbed my arm while walking by in a bar..

I will remember more..

I don’t grope or do any of this to women, so who are you lecturing?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, first time when it happened to me I was 11.
I was too scared and confused to do anything, so I let it slide.
Then next time when I was groped I was 15.
I don't know what's worse. The fact that guys feel like they can freely grope women, or that most of them pray on children (since I turned 16 I haven't experienced this).

DJB72 · Answer

In my late teens (when dinosaurs walked the earth) I was a healthier shape than I am now and I got felt up by girls a few times.

The first time was very arousing as I hadn't had a girlfriend at that point, but my appreciation wore off very quickly.

It's actually sexual assault. By the time I was 18 I had several friends of both genders that had confided in me about being raped, abused or both. After the first friend came to me I developed a zero tolerance for it in either gender.

I will step in to stop a guy groping a girl. I've been threatened by guys more than once for doing so. I'll be father to a son in a few weeks, and I want to raise him to be a real gentleman

Ki_Wavy · Answer

yes. men have grabbed by ass on many occasions and a man reached under my romper and attempted to finger me from behind when we were in a crowd of people.

hsshannah96 · Answer

My friend JUST DID. We spoke on the phone with her mother today and our family friend was groped and the guy who did it was kicked out of the water park

Erikababbz · Answer

Yes, I've had my boobs grabbed and fondled twice by strangers. Once at a concert. And once at a beach, where the guy even tried to get at my nipple.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

I don't think the guys here understood your question.

fay23 · Answer

Hmm, the poll shows that more men have been groped that's interesting I didn't expect that. I myself have never been groped thank god.

Anonymous · Answer

and for all the women who think only guys are creeps and do this sort of thing... yes I have been groped many times by women/girls. When will we stop "blaming men" and start blaming "people"? Both genders are obviously guilty of this a lot. No ladies, it's NOT okay for you to grab my tight ass, my arms, my chest, feel my abs just because I have the body of a Greek god and it makes you horny. Hands to yourself please. And it makes me sick when I see guys do that to girls. Too many people think that because they like something they have the right to touch it.

CHARismatic110 · Answer

I have a long history of it unfortunately. I went through being molested at 7 by an older cousin. One of the times he didn't care to wait til everyone was gone and he did it in front of his little brother. As an adult, most times it's usually in settings like bars and nightclubs. Guys will walk past and pretend that they can't get past just to grab my ass. Girls can also get handsy when too much alcohol is involved. I've had a few boob squeezes happen.

AtomicCheesing · Answer

A customer grabbed my butt at work when I was in high school

jdrrichmond · Answer

Did you kick him in the balls? You should have. Or if you have a friend who's like me, get him to have a talk with the guy.

btgs012 · Answer

Hey if you get groped and you tell then to stop and they dont if i where you, they would get punched. But thats just me

Nahliability · Answer

Happened to me a couple times, the most disgusting ones were always on public transport

Alexandrianaleigh · Answer

I don't know why, I'm 13, but people do it a lot. Mostly people my age

Anonymous · Answer

I haven’t, thankfully, but I’m usually with my family or, well, just ugly and wearing baggy clothes so guys leave me alone.
That does not give them a right to grope you though and I’m sorry that you had to experience it!!! :(

admles · Answer

Yeah, a few times.

The most recent was this awesome outdoor concert I Was at, and I was at the front against the railing, and this drunk lady behind me kept grabbing my butt.

I'd complain and tell her to cut it out, and she and her friends would just laugh.

I eventually told the security guard, and he warned her twice, then the third time she was escorted out, and her friends blamed me...

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Yea it’s happened a couple times before... recently I went to the club one guy slapped my ass really hard which made half of my drink spill it’s annoying. Don’t touch me.

Prof_Don · Answer

Once in high school, a girl grabbed my butt walking down the stairs. I felt violated 😐

aceexp · Answer

Never been groped, and never want to by either gender.

Anonymous · Answer

It has happened quite a few times. Most have happened at bars.

This one time at a concert but I believed the guy when he said it was an accident. He was drunk and about to fall right next to me, I leaned towards him to catch him before he fell face first, and his arms went out at the same time to catch the fall, his hand ended up on my boob. But once he realized, he took his hand off and turned red. Kept apologizing.

TomatoeUnicorn · Answer

But I'd like to express my sincere concern for you; perhaps yiu need to distance yourself from certain areas and social crowds? These men sound like pathetic creepy little perverts.

And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why feminists hate men so much. They see this and only this. Partly because if you actively hate and speak against something constantly, you attract it.

halfbowsey · Answer

I believe girls get groped in public and think most guys believe that is true. But do you believe guys get groped as well? I expect that to be less for guys but most victims won't mention it not to appear weak

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I’m just gonna say it the way it is, but if the man doing the groping is a total stud that the girl discovers to be one irresistible dude. Then she’ll go along with it. But if the dude looks like urkel then she loses her shit... kinda fucked up but at the same time I don’t blame them

sinastyle · Answer

Once in a queue at a festival and a few times in the swimming pool

TKtato · Answer

Mostly bars and clubs... it's rather annoying simply because when drunk they are a little more forceful than they should be... I've been racked a couple times thanks to this lol... but aside from that I don't mind much

geminiboner · Answer

Once from a "fellow" student it was unwanted contact, I felt violated and hated the consuler wanted to kill the consuler at the time, and by my boss, he essentially dry humped at work, I was a delivery driver for parts, and he wondered why I didn't hangout after work, I don't work there now because of my changed health, but that bitch didn't last after I left 😆😆😆

torwulf · Answer

Yes, thrice by a woman, and once by a homosexual man.

NoToriousROB · Answer

Two girls groped my ass at a nice college frat party and one girl commented on my ass when walking past me. I felt blessed oh hallelujah

spuitkaas · Answer

Always when clubbing, but also often in crowded areas. Also on the subway once. On my bike going back from school once.

Kayttt · Answer

I went out just last night a some creep went around our whole friendship group groping each of our bums. Some guys don’t know how to act!

Udbhav_Bantwal · Answer

Yea, a few times in public, I guess the ladies just can't resist but it still doesn't make it right, you can't just go out and grope someone just cause you feel like it...

SaintJonesy · Answer

Yeah, it's actually not super uncommon. Usually by older, drunker women. Occasionally by younger ones too.

ArmaniX · Answer

that is fucked , those guys are creeps lol... the only time id accidentally bump into a girl is on a overcrowded train on the way home , almost immediately apologizing...

Raven93 · Answer

Yup. Slapped the shit out of them too.

magzz · Answer

i have had a few times. but 1 time it made me feel so disgusting after that i still think about it and feel guilty for letting him go there.

Salsacumbia · Answer

If a guy groops me, he would see the nicest person he ever seen and hear in his life!!

Joseph97 · Answer

I've been groped many times in public, in clubs to be exact and I don't mind it if girls is pretty 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Once in Turkey. The groping and threat of rape was pretty bad in Egypt as a woman literally can't walk alone in the streets of Cairo in broad day light without being gang raped.

jessture · Answer

I've been groped by women. One woman had the audacity to reach down my pants and grab my penis. Fun fact... society only cares when its a woman that is groped.

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes I was walking down the stairs at my school and a short girl grabbed my penis and it didn't bother me one single bit as a matter of fact that was another notch in my belt

fairweatherfriend · Answer

I've seen firsthand guys groping girls and have called them out on it. Its low and despicable. Guys get groped too, but that doesn't justify that kind of behavior.

AlmightyBunchy · Answer

No, that has'nt happened to me... at least not yet.

ultimega · Answer

Yes and i bloody hated it. Especially on public transportation when its packed and you can't tell who is doing it...

FatherJack · Answer

Yes , mainly when working as a doorman , however women believe it is OK to grab a mans nether regions

Benedek38 · Answer

Can't take criticism I see!  I never said I don't believe you were groped. I said you are lying that people (and apparently, the security staff, too) allowed it. That shit just doesn't happen.

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Yes and I hate how some men are raised and act like ape. They see a women. , and they think that they can touch them. Gross!

LegateLanius · Answer

I have never done either - been groped or groped. I feel sorry for those that have.

Anonymous · Answer

So you are one of those people who complain about men and make men the villain in every situation right? You are right, men are disrespectful on this site. Not because you are a women but because you are a self righteous person who acts like you are above us. As for all the guys who "doubt" your experience I can find a ton of alt right women who have no respect for yours either

JohnFrost · Answer

Most of the times i dont mind its kinda a double standart but im bothered enough to break up the fun for it.

BartLad · Answer

Hen parties are the worst... Women acting crazy trying to get guys boxers etc pestering to the point I left

Momoishag · Answer

Yeah couple times in clubs when I've been kissing girls they put they hands in on my dick. This is years ago lol i was like 18-19

Anarky_420 · Answer

I've been groped in public but only by girls I was in a relationship. That being said, I wouldn't mind being groped in public but only if the girl is pretty.

bannacookies · Answer

Yes. At the store, at the gym, at the park... it happens.

Aynsof · Answer

Yes I have it happens Wouldn't say it is a regular occurrence but it happens

BlackParade · Answer

A custumer said "hi" to me without my consent the other day.

osaose · Answer

If you've been groped many many times... then I'm starting to think it's because the way you dress... not so much the guys...

biggn · Answer

Its happened to me a few times I've also been guilty of it I love it

Floyd1279 · Answer

Yes by a gay guy twice creepzzz

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